They say all ladies are beautiful but people like myself don't buy it, maybe beauty is in the eyes of the beholder but to a realist like me, there are beautiful ladies and there are the rest. I did not create this thread to distinguish between them but to share my recent experience.

Pretty ladies over there, have you ever experienced such a situation in which a friend or neighbor of yours who you know is really not up to 1/10 as much beautiful as you are but having many suitors always visiting her but none coming for you and how did or do you feel?

I had this experience with my two closest neighbors in school who are female, one is not just prettier than the other but far prettier than her but what baffles me most is that the prettier one never had suitors coming for her like the other one though she never showed it or reacted. I'm having similar experience between two corpers in Kano, they are friends and roommates, something happened last Friday, the pretty one was inside and her friend had a visitor but she was not around so the guy dropped a message that the pretty one should tell the other lady that he had been trying to reach her but not through, that she should call him when she came back, but she did not deliver it to her, when she came back from her PPA last night, something happened, I think the lady eventually met with the guy and when she came back, she asked her friend why she did not tell her about who came looking for her, the pretty one then furiously said "Am I your messenger?" This will come, that will come telling me to deliver message, enough of all this".. The issue really went crazy and they had a go at each other that we other occupants had to intervene and I felt a bit embarrassed with how she altered those words because on a real sense, I like the pretty one more than the other because she is kind of friendly and simple and to be honest I like to get close to pretty ladies but not necessarilly because I want to date them but I just love it that way but I don't enjoy knowing that she said those words.

What do I think? They are both grown ladies who I sense are in dire need of potential husbands but the pretty one most probably does not have any, not even visitors apart from me, don't bother to ask me why I cannot go for her, I can't because she is older. I think she is kind of frustrated, maybe I'm wrong but that is what came to most people's minds when she altered those words and everyone including myself criticized her actions, I'm sure she will be regretting how she behaved. She's not that type but I like other occupants don't know where that spirit came from, maybe she is not happy with the way nobody comes for her, maybe she has this absurd fear (You know that fear that some have that they may eventually remain single forever). I also think most men think she would have been taken maybe that's why they see her as no go area because she is really pretty

Have you ever a pretty lady experienced this and what was your response and reaction, I mean inside you or outside you, please be honest.

Only confident and non jealous guys go for the prettiest

because she is kind of friendly and simple and to be honest I like to get close to pretty ladies but not necessarilly because I want to date them but I just love it that way

You're one of the reasons pretty girls don't get suitors. When most men are clumping around them just to get close, how will the serious men get assurance for a lifelong relationship with them.

the pretty one then furiously said "Am I your messenger?" This will come, that will come telling me to deliver message, enough of all this"..

This is an additional reason, she get pepperbody which is bad on it's own but some men are bold enough to cope with such if d excessive beauty isn't there. With this beauty palava, the wahala is double.

Besides I'm yet to see a beautiful girl who's not intoxicated by excess attention. The effect over time is that they gradually lose focus and deviate far from the 'proper woman' mindset (im not talking of being a virgin)..its an unconscious thing. Some don't even know who they should be anymore. To them life is just about dating, meet guys, go out together etc. And their wife materialism ends there just like celebrities do.

"WIFE" is something deeper, beauty apart. And a suitor is not a player. Players see beauty, suitors see beyond it.

NobleBeer:
Only confident and non jealous guys go for the prettiest

Is there anything like non jealous? Stop posting yeye im the name of 1st poster. How can you really love someone and not be jealous. Even God dey jealous.

Make she humble herself oo... No b by fine face ooo.. A lot of fine girls dey 6feet under d ground

When they think that BEAUTY is everything.



#TeamManneredGirls

The fact that you are not seeing the suitors does not mean they are not there.

Not everyone is sociable and relaxed like that to the point of letting people into their homes that way.

And who has plenty boys visiting you helped?

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You're one of the reasons pretty girls don't get suitors. When most men are clumping around them just to get close, how will the serious men get assurance for a lifelong relationship with them.


Our relationship is a casual one, we live in the same place so that is why I go to her place sometimes not that there is a hidden agenda

Irony of life

it might be spiritual

Character....not just beauty...... I'm out....