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Marriage is a life-long journey, and waiting for love may be tough, but it’s the wise thing to do.

Just ask Banky.

After years of searching, he finally struck gold with sweet Adesua Etomi.

Waiting for true love is like waiting at the bus-stop for the right bus. If you impatiently jump on the wrong bus, you will find yourself at a place you don’t want to be.

5 reasons you shouldn’t rush into just any bus to begin your marital journey with.

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1. The bus is not going your way.
Certain people make it clear from the onset that their goals in life are totally different from yours. You may be ready to settle down, but he or she isn’t. Or you may envision you and your partner as power couples, ruling in their different careers, but he or she believes a woman should sit at home and care for the kids.

There’s also the issue of different core values. If you have strong disagreements about key issues you both hold dear, then your buses are heading in different directions.

Wait for a bus going your way so you don’t find yourself in a destination you don’t want to be.

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2. The bus SEEMS to be going your way
If you are unsure of the person, and he/she is not making effort to clarify those key gray areas you have, then that may not be your bus.

You need to have peace of mind about whoever you are with. Do they really love you for you? What are their intentions for both of you? Do you have similar goals and core values?

Don’t begin the journey of marriage with someone who you have deep uncertainties about.

If you are not sure, then try to get clarity with communication or you let that bus go.

Your own bus will come. Keep waiting for love.

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3. The bus is rickety looking.

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Don’t begin the journey of marriage with someone who you have deep uncertainties about.



This is the only reason why I break up with girls... Thanks..

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