Jacksparr0w127:
You think it's a joke? Ask around
I'm happily married with a daughter
Happy new month

okay,I believe.Happy new month to you too.

Authentic1010:
Lmao OP most of the chicks I know can take care of themselves, you're probably not meeting the right women or ur in the wrong click.

Its not about meeting the right women, its about the mentality. There is more to money and sex in a relationship.

Tiny23:


okay,I believe.Happy new month to you too.

Ire akari oooo

Jacksparr0w127:
Ire akari oooo

Ameen

Mtcchhheeeew
What does a man have to offer an independent woman in a relationship?

NaeChris:
Its not about meeting the right women, its about the mentality. There is more to money and sex in a relationship.

That's what I'm saying, ur in the click of ppl with a certain mentality, and the men in that vicinity also contributed in creating the mentality.

Huge sigh while smh

BoosBae:
Mtcchhheeeew

What does a man have to offer an independent woman in a relationship?

The question is, how many women are ready to be independent? They should not be limiting themselves.

NaeChris:
Remove sex from a relationship and you
will discover that 98% of ladies have
nothing to offer in relationships.
Remove money from a relationship and
you will discover that 90% of ladies
won’t see a reason to be in that
relationship.
Most ladies bring sex into relationship and
expect money and other financial gains
from the relationship. All these stories of
companionship, romantic, understanding,
handsome, caring, tall, dark, good
mannered etc. all mean nearly nothing to
most ladies.
Ladies be responsible nd maintain your
virtue nd dignity as an important
personality in d society... Y trade your body
for material things
BE WISE

Yea hope you will allow your sis/daughter marry a wheelbarrow pusher?

Authentic1010:


That's what I'm saying, ur in the click of ppl with a certain mentality, and the men in that vicinity also contributed in creating the mentality.

Well, if you say so. I agree with your second point though.

runsguy:


Yea hope you will allow your sis/daughter marry a wheelbarrow pusher?

So long as the wheel barrow pusher has vision and is hardworking and if she loves him.

NaeChris:
So long as the wheel barrow pusher has vision and is hardworking and if she loves him.

Good one then brother, good one. As for me, my daughter/sista cannot marry a taxi driver

runsguy:


Good one then brother, good one. As for me, my daughter/sista cannot marry a taxi driver

So taxi drivers are not good husbands ba? If all fathers were like you. There are taxi drivers who has graduates as sons and daughters.

NaeChris:
The question is, how many women are ready to be independent? They should not be limiting themselves.

And the ones that are independent, what do men have to offer?

There are a lot of independent women around if you must know.

Most times I wonder what a man has to offer in marriage, especially when he's got a working class wife.

NaeChris:
So taxi drivers are not good husbands ba? If all fathers were like you. There are taxi drivers who has graduates as sons and daughters.

Well I wont encourage it but if it's what it is then I will give my support but I don't pray for such. I don't think we should blame women for trying to be with someone that can take good care of them. however, we should discourage them from being obsessed with material things. I think looking out for an average man is not a bad thing to do.

BoosBae:
And the ones that are independent, what do men have to offer?

There are a lot of independent women around if you must know.

Most times I wonder what a man has to offer in marriage, especially when he's got a working class wife.

One of the things a man can offer is defence or Physical protection. Its not that a woman can't offer anything, but its their kind of mentality that is making them do what they do.

runsguy:


Well I wont encourage it but if it's what it is then I will give my support but I don't pray for such. I don't think we should blame women for trying to be with someone that can take good care of them. however, we should discourage them from being obsessed with material things. I think looking out for an average man is not a bad thing to do.

Na now you come.

NaeChris:
One of the things a man can offer is defence or Physical protection. Its not that a woman can't offer anything, but its their kind of mentality that is making them do what they do.

Defense? Lmao.

A woman does much more than a man in a relationship, but she's always taken for granted because of the money factor. You men think you do women a favour by giving them money. You men need to change your mentality too.

BoosBae:
Defense? Lmao.

A woman does much more than a man in a relationship, but she's always taken for granted because of the money factor. You men think you do women a favour by giving them money. You men need to change your mentality too.

LOL. Women offers more than men in relationship but i have given you one already. Well, if men have such mentality, women made it so. Their default mindset is to depend on a man. This is what i am fighting against. Imagine you as a big girl, meet him as a big boy. Haba! Who no like better thing?

NaeChris:
LOL. Women offers more than men in relationship but i have given you one already. Well, if men have such mentality, women made it so. Their default mindset is to depend on a man. This is what i am fighting against. Imagine you as a big girl, meet him as a big boy. Haba! Who no like better thing?

We women are not stupid. You don't expect us to cook for you, some lazy men even want ladies to clean and wash for them, sleep with you e.t.c and spend our money again? It's not that we don't earn a living, but we can't just be stupid. A lady has to enjoy the relationship too, we can't be doing for you guys and getting. Lol

Also, men like to be in charge, so we only massage your ego by being that damsel in distress.

All this money talk is for broke guys.

BoosBae:
We women are not stupid. You don't expect us to cook for you, some lazy men even want ladies to clean and wash for them, sleep with you e.t.c and spend our money again? It's not that we don't earn a living, but we can't just be stupid. A lady has to enjoy the relationship too, we can't be doing for you guys and getting. Lol

Also, men like to be in charge, so we only massage your ego by being that damsel in distress.

All this money talk is for broke guys.

Lol. You are quite correct but i said 'in a relationship' thats before marriage. Well, most ladies cook, wash and as well sleep with the guys sha. In your contex, you have to spend na, certainly not on the man, but on his/your lovely kids, thus being a help meet.

BoosBae:
We women are not stupid. You don't expect us to cook for you, some lazy men even want ladies to clean and wash for them, sleep with you e.t.c and spend our money again? It's not that we don't earn a living, but we can't just be stupid. A lady has to enjoy the relationship too, we can't be doing for you guys and getting. Lol

Also, men like to be in charge, so we only massage your ego by being that damsel in distress.

All this money talk is for broke guys.

Even if you spend on the man sef just as he is spending on you, na bad thing? I take men dependent ladies to be broke babes. Maybe you can put me right. I love to learn.

NaeChris:
Lol. You are quite correct but i said 'in a relationship' thats before marriage. Well, most ladies cook, wash and as well sleep with the guys sha. In your contex, you have to spend na, certainly not on the man, but on his/your lovely kids, thus being a help meet.

In marriage, a woman can spend on her man when the need arises.

I was talking about relationship not marriage.

NaeChris:
Even if you spend on the man sef just as he is spending on you, na bad thing? I take men dependent ladies to be broke babes. Maybe you can put me right. I love to learn.

It's not bad, as long as he doesn't get the 'wifey' benefits in the relationship. Lol

BoosBae:
In marriage, a woman can spend on her man when the need arises.

I was talking about relationship not marriage.

Yes the way ladies take this money and sex issues is making guys take you for granted. Imagine someone said ''every girlfriend is like olosho'' simply because they ask for money in the presence of sex probably as a gain or something.

BoosBae:
It's not bad, as long as he doesn't get the 'wifey' benefits in the relationship. Lol

LOl. No be una dey give them? Imagine if they say 'NO'.

NaeChris:
Yes the way ladies take this money and sex issues is making guys take you for granted. Imagine someone said ''every girlfriend is like olosho'' simply because they ask for money in the presence of sex probably as a gain or something.

You don't ask for money because of sex or at the point of having sex. You demand when you need it.

Whatever rocks her boat though, as long she doesn't feel used and taken for granted.

NaeChris:
LOl. No be una dey give them? Imagine if they say 'NO'.

Every woman with her values. Not every woman sleeps with her man before marriage. Some Will never wash for you. To each his own. Women do some of these things so they are considered marriageable.

BoosBae:
Every woman with her values. Not every woman sleeps with her man before marriage. Some Will never wash for you. To each his own. Women do some of these things so they are considered marriageable.

Thats true. Everybody get his/her way.

BoosBae:
You don't ask for money because of sex or at the point of having sex. You demand when you need it.

Whatever rocks her boat though, as long she doesn't feel used and taken for granted.

She may not see it as anything, but the next person is reading a different meaning into it. Thats the point.

slimthugchimee2:


What Is happening there, they share cake in za oda room?

Cause I love cakes