TOPE2000!:

Tee hee hee
but marriages or relationships are not all abt sex
it involves a lot more than that, there is nothing wrong with a yr or 2 of just kissing n handling without sex in a relationship

i thought u say u like bad guys. u shld be able to deal with it.    why r u trying to convince him rotfl

oyinda.:


hmm i see. i get what u mean. that's the type of guy u want?  
i prefer clean cut outside, nice and caring on the inside. but that's just me i guess. inside should match the outside

No no no, gah, I'm confused

I would love nice and caring on the inside too, with a hint of bad, but like I said, it depends what one consider's bad, I don't neccesarily mean effing and blinding all over the place, mistreating people etc

I have my own definition, as does everyone else

~Sauron~:

If it's not about sex then have a relationship with a woman.

Sauron  
so relationship is just abt sex to u?

How is kissing n handling any different from sex?

Well if u think kissing n handling is sex then happy dayz then
atleast  the main is still intact

oyinda.:


hmm i see. i get what u mean. that's the type of guy u want?  
i prefer clean cut outside, nice and caring on the inside. but that's just me i guess. inside should match the outside

exactly

TOPE2000!:

Sauron  
so relationship is just abt sex to u?

What else is there to it?
Your sex organs are there for a purpose.

Well if u think kissing n handling is sex then happy dayz then
atleast  the main is still intact

Abegggggi, fornication is fornication.
All those times you stared at ma 6-pac. . . . .U have fornicated with me.
A Virgin can still go to hell for fornication.

adolfe bad:

@ oyinda
that's obviously what you want
but are you sure you don't deserve more THRILL in your life?

why do u assume that everybody else is like u?
i deserve more calm and stability in my life. that's what i prefer.

ibkaye:

No no no, gah, I'm confused

I would love nice and caring on the inside too, with a hint of bad, but like I said, it depends what one consider's bad, I don't neccesarily mean effing and blinding all over the place, mistreating people etc

I have my own definition, as does everyone else

so what do u mean by "hint of bad"? yea ur confused.
I mean no one is perfect. even the good guys do things that would be consider bad at times. but in general, they're good guys.
and the bad guys will have some good in them at times too even though in general, they're bad guys

@ oyinda
is there anything as calm and stable as the dichrotic pleasure of a good THRILL?
most ladies don't know what they want yet

~Sauron~:

What else is there to it?
Your sex organs are there for a purpose.

Lol . . .and i thot u have changed last nite

Abegggggi, fornication is fornication.
All those times you stared at ma 6-pac. . . . .U have fornicated with me.
A Virgin can still go to hell for fornication.

Lmao
so i suggest we leave matter to God then

oyinda.:

so what do u mean by "hint of bad"? yea your confused.
I mean no one is perfect. even the good guys do things that would be consider bad at times. but in general, they're good guys.
and the bad guys will have some good in them at times too even though in general, they're bad guys

Lol, alright, good guy it is then

adolfe bad:

@ oyinda
is there anything as calm and stable as the dichrotic pleasure of a good THRILL?
most ladies don't know what they want yet

people have different personalities. some seek thrill and others prefer a calm life. I fall into the latter category thank u very much!!
even ur user name adolfe bad is enough to know ur kind. lol

If you want to experience it jus live up to it and explore
be led to pleasurably do the unthinkable and have a blissful aftermath
thats where confidence lies~ exploring those dark sides you've alwayz wanted to experience

aren't we supposed to be talking about ladies here?
I think you've derailed enuff!!
Lol

@ ibkaye
first you said bad, now its good
changing ur tone as usual
lol

i think i get the hint of bad bit, its something similar to what you said, nobody wants a wuss(well. . .sorta), so for a girl it would mean a guy that does all the nice stuff but can still tell you to shut your trap when the need arises.

i think the problem is with the definitions though, cos most people see good guys as wusses, and good girls as boring. even meself that is holier than the pope wouldn't want to be called good!

netotse:

i think i get the hint of bad bit, its something similar to what you said, nobody wants a wuss(well. . .sorta), so for a girl it would mean a guy that does all the nice stuff but can still tell you to shut your trap when the need arises.

i think the problem is with the definitions though, cos most people see good guys as wusses, and good girls as boring. even meself that is holier than the pope wouldn't want to be called good!

perfect post.
there is a difference between a good guy and a wuss. even a bad guy can be a wuss ie not respectable n sulky. There are certainly good guys that still maintain their grounds and are well respected.

yea I totally get u in the bolded part. ppl have the perception of bad= cool. which is very wrong and not true at all.

adolfe bad:

If you want to experience it jus live up to it and explore
be led to pleasurably do the unthinkable and have a blissful aftermath
thats where confidence lies~ exploring those dark sides you've alwayz wanted to experience

aren't we supposed to be talking about ladies here?
I think you've derailed enuff!!
Lol

stop cheating on ur wife!!

If i HAD a wife i wuldn't cheat on her

good 4 u
just don't let all the "thrill seeking" blind u into doing something u will regret later on.

adolfe bad:

@ ibkaye
first you said bad, now its good
changing your tone as usual
lol

ibukun is always wavering in decision. she vacillates unlike any other I've seen.

Don't worry
we all have our limits on our adventorous desires

but i'm surprised i'm getting an advice from you
are you holier than me or
tell me you've never crossed the YARD before?
Lol

adolfe bad:

@ ibkaye
first you said bad, now its good
changing your tone as usual
lol

H2O2:

ibukun is always wavering in decision. she vacillates unlike any other I've seen.

Actually I said mixture, I just wasn't clear on her definitions of 'good' and bad', thankyou very much  

we are all mixtures

If you say so pumpkin.

But hydrogen peroxide is a compound and not a MIXTURE!!
lol

^pumpkin ko. . . alubosa ni

adolfe bad:

Don't worry
we all have our limits on our adventorous desires

but i'm surprised i'm getting an advice from you
are you holier than me or
tell me you've never crossed the YARD before?
Lol

i'm glad u recognize that there are limits. some ppl don't know that or don't care abt that.
n wat u mean by crossing the YARD?  



@Ibukun, yea i agree there are problems with the definition of good vs bad guys/girls etc. each person has a different definition
but mostly this topic is abt outward appearance and dressing style anyways. ppl generally base their first impression of ppl from how they look.
but i guess what's inside can be different like u mentioned n that is harder to define.

oyinda.:

i'm glad u recognize that there are limits. some ppl don't know that or don't care abt that.
n wat u mean by crossing the YARD?



@Ibukun, yea i agree there are problems with the definition of good vs bad guys/girls etc. each person has a different definition
but mostly this topic is abt outward appearance and dressing style anyways. ppl generally base their first impression of ppl from how they look.
but i guess what's inside can be different like u mentioned n that is harder to define.

Exactly

ps. you know my name is't actually Ibukun right, H202 always just calls me that for some strange reason

yea i figured ur[i] real name[/i] wasn't ibukun but ur nairaland name is ibukun though. sorry but it has stuck with u.
it's not just h2oh, everyone calls u dat. lol

Crossing the yard?
Does the moon walk or it roll?
I'm probably more of a saint than you are
lol

Ibukun, you've started again. That's your name joo

Anyway, I agree with you, it depends on how you define 'good' and 'bad'.

Also agree with netotse.

Lol, don't you start now

Oyinda i tink its only normal 4 bad guys 2 prefer d bad girls & vise vasal! 4 we d clean cut guys, we alwys prefer our type. And 4 guyz who want d clean cut insid & bad outsid, i advic u 4get it cus dey've both got same property & beliv it or not a clean cut girl can giv u same pleasur 2! So 4get al d efizy, all na PACKAGING!

netotse:

^pumpkin ko. . . alubosa ni

@ Valll
nice but u know it's not about sex only. The good ones myt be too shy to allow you kiss them in public, some are boring and they don't get over an heartbreak easily e.t.c.
But they'll make a good wife n raise ur kids in a Godly manner
lol