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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by smellingmenses: 2:54pm On May 14, 2017
Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers.
Lilimax:
Nobe me talk am nah. So says the Holy book smiley I repeat, a fool says in his heart that there is no God embarassed
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by proudlyYoruba(m): 2:56pm On May 14, 2017
chemystery:
evidence
do u want me to show you the image of GOD or do you want testimony. Cause I don't have is image
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 3:01pm On May 14, 2017
2sexynet:
Atheist should date Atheist... simple.
If that's your boxed view of life then so be it.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by smellingmenses: 3:03pm On May 14, 2017
Sadly that's true. Lost should follow lost.
Raine80:

If that's your boxed view of life then so be it.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by DarkRider: 3:06pm On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
sorry bro, can't do that undecided

PS
I really want to thank u guys for your sincere reasonable advice, i'm grateful, really.,also thank u lalasticlala smiley

But I still noticed that the Christians are filled with so much hate that I begin to wonder if they are really Christians as they claim to be, wow so many insults from them, but it's cool sha wink
When it comes to religion people tend to blow things out of proportion.
Let's simplify this, Christianity is a way of life. You can't be with someone who does not agree with your way of life and vice-versa. The only solution is if one of you changes; Since I'm a Christian, I would advise that you make the change if you really love her. She'd make an awesome companion as she has already proved to you that she would be faithful by rejecting you for your beliefs despite feelings and other things she has towards you. The choice is yours bro.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 3:10pm On May 14, 2017
nurshah:



How can you be good when you have denied the only good thing in your life when you have betrayed and are disloyal to your own creator... Don't deceive your srlc ... You are not good


Your ignorance is appalling , your God who created an imperfect world , ordered the killing of children and women , I put it to you , I'm better than you and your God.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by NaijaProxyBase: 3:14pm On May 14, 2017
Same old crap. Still talking about killing children and women. Nothing new.
neoapocalypse:



Your ignorance is appalling , your God who created an imperfect world , ordered the killing of children and women , I put it to you , I'm better than you and your God.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by flamingREED(m): 3:18pm On May 14, 2017
I can't still figure out how evolution created everything.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by TheEminentLaity: 3:21pm On May 14, 2017
Seriously? Did you truly expect the dunderhead to understand what you wrote? cheesy
MiddleDimension:


so funny how the one who has a 'better home training' is filled with this much hate and insults for a person he has never met and has the odersity to live true to his own convinctions!

My dear, wake up to the reality and know that Nigeria is taking a very good bend. Today we know that the existence of mountains and rocks and the solar eclipse is not a manifestation or evidence for the existence of God like you stupid people believe! We now know through the knowledge of science the causal factors for the existence of such things! Ofcourse there are gaps to our knowledge of the cosmos. But i am sure your uninformed self will not fall for the god of the gaps, are you? Fall for the god of the gaps and when that gap finally gets answered by science, watch yourself look like the big fooooll that you are, desperately changing goal posts to find a new evidence for the biggest lie ever told to manking; the existence of a supreme being!

Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by GiantParrot(m): 3:21pm On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
I met this girl recently everything has been going well until she found out I am an atheist, she started avoiding me and said she doesn't want anything to do with me because of that fact.

I really like her cry, is there anything I can do to ignite a change of mind on her part


@ OP, it's her loss. Based on personal experience, I can bet that at least 70% of Nigerian atheists/agnostics are model citizens, and less than 1% of religious people are model citizens. I believe the odds of finding a religious person with truly excellent character way too slim. The religious hypocrites abound all around. Below are some shameful behaviours you can easily find among religious people:

1. Gross abuse of office, extortion, embezzlement and/or misappropriation of funds
2. Electricity/energy theft
3. Advance fee fraud
4. Betrayal of trust in their marriages, relationships and friendships
5. Willful disobedience to traffic laws
6. Refusal to renew car papers
7. Use of pirated software
8. Violation of copyright laws.
9. Physical and emotional abuses on their wives/ girlfriends

And the list continues....

Maybe an underlying reason behind these observations is that religious people tend to not achieve the level of intelligence required to understand and appreciate the long term negative implications on society, of the above listed wrong behaviours.

I admit that the sample space available from my experiences is too small to make a general conclusion. But when I compare general behaviours in our society to those of more irreligious societies, I am more and more convinced that religion is a problem.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by chemystery: 3:24pm On May 14, 2017
proudlyYoruba:
do u want me to show you the image of GOD or do you want testimony. Cause I don't have is image
Are you telling me you don't have any evidence to prove god exists?
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by GiantParrot(m): 3:26pm On May 14, 2017
Food for thought

Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by chemystery: 3:27pm On May 14, 2017
flamingREED:
I can't still figure out how evolution created everything.

Asides from what the bible said, have you figured out how god created everything?
Who even created god? If your answer is he always was, then why can't you say the same for the universe?
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 3:28pm On May 14, 2017
NaijaProxyBase:
Same old crap. Still talking about killing children and women. Nothing new.


Yes same old crap , your God was once a murderer , you can't take that away from his résumé , yet you say he is holy , holy my hairy black arsss. What benevolent God will create humans only for Him to burn them in the fiery pits of hell for all eternity , sorry to burst your bubble but your God is a no good sadistic being who is incapable of mercy or love




A better way to look at it though is that there's no God and all holy books are works of imagination

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 3:31pm On May 14, 2017
GiantParrot:


@ OP, it's her loss. Based on personal experience, I can bet that at least 70% of Nigerian atheists/agnostics are model citizens, and less than 1% of religious people are model citizens. I believe the odds of finding a religious person with truly excellent character way too slim. The religious hypocrites abound all around. Below are some shameful behaviours you can easily find among religious people:

1. Gross abuse of office, extortion, embezzlement and/or misappropriation of funds
2. Electricity/energy theft
3. Advance fee fraud
4. Betrayal of trust in their marriages, relationships and friendships
5. Willful disobedience to traffic laws
6. Refusal to renew car papers
7. Use of pirated software
8. Violation of copyright laws.
9. Physical and emotional abuses on their wives/ girlfriends

And the list continues....

Maybe an underlying reason behind these observations is that religious people tend to not achieve the level of intelligence required to understand and appreciate the long term negative implications on society, of the above listed wrong behaviours.

I admit that the sample space available from my experiences is too small to make a general conclusion. But when I compare general behaviours in our society to those of more irreligious societies, I am more and more convinced that religion is a problem.



You deserve a bottle of cold Orijin and a plate of snake peppersoup

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 3:56pm On May 14, 2017
religion! religion!! religion!!!

Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 4:02pm On May 14, 2017
i think unbelivers should now envy your god

Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 4:23pm On May 14, 2017
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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 4:47pm On May 14, 2017
swallow this bleeping theists

Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 4:59pm On May 14, 2017
hello christians!

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by sendmeonly(m): 5:13pm On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
I met this girl recently everything has been going well until she found out I am an atheist, she started avoiding me and said she doesn't want anything to do with me because of that fact.

I really like her cry, is there anything I can do to ignite a change of mind on her part



She is doing the right thing, so you don't become a bad or negative influence, remember Do not be equally yoked with an unbeliever, so better retrace your philosophy and carry the gospel of Christ and stop your intellectual deceit before it leads you where you may not like...
cheers
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by suremanpatriot: 5:15pm On May 14, 2017
Nma27:
So you telling me there's chaos in Russia? I'm am fully aware that religion is a form of social control but the English who introduced it to us are not this fanatical. They respect ones decision to either serve a God or not.
Russia is typical example of benign chaos,see how they plundered ukrane lik hitler in the quest for domination within. Remember tht most western country even though they introduced religion they hav departed from the norms of religion after being enlightened to evolve their own style of civilzation which is trendin globally.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Joebie: 5:15pm On May 14, 2017
Very well said. But it's not exclusive to majority of Nigerians.

Mujtahida:
The great majority of Nigerian Christians worship an Idol they call God. Believe is the mother of idolatry.

"Those who say they believe in God and yet neither love nor fear Him, do not in fact believe in Him but in those who have taught them that God exists. Those who believe that they believe in God, but without any passion in their heart, any anguish of mind, without uncertainty, without doubt, without an element of despair even in their consolation, believe only in the God-idea, not in God."
Miguel de Unamuno
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Greyman11(m): 5:27pm On May 14, 2017
justiniyke29:
Nt married,its just dat i have no probs with anybody's religion as lng as watever u serve doesnt harm me physically.
bless you bro,u re really matured in reasoning
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Cityguy: 5:28pm On May 14, 2017
I wouldn't blame her. She knows what she can take and not take. If you guys don't flow in that all important area, forget it. For her, love is not enough. There are atheist ladies around. Look for one and get going. Best of luck.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Anfieldboss: 5:31pm On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
I met this girl recently everything has been going well until she found out I am an atheist, she started avoiding me and said she doesn't want anything to do with me because of that fact.

I really like her cry, is there anything I can do to ignite a change of mind on her part


You're an atheist and you're bearing Japhet a biblical name? How come?
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by NaijaProxyBase: 5:59pm On May 14, 2017
Wow...Still same old crap. Can you guys say something different ?
neoapocalypse:



Yes same old crap , your God was once a murderer , you can't take that away from his résumé , yet you say he is holy , holy my hairy black arsss. What benevolent God will create humans only for Him to burn them in the fiery pits of hell for all eternity , sorry to burst your bubble but your God is a no good sadistic being who is incapable of mercy or love




A better way to look at it though is that there's no God and all holy books are works of imagination
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by davien(m): 6:03pm On May 14, 2017
Japhet04,don't worry you'll definitely get a girl(atheist or not) who loves you,always challenge the idea that you're somehow "unlovable" because of your non-belief...I challenged my gf then and you can do too(if you choose to reveal yourself to a theist partner next time),the saying "only a fool says there is no god" that they usually throw she threw it and i challenged her on that to get her bible and read the continuation to that and she was surprised...shocker! I'm not evil and don't have evil intentions,so i told her that the bible is not just what groups of people spoke as gods word' but also has the opinions of the men who wrote each chapter...why'd you think god would tell someone to hate menstruating women,women prophets,foreskins,working on sabath,etc...it's the same as what we have today,denominations or churches that give exclusive opinions on what they think god wants them to do.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by bencarson007(m): 6:28pm On May 14, 2017
TWOYANSH:

how sir? grin
. Go figure it for yourself.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by elkon(m): 6:32pm On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
I met this girl recently everything has been going well until she found out I am an atheist, she started avoiding me and said she doesn't want anything to do with me because of that fact.

I really like her cry, is there anything I can do to ignite a change of mind on her part

wow are you for real. . anyway I don't blame her oo.. She should even run
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 6:34pm On May 14, 2017
suremanpatriot:

Russia is typical example of benign chaos,see how they plundered ukrane lik hitler in the quest for domination within. Remember tht most western country even though they introduced religion they hav departed from the norms of religion after being enlightened to evolve their own style of civilzation which is trendin globally.
so therefore, we need to evolve too and attain such civilization too ryt?
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 7:02pm On May 14, 2017
Jman06:
Just imagine the sort of lies you are spreading to make the atheists look bad. Who hate women Definitely not atheists.

It beats my imagination how religious folks are always quick to start hyperventilating at the mention of atheism. Perhaps it is because atheism bursts your bubbles. You folks think that one cannot succeed without your sky god, so it pains you when atheists do. Take heart!

Lol! I was talking about theists not atheists. You completely miss read my comment.

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