ojun50:
See dis girl is hiding somtin beside u said d guy said both of them hv been dating for a year plus infact i think u nt really sure of yr stand with her.


Guy u be plan B for her said infact ast her more about her past.

GodsLastBorn:
Tried calling the dude to engage in a conference call with them but he doesn't pick the call, bro. As for my stand with her, I wanted to marry her. I don't want to tell her that until the right time, I don't know whether you understand. This is a girl I'm crazy in love with and could vouch for until this recent occurrence. what would you do in this situation?

lawrykings:
it may be a psychological ploy from the guy so you could break up with your girl... this may give him opportunity to win over your girl after break up.

it could also be that what he is saying is true. either way, just take your time, learn to be smart in your relationship with your girl, take your time study her moves, actions, call her at unguarded moment (times you don't normally call) act more friendly and harmless as you study her moves!

lawrykings:
it may be a psychological ploy from the guy so you could break up with your girl... this may give him opportunity to win over your girl after break up.

it could also be that what he is saying is true. either way, just take your time, learn to be smart in your relationship with your girl, take your time study her moves, actions, call her at unguarded moment (times you don't normally call) act more friendly and harmless as you study her moves!

GodsLastBorn:
[b][/b] that's what I suspected which I think is a smart move by the guy but the bleeped up thing is that all these were happening and she was "playing along". THIT

GodsLastBorn:
Tried calling the dude to engage in a conference call with them but he doesn't pick the call, bro. As for my stand with her, I wanted to marry her. I don't want to tell her that until the right time, I don't know whether you understand. This is a girl I'm crazy in love with and could vouch for until this recent occurrence. what would you do in this situation?

ojun50:


seat her down nd ask about past nd wht she has been up to wen u nt around

GodsLastBorn:
She's calling and saying I should stop with the accusations that she's losing her breath, and she was diagnosed with heart issues of late crying and stuff. The concept she uses when she wants me to do what she wants because she knew I don't like to see her crying a bit. Some girls and manipulation.
How can I marry this girl knowing the possibility of this repeating itself?

fernandobush:

Dump that mother fucker!!
and na Toks2008 dey cause all this thing!
With him mumu threads up and down!!

GodsLastBorn:
Here my friend goes:

hi to the people on this forum, I'm a Civil Engineer by profession and I'm independent (Entrepreneur), i construct buildings and my work takes me out of Abuja to other states so recently I travelled to the east for a project meanwhile me and my girl haven't been able to spend quality time together for about 3-4 months now for a lot of reasons, schedule clashing, distance to name a few but we do communicate daily. I have been dating this girl for about 8 months now. we started dating last year August and I'm thinking of marrying her if everything works and checks out. The relationship have had its ups and downs like relationships do and we've worked things out it until last two weeks.

She was about taking some taking some medical checkups for some official stuff and it got to her scans its a young guy. She told me about how the guy asked her to strip so that he can scan her breast which she was shy about and how embarrassing it was for her and we laughed about it, she said the guy gave her his umbrella to go with ( and that negatively tingled my N.S) and started being nice to her and I didn't bother to ask her how she's going to give it back.

Few days, i came back tired and walking towards my room like a soldier back from the war front and everything in me is trying to drag me to the bed with no bathe but Im trying to head to the bathroom i decided to chill in the sitting room and watch a little news on Trump finally trashing obamacare and about to doze off when suddenly my phone rang. A guy called me on the phone and was asking me if I know Sylvia ThisThat and I said yes, is there any problem? he went on to ask if I'm in a relationship with her and I asked him who is he? after much of his beating around the bush he told me his name and how he has been dating Sylvia for about a year, that she's his fiance and have been spending on her but he won't anymore and will not marry her that she's a cheat that i should go on dating her that he has left her for me. i asked him how he got my number and he said he got it from a text message I sent to her and asked her who i am and she said that I'm her uncle but the content of the text can't be from an uncle and a lot more and this pissed me off but I chilled because I don't react until I discover the facts and truth about things after all its only one side of the story.

The next morning was Sunday and I feel better so I called my girl Sylvia to know how she's doing and ask her about the guy ( this is a girl I believed is an angel and wouldn't do such). After she picked, we exchanged pleasantries, by the way I fked up. I was supposed to call her yesterday and congratulate her on her convocation which I forgot. Its terrible and unlikely of me and I quickly went on with apologies, I'll be damned she went on full rage about how could I forget and more ?! people she least expected called her but not me and that I've been fking around with many girls, cheating and doing nasty things behind her and that if I contact HIV that that's when I'll know myself and kept going in with different insults and more which left me dumbfounded but I kept my cool and said maybe the convocation meant this much to her that mine is to try and make her feel better and I'm kept trying to pet and calm her down.

The next day I called her again and she continued where she stopped, I've been flogged and my butt kicked by my conscience on how could I forget her convocation?! barely slept well and still trying to find a way to compensate for my f up.

she kept going at it, how men are all the same. I'm the kind that barely and hardly get mad or angry but when I do flip upside down, well after I calmed her down and apologised about my fuckdup she chilled then I finally got a chance to ask her "are you dating anyone else?" like three times and she said No, that how can I ask her such question (is that question horrible?). I told her everything about the call i got and she said she knows her suspect, that it must be Tunde the doctor that scanned her. That he had been disturbing her and one day sent her 10k and she told her cousin about it and the cousin advised her to chop the guy money since she no ask ( this is what I despise most in any female, what happened to self respect?!) that she decided to "play along" and they went shopping at shop right and gave her 3k for transport one time she visited him at his office. On Friday he asked her to come over to his place so that they can sleep over and go to the convocation together but she refused but he attended her convocation and drove her and her friends home. that "if I had been there that all these wouldn't have happened".

That sentence got me bleeped up... This crazy friend of mine is saying I should just forget the girl but what would you guys do if you were in my shoes?! I need your opinions. This is a girl I planned to marry but I don't want her to know my intentions until the right time. I know how I feel about the situation now but I want to see what you guys think before I do me.
Now I know she got a price, are there no more women that don't have a price in this world anymore? have they gone extinct?

Fame333:
op, She's just trying to make you jealous.. can't you see?

she need more of your attention and i bet she loves you dearly.?

and the doctors call anf all are all fabricated stories to make you jealous and for you to do the right thing at the right time.

she telling you in excess that she will walk away if you don't ask her hand in marriage now.

some times i wonder why men can't see when a women is pulling their leg.
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goodluck

Fame333:
op, She's just trying to make you jealous.. can't you see?

she need more of your attention and i bet she loves you dearly.?

and the doctors call anf all are all fabricated stories to make you jealous and for you to do the right thing at the right time.

she telling you in excess that she will walk away if you don't ask her hand in marriage now.

some times i wonder why men can't see when a women is pulling their leg.
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goodluck

GodsLastBorn:
Tried calling the dude to engage in a conference call with them but he doesn't pick the call, bro. As for my stand with her, I wanted to marry her. I don't want to tell her that until the right time, I don't know whether you understand. This is a girl I'm crazy in love with and could vouch for until this recent occurrence. what would you do in this situation?

Kosy79:
Bruh i advise you stay with her, she might be saying the truth or not but one thing for sure guys who can't have a girl they are wooing will cook up lies to mess her relationship like "'she's a harlot" "she has done many abortions" "she's a runs-girl" e.t.c.

If your girl recently met the doctor the it's obvious the doc could be lying when he said he has been dating for a year now............

Even if your girl cheated on you but proving remorseful forgive her. If there's no forgiveness there won't be sins.

Jay Z cheated on Beyonce couple of times but she didn't divorce like other rather she forgave and gave him a second chance.

Forgive and give her a second chance but if this kind of thing happen again then drop her ass.

EWAagoyin:
Something similar happening in my relationship.. . Bro I dump d girl straight without even telling her I've broken up with her.. ..she called last week I just great den hang up straight up.... At first it was hard for me but right every angle I enter Na babes just dey eye me upandan.... So you see it will be hard for you but in the long run u will get someone better which means in other words DUMP HER.... Refiner I sight ur comment jare nice one u be a very loyal good girlfriend. .keep it up dear