MISCONCEPTIONS

How long does it take for a man to cum? Wrong question. How long SHOULD it take a man to cum; how long SHOULD he last in bed?

A question on everyone’s lips: males and females alike. That’s understandable though, for obvious reasons.

Unfortunately, few people have an answer, and even fewer people have the accurate answer.

With pornography as the only reference point for most of us, we build our sexual fantasies based on it. We build our fantasies based on macho-looking professionals who apparently go 30 minutes without ejaculation, and still maintain a turgid hard-on, forgetting that these men take performance enhancers [both to sustain erection, and to boost physical strength], and may also use lubes that desensitize the penis to delay ejaculation.

Fantasies turns into myths, myths into legends, and slowly legends becomes expected realities. Scientific facts are thrown out of the window, and people are shamed for “helplessly” conforming to the dictates of the NORMAL body physiology.

The young man walks around depressed, thinking he is not “man enough,” with every of his thought punctuated by “premature ejaculation.”

The female driven by her own “selfishness” to satisfy perhaps unfounded fantasies, out of frustration, resorts to shaming: throwing around carelessly, expressions like “two minute man,” and “Indomie man.”...read on at : syncityng.com (under guest columnist)

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My mehn! ...in the world of sex ...there is nothing like fantasy. because you have failed to perform as long as those who engage in porn scenes does not mean they are fantasies

Most youths of nowadays must hv in one way or d other engaging in the delight watching of porn just for killing of curiosity and others for pleasure! ...but for me ...I can't remember the last time I watched porn!

... Why would I watch porn _when I can act porn! ...prrrft! I used to watch it then 2 learn n not be casted into the realm of being identified as a dull guy back in d days! ... Looking @ it most of the scenes are so unrealistic based on the fact that it is hard to keep yourself together esp. wen you are being massaged thru d time phrase of a Mouth Gig or when yu engage in s3x itself!

All you have to do instead of finding an excuse for not lasting long in bed n losing yur Folake to the guy next door! ...is to find a way of lasting longer just like those porn actors!

Get a tramadol of 100mg Nd swallow just one tablet (first timers) at least an hour before your Folake comes around! ... Yu will be surprised with the length at which yu will go without your John Thomas spilling out some grocery milk!

^^^^ any man using drugs to last in bed will be slaves to these drugs FOREVER, until his dikc won't function any longer, whether you take ONE pill or the whole box.

A man should FIRST understand that lasting in bed doesnt mean a woman would be satisfied, then SECOND he must Learn/discover with his babe what turn her on, what stimulates her, and FINALLY,when he starts having sex, as soon as he feels that he might explode, pull out and focus on something else for 5 mins (rather coochie, for example) before continuing mounting her... et voila!

MrBrownJay1:
^^^^ any man using drugs to last in bed will be slaves to these drugs FOREVER, until his dikc won't function any longer, whether you take ONE pill or the whole box.

A man should FIRST understand that lasting in bed doesnt mean a woman would be satisfied, then SECOND he must Learn/discover with his babe what turn her on, what stimulates her, and FINALLY,when he starts having sex, as soon as he feels that he might explode, pull out and focus on something else for 5 mins (rather coochie, for example) before continuing mounting her... et voila!

...hmmn! ... ! MrBrownJay ... I once had this notion of yours! ...trust me ...der is no pulling out for 5mins during s3x ... Unless yuar prepared to answer yur gf why yu stopped

... lemme guess yuar going 2 say " babe! Am just trying to get my mind off cuming inside you" ... Her next reply would be : " So quick! ... We just started few minutes ago! " ...with her face showing her downright disappointment in your lack of stamina on bed!

...trust me I would rather swim in a pool filled wit electric sockets ...than pass through such scenario coz am veri sure she will tell her bestie ao weak yu were after all the bullefproof bluffs about your blackhammer being d iroko of all trees in d forest

...they all tell their bestie everything! ...its weird but damn true! ...

swagguElite:
...hmmn! ... ! MrBrownJay ... I once had this notion of yours! ...trust me ...der is no pulling out for 5mins during s3x ... Unless yuar prepared to answer yur gf why yu stopped

... lemme guess yuar going 2 say " babe! Am just trying to get my mind off cuming inside you" ... Her next reply would be : " So quick! ... We just started few minutes ago! " ...with her face showing her downright disappointment in your lack of stamina on bed!

...trust me I would rather swim in a pool filled wit electric sockets ...than pass through such scenario coz am veri sure she will tell her bestie ao weak yu were after all the bullefproof bluffs about your blackhammer being d iroko of all trees in d forest

...they all tell their bestie everything! ...its weird but damn true! ...

You gotta be honest with your babe, no point pretending to be who you are not (as you are discovering each other). That's the only way you gonna succeed in A) being comfortable around one another and B) open up to let her in, thus making her understand your "possible" issues... If you can't TRUST her, then you have no business being naked dipping between her legs. I am not talking about a one night stand here, but your WOMAN.

Continuing to fukc someone when you know you are about to explode, WHILE you haven't satisfied your babe, is sexual BLASPHEMY.... You MUST stop, and when she asks why, you tell her that you are managing you energy.... And After a while, your feeling of exploding will naturally go away, so that you can bring out your superman moves.

Anybody who try to fake who they truly are in the bedroom, will fail.... Be honest with her, from the get go.

MrBrownJay1:


You gotta be honest with your babe, no point pretending to be who you are not (as you are discovering each other). That's the only way you gonna succeed in A) being comfortable around one another and B) open up to let her in, thus making her understand your "possible" issues... If you can't TRUST her, then you have no business being naked dipping between her legs. I am not talking about a one night stand here, but your WOMAN.

Continuing to fukc someone when you know you are about to explode, WHILE you haven't satisfied your babe, is sexual BLASPHEMY.... You MUST stop, and when she asks why, you tell her that you are managing you energy.... And After a while, your feeling of exploding will naturally go away, so that you can bring out your superman moves.

Anybody who try to fake who they truly are in the bedroom, will fail.... Be honest with her, from the get go.

hmmmn! Sexual blasphemy ...I respect your opinion Sir ... learnt something todae! It feels gud!

swagguElite:
My mehn! ...in the world of sex ...there is nothing like fantasy. because you have failed to perform as long as those who engage in porn scenes does not mean they are fantasies

Most youths of nowadays must hv in one way or d other engaging in the delight watching of porn just for killing of curiosity and others for pleasure! ...but for me ...I can't remember the last time I watched porn!

... Why would I watch porn _when I can act porn! ...prrrft! I used to watch it then 2 learn n not be casted into the realm of being identified as a dull guy back in d days! ... Looking @ it most of the scenes are so unrealistic based on the fact that it is hard to keep yourself together esp. wen you are being massaged thru d time phrase of a Mouth Gig or when yu engage in s3x itself!

All you have to do instead of finding an excuse for not lasting long in bed n losing yur Folake to the guy next door! ...is to find a way of lasting longer just like those porn actors!

Get a tramadol of 100mg Nd swallow just one tablet (first timers) at least an hour before your Folake comes around! ... Yu will be surprised with the length at which yu will go without your John Thomas spilling out some grocery milk!

Using drug to last in bed doesn't solve the problem

MrBrownJay1:
^^^^ any man using drugs to last in bed will be slaves to these drugs FOREVER, until his dikc won't function any longer, whether you take ONE pill or the whole box.

A man should FIRST understand that lasting in bed doesnt mean a woman would be satisfied, then SECOND he must Learn/discover with his babe what turn her on, what stimulates her, and FINALLY,when he starts having sex, as soon as he feels that he might explode, pull out and focus on something else for 5 mins (rather coochie, for example) before continuing mounting her... et voila!

Cool point.

Sex is becoming more "mechanical" than "emotional" these days. Reason being that people think a good sex should be at least 45 mins of banging, excluding pre-intimacy. If your woman does not like long bouts of sex and you are able to make her orgasm in 15 mins or less and she is satisfies, baba you na man. But if you have a woman that can go 5 rounds, then you surely got urself an uphill task to execute because as far as she is not satisfied or orgasm then u have only scratched d surface.

A man can cum at "any" time depending on the state of his reproductive organ. But a 2-8 mins cum na nonsense. 11 mins upward is modest.

PRISTINEMUSCLES:
Sex is becoming more "mechanical" than "emotional" these days. Reason being that people think a good sex should be at least 45 mins of banging, excluding pre-intimacy. If your woman does not like long bouts of sex and you are able to make her orgasm in 15 mins or less and she is satisfies, baba you na man. But if you have a woman that can go 5 rounds, then you surely got urself an uphill task to execute because as far as she is not satisfied or orgasm then u have only scratched d surface.

A man can cum at "any" time depending on the state of his reproductive organ. But a 2-8 mins cum na nonsense. 11 mins upward is modest.

Hmmm!

[quote author=PRISTINEMUSCLES post=56443778]Sex is becoming more "mechanical" than "emotional" these days. Reason being that people think a good sex should be at least 45 mins of banging, excluding pre-intimacy. If your woman does not like long bouts of sex and you are able to make her orgasm in 15 mins or less and she is satisfies, baba you na man. But if you have a woman that can go 5 rounds, then you surely got urself an uphill task to execute because as far as she is not satisfied or orgasm then u have only scratched d surface.

A man can cum at "any" time depending on the state of his reproductive organ. But a 2-8 mins cum na nonsense. 11 mins upward is modest.

I could come quite quick atimes but still have my di.ck rock hard to make her climax. I think if your desire is to satisfy her and not just thinking of yourself, you just might go long. For me sex is not rush!

iamqualmi:
I could come quite quick atimes but still have my di.ck rock hard to make her climax. I think if your desire is to satisfy her and not just thinking of yourself, you just might go long. For me sex is not rush!

Thanks for your contribution iamqualmi

PRISTINEMUSCLES:
Sex is becoming more "mechanical" than "emotional" these days. Reason being that people think a good sex should be at least 45 mins of banging, excluding pre-intimacy. If your woman does not like long bouts of sex and you are able to make her orgasm in 15 mins or less and she is satisfies, baba you na man. But if you have a woman that can go 5 rounds, then you surely got urself an uphill task to execute because as far as she is not satisfied or orgasm then u have only scratched d surface.

A man can cum at "any" time depending on the state of his reproductive organ. But a 2-8 mins cum na nonsense. 11 mins upward is modest.

Anything over 1 minute is waste of time and inefficient