Hello Guys, I need your candid thoughts on this issue..

This month is the 12 th month since I started dating this lady. I know she loves me because she has been supportive as I am not working currently and thus broke. she works with one of the big four audit firms. Although she still stays with her parents

she calls, helps with some cash when I am in dire need. Heck, she even sponsored out last date.

I love her too, and yes, I need her now. At least if I was going to receive one call a day, she would be the one (friends are too busy, parents don't need to call).

she assures me that she always want to be there for me, and I need not worry about her leaving me. But , I notice something,. At times she doesn't pick my calls and the only explanation i get is that "I was doing something". something she never tells me exactly what.

she did same today. we spoke this morning and all was fine, we said our " love you'" and wished eachoda a great Sunday.
she called later in the afternoon at 2 pm. I was asleep and thus missed the call. Although I called her back after waking about 10 times between 4 and 9 pm, she did not pick up.

However, she called by10pm and all she said was that she was doing somethings. I asked what and she went mute and only offered that we talk later.

I am palpitating, sweating, and staring at the ceiling, confused and can't sleep . I have enough on my plate already, a part of me is telling to move on, or prepared to receive the break up line. Another part of me is crying, I need her , don't leave me now.

Pls help with experienced advice

Bro You Nt Having A Job, U're A Liability To Her. Obviously Shez Busy Building Her Self... Dnt Let The Cal Issue Bother You. Just Find Sumtin Doin To Earn Her Respect.

Op..stop having negative thoughts.

Wat do u think such a person wud be doin at 10 pm while u knw she still stays at her parents.



My gf is more or less d same...no be big deal.



Stop being paranoid.

yomi007k:


Op..stop having negative thoughts.

Wat do u think such a person wud be doin at 10 pm while u knw she still stays at her parents.



My gf is more or less d same...no be big deal.



Stop being paranoid.

Brother, our talk time is usually between 11-12pm each day

kessdan:



Brother, our talk time is usually between 11-12pm each day

E no matter...my gf also misses our talk time 10 to 11 pm.
Another tin is dt, dt ur talk time may be a lil uncomfortable. ..ask her if she is ok wt it.

The last thing I would do right now is to let love destabilize my life... I shouldn't even catch myself falling in love...


Love is for weak people.. Oh yes..I said so..

yes sure...
we have talked at this time for abt 12 months now...
she missed my calls, called to say we wld talk later only..
omoh I just weak....
I have totally buried my ego mehn...its like she is rubbing it in my face

yes sure...
we have talked at this time for abt 12 months now...
she missed my calls, called to say we wld talk later only..
omoh I just weak....
I have totally buried my ego mehn...its like she is rubbing it in my face

dingbang:
The last thing I would do right now is to let love destabilize my life... I shouldn't even catch myself falling in love...


Love is for weak people.. Oh yes..I said so..

Not true