l met this girl who was lovely,caring and fun to be with at anytime.she told me to define what i wanted out of the relationship in which i finally agreed that i was going to marry her then we started dating and doing everything together and suddenly she called me and told me that there is something she needs to tell me and that if i will be willing to take a critical stand on that issue.she told me she was my age mate and i found out she 4 mnths older than me just we both 28.she also told me she was married and later Divorced this man within a year reason been that the man impregnated another woman and she filled a Divorced and left the marriage that lasted for a year and travel out of the country 4 3yrs and nw she is bck and working hoping to start life all over again.l was shocked and stunned because really dont know if i should let go or still keep her.pls i need your advice as soon as possible.

Follow your heart.

Big deal! I thot ud say somethn more interesting like u found out she was a dude! Or,u found out she was a dude wit 6 balls and 9 peni.s*es!my nucca she's ure age,big deal!go wit ur heart

keep her

@akuoma, both of u at thesame age bracket does not matter.
at least, she's not older in terms of addition of a year, but she,married
before and divorced hmm, its a hard one.good a thing she told u, she
has heart.if it were me i wont marry her.thats my stack.let her go.

who cares what happend in the past, as long as it didnt overlap with you it is of no consiquence. 

i love how men here b*tch about thier gf past but get ticked off if anyone discusses thiers. 

the past is the past, move on