please nairalanders, is it right for a girl to ask a guy out?
Even to the extent that she is ready to do 'ANYTHING' just for the guy to date her.
But the funniest thing is that the guy is not even feeling anything for her. just curious tho

oluwasheenah:
please nairalanders, is it right for a girl to ask a guy out?
Even to the extent that she is ready to do 'ANYTHING' just for the guy to date her.
But the funniest thing is that the guy is not even feeling anything for her. just curious tho

Go and ask him out and when u guys have your day and night game
Come back here and cry that he used and dumped you
Waiting patiently for rest of story

It's left bro

OK so what makes her different from a creepy stalker then? If there's no interest, don't pursue. Simple. Save your "anything" for someone that wants it.

Take a chance....

divay22 wat have to say abt this?

I don't see any thing wrong with a girl asking a guy out.. For fvcks sake, there is a thread on front page talking about a lady who dropped her interest in a guy and now they are married..

Its just the same thing as we asking ladies out, if she likes the guy then they got chemistry. If she doesn't, d guy moves on.. Its simple.


Secondly girls shouldn't think a guy must reciprocate same feelings when dey like him.. Love is so not by force or compulsion. Its only when you force him to like you back that's when he takes your love for granted..

it happens..... I have been asked out two times and I ended up dating one of them.... the other, I don't feel anything for

Well it depends on the type of guy... I don't see anything wrong in a gal asking a guy out.... but wen it's done to d wrong person...na die u dey...
Nd if d guy has no feelings imply b matured about it... and lay it out to d gal...

the last girl who did that, i went with the flow and after a week...she asked if i love her

haha, i said "i dont, but i want to"

then i smashed the congo and "didnt want to" any longer

huhuhuhuhaahaha

If you are in love with a guy, you can gladly ask him out. If he accepts, you are lucky but if he doesn't, life goes on. You will not die

It has happened 2 me thrice
but dey do it in a way like
Hw is ur gal friend?
do u really love her?
Are u both very close

No
Cos some guys may look at her as cheap. guys don't value girls they didn't sweat to get
others may just sex her and then it's over, some may date her out of pity
Only few responsible guys will value her

I'm not a girl, I can't speak for them

Rukkydelta:
No
Cos some guys may look at her as cheap. guys don't value girls they didn't sweat to get
others may just sex her and then it's over, some may date her out of pity
Only few responsible guys will value her

Cheap? I think it depends on her personality.

If she acts cheap, she would be dumped.

If she respects herself after asking me, out she would be adored.

Hmmm

lefulefu:
divay22 wat have to say abt this?

I believe in doing whatever makes you happy.....
So i don't see anything bad in it, but as a girl it just shows how bold and fearless you are in getting anything you want....but take your head along...

I have once done it ,Told dude i love him, but he told me he doesn't know what love means to him.....
I kept my cool and move ahead, months later dude came back and said He now knows what love means and i replied TOO LATE, because that part of me is gone.....And now he just wouldn't lemme be, I can only breeze in to facebook at night, just to avoid his messages........



But now i laugh over it, because i never for once thought i had the boldness of doing that.....
And I'm happy i got that experience ....




So go for what you want, it either it gives you happiness or experience......

Fkforyou:

Cheap? I think it depends on her personality.
If she acts cheap, she would be dumped.
If she respects herself after asking me, out she would be adored.

In what way will she act that will make her look cheap?

Rukkydelta:

In what way will she act that will make her look cheap?

It's simple now, you asked someone out, he agreed, fine, the next thing is to give him time and motive to become emotionally invested in the relationship now.

In essence find a way to make the chasing to be balanced.

If only one person is doing the chasing, whether him/her there is bound to be lost of interest.

Brah..shiits like asking if its right to pee from the pussy

Divay22:

I believe in doing whatever makes you happy.....
So i don't see anything bad in it, but as a girl it just shows how bold and fearless you are in getting anything you want....but take your head along...

I have once done it ,Told dude i love him, but he told me he doesn't know what love means to him.....
I kept my cool and move ahead, months later dude came back and said He now knows what love means and i replied TOO LATE, because that part of me is gone.....And now he just wouldn't lemme be, I can only breeze in to facebook at night, just to avoid his messages........



But now i laugh over it, because i never for once thought i had the boldness of doing that.....
And I'm happy i got that experience ....




So go for what you want, it either it gives you happiness or experience......

eeya...dude missed his chance.i guesss he would be feeling right now like..

oluwasheenah:
please nairalanders, is it right for a girl to ask a guy out?
Even to the extent that she is ready to do 'ANYTHING' just for the guy to date her.
But the funniest thing is that the guy is not even feeling anything for her. just curious tho

Don't dare ask a guy out . no matter how hot he looks .
He will smash the kpomo and still dump you .

Bad move .
Don't try it .

No it is not bad, girls just like guys are emotional being if it even more... The girl should do so without looking desperate.

Fkforyou:


It's simple now, you asked someone out, he agreed, fine, the next thing is to give him time and motive to become emotionally invested in the relationship now.

In essence find a way to make the chasing to be balanced.

If only one person is doing the chasing, whether him/her there is bound to be lost of interest.

Alright
Have a nice day

Rukkydelta:

Alright
Have a nice day

And you too.