Have you noticed that all the good songs only celebrate mothers? WHAT HAVE NIGERIA FATHERS DONE TO DESERVE THIS?
Try this one:

Who sat and watched my infant head
When sleeping on my cradle bed
And tears of sweet affection shed?
My mother.

Or this one:

Sweet mother, I no go forget you
For dis suffer wey you suffer for me eh….

The Yoruba people are not left out.

Iya ni wura iyebiye, ti a ko le fowora

https://naijmobile.com/are-nigeria-fathers-that-bad/

Carry belle born first then come back and tell us if you wont compose your own double stanzas for mothers. You think say tocarry belle na beans.

On a more serious note, men are also celebrated; maybe not through songs but their immense impact is felt as they support their partner all through the pregnancy duration and also provide financially

who's more dear to you enny66, your mum or dad? and why?

Depends on the father.
Men often are laid back when it comes to receiving praises.They think it's their responsibility and they do what they gotta do like Americans say.
Women enjoy the praises so they get what they wanna get.

Women get serenaded, men get celebrated.