Pls advice, i have someone i'am head over heels for her and we both feel the same way. the only problem is i've tried very hard to convince her that i will marry her but she says she wants me to say it not convince her.
I can't do without her and the most painful thing is that i know it. i have to put a couple of things in order
What do i do

Forget about marriage, It's not by force.

You better leave her then so that some serious guy will marry her. Why waste her time if you know you dont want to get married?

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Pls advice, i have someone i'am head over heels for her and we both feel the same way. the only problem is i've tried very hard to convince her that i will marry her but she says she wants me to say it not convince her.
I can't do without her and the most painful thing is that i know it. i have to put a couple of things in order
What do i do

what are you talking about? cant you commit to her and is it just difficult for you to convince her that you will marry her?

if you are really crazy in love with this gal then just be yourself and everything should be fine.
if for any reason you cannot be yourself etc then sit down with her and explain to her why you are the way you are. . . . . . .  if its reasonable, she will understand.

many people can SAY "i love you" but when its time to SHOW it then they run out of steam.

what do we have here, another player on the loose perhaps abi what do you mean scared of commitment