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We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by Marisol911(f): 4:43pm On May 05, 2017 |
by hollyannriordan He hasn't answered me for three days straight, so I claim that I'm finished with him. That I don't want anything to do with him anymore. That I deserve better than scum like him. But then his name pops up on my phone screen and I forget all about the promises I made myself. The butterflies eclipse my anger, making me forget that I was even upset in the first place. Maybe I forgave him because he used an excuse about how he lost his phone or how he's been swamped with work and I forced myself to believe his lies. Or maybe he didn't even acknowledge the fact that he's been MIA and we both played pretend, acting like everything was fine, like everything was normal. Either way, I don't care, because he's here now and the now is all that matters. Now, he's paying attention to me. Now, he's interested in me. Now, I'm happy. But that happiness doesn't last for long, because he keeps doing the same damn things over and over again. He talks to me. Flirts with me. Wins me over. And then he disappears. For one week. Two. Comes back. And the cycle starts again. Part of it is my fault, because I let him do it, I let him get away with his vanishing act without calling him out on it. I keep giving him chances that we both know he doesn't deserve, because I have hope that he's eventually going to stay. Because I like playing pretend as much as he does, acting like we're headed toward something serious, like maybe we're meant to be. The problem is that I have too much faith in people. They make promises to me that everyone else knows they can't keep, but I believe that they can. That they're being authentic and are actually going to do what they say they're going to do. I've been screwed over so many times that you'd think I'd be a cold hearted skeptic by now -- but I'm not. I'm still as hopeful as ever. I still believe in the goodness of people. I still think positively But now, i think maybe i shouldn't, i would not be walked over. I should stop giving chances to guys who would still screw me over.. It stops now 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by dingbang(m): 4:57pm On May 05, 2017 |
Mchew |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by MayhorE(m): 5:16pm On May 05, 2017 |
that means you are a fool |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by Marisol911(f): 5:21pm On May 05, 2017 |
MayhorE:Why the insult? 1 Like |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by Marisol911(f): 5:22pm On May 05, 2017 |
[quote author=dingbang post=56240357]Mchew[/quo |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by FreeSpirited: 5:31pm On May 05, 2017 |
Unfortunately, you are dating a fvckboy,alias bad guys. That's their trait and trademark. They are often very good in bed....Take heart or break up. |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by Azerbella(f): 5:33pm On May 05, 2017 |
Funny thread |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by escapefromusa(f): 5:35pm On May 05, 2017 |
FreeSpirited: Ohh so thats wat it means |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by FreeSpirited: 5:41pm On May 05, 2017 |
escapefromusa:Yea. They will turn you on and off...They also win with sweet mouth and solid excuses |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by spencerlouis(m): 5:42pm On May 05, 2017 |
MayhorE:u ar d fool here 1 Like |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by Jaynom(m): 5:44pm On May 05, 2017 |
Thank God your tittle says "BOYS" The truth is you're nothing but a piece of meat to him, your singular purpose(to him) is to ease his conji 1 Like |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by MayhorE(m): 5:46pm On May 05, 2017 |
spencerlouis:I said so because you sounds like one |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by MayhorE(m): 5:49pm On May 05, 2017 |
Marisol911: because only fools act like that, using basket to fetch water, is that not lack of Sense, and she came here saying they give *guys* chances they didn't deserve, who DM EPP |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by aderosh(f): 5:57pm On May 05, 2017 |
Jaynom:Dats true.thank God u are wise nw 1 Like |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by Jaynom(m): 7:01pm On May 05, 2017 |
aderosh:You're pretty |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by TrapHedges(m): 7:02pm On May 05, 2017 |
Lol |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by babyfaceafrica: 7:12pm On May 05, 2017 |
Noted |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by Yesiambeautiful(f): 7:49pm On May 05, 2017 |
I dont see d need for insults when some of us here would do worse when in love.it's easy to judge and condemn from afar I know how u feel dear i just wish u will take a stand,start by talking To him And if he doesn't change please dear block him and start Afresh its not easy but its worth trying to save yourself from d emotional circle. |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by siie: 8:12pm On May 05, 2017 |
Marisol911:This girl sha with fake stories!.. Na u dem invent copy and paste for? 2 Likes |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by Marisol911(f): 2:19am On May 06, 2017 |
MayhorE:So,is that what is paining you? |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by Marisol911(f): 2:22am On May 06, 2017 |
FreeSpirited: Yea right? |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by Marisol911(f): 2:23am On May 06, 2017 |
Yesiambeautiful: Thanks a bunch, at least somebody on this thread has sense |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by Marisol911(f): 2:25am On May 06, 2017 |
Jaynom: Thats clear enough now,thank u |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by Marisol911(f): 2:26am On May 06, 2017 |
TrapHedges:I think i missed the joke |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by Sanemind(m): 2:49am On May 06, 2017 |
All ur post is about relationships,dat makes me wonder if... |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by Marisol911(f): 2:57am On May 06, 2017 |
Sanemind:if wat |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by schumastic(m): 5:52am On May 06, 2017 |
THAT'S WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU BELIEVE IN THAT SHIT CALLED LOVE.. INFATUATED PEEPS EVERYWHERE 1 Like |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by dingbang(m): 6:31am On May 06, 2017 |
Marisol911:if you have a life outside relationships |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by Sanemind(m): 7:37am On May 06, 2017 |
Marisol911:you know the rest |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by Marisol911(f): 10:23am On May 06, 2017 |
dingbang:Oh, you want me to tell you a story about how i go to church and attend classes or how I eat or what? . Guy swerve if you don't have sense |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by dingbang(m): 10:28am On May 06, 2017 |
Marisol911:lol... She don para. |
Re: We Give Out Too Many Chances To Boys Who Don’t Deserve them by Marisol911(f): 10:35am On May 06, 2017 |
schumastic:hmm. what to do na.. love is an integral part of life |
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