Raine80:
Ditch the friend. Surround yourself with forward thinking people.

Na so queen diva.

Mynd44:

Of course yes. It is simply pride. They dont think a woman can pay cos they like being in control.

And yes again, the only thing they have to offer is money so if they see a girl that earns her own money and spend her own money, they feel threatened

SPOT ON!!!!
Thats why, the minute a woman do not want to pay for anything in a r/ship, she should be dropped "that instant", as she is a liability. And if she ain't got a job/money then her man should instead spend money on educating her, so she can upgrade herself broke self.

dingbang:
some ladies got bad habits as well.. They feel that since they have paid, they make it look like a big deal

When they foolishly do, you put that ungrateful woman back to her place by making her understand that she must be very CHEAP, if she suddenly has a big mouth because she "once" paid for shiiit.

Raine80:
Ditch the friend. Surround yourself with forward thinking people.

Followed some of your posts for sometime... how old are you tho?

LePrezident:


Followed some of your posts for sometime... how old are you tho?

My age would help you how?

Raine80:

My age would help you how?

Trying to piece together my theory of why you're so smart.

LePrezident:


Trying to piece together my theory of why you're so smart.

Its not always about age, Some factors like morals , family background, Environment where one lives , kind of Lifestyle or even Music one listens to [ never underestimate the power of music ] also goes a long way . Though its believe age and maturity walk hand in hand. , there are brilliant exceptions.

Peacefullove:


Its not always about age, Some factors like morals , family background, Environment where one lives , kind of Lifestyle or even Music one listens to [ never underestimate the power of music ] also goes a long way . Though its believe age and maturity walk hand in hand. , there are brilliant exceptions.

True. I totally agree with you. How you are socialised is very important. And trust me for someone like me who loves good music, I understand the power of music to direct your life. It's just that Raine80 has set herself apart so much so that I've become curious. In fact you will not readily see it until you closely observe her contributions. I hope she gives us a summary of her bio tho.

LePrezident:


True. I totally agree with you. How you are socialised is very important. And trust me for someone like me who loves good music, I understand the power of music to direct your life.

Hmm , interesting bro, I found the bolded to be very true ... When I see guys behaving like thugs, Unkept hair , sags etc . Check their music list, You won't find anything reasonable except dj ty ft tifaya, Badest guy ft Dj kalid . in 98% cases

But when you see a focused, cool headed man who speaks words of wisdom . I implore you to check his music list too , Dont be suprised if you find foreign cool songs , Oldie's 80's musics and Local songs that are filled with life quotes.

This is why am happy you understand the power of music.

It's just that Raine80 has set herself apart so much so that I've become curious. In fact you will not readily see it until you closely observe her contributions. I hope she gives us a summary of her bio tho.

Lol, Raine80 is listening already . She might grant your request bro

Peacefullove:


Hmm , interesting bro, I found the bolded to be very true ... When I see guys behaving like thugs, Unkept hair , sags etc . Check their music list, You won't find anything reasonable except dj ty ft tifaya, Badest guy ft Dj kalid . in 98% cases

But when you see a focused, cool headed man who speaks words of wisdom . I implore you to check his music list too , Dont be suprised if you find foreign cool songs , Oldie's 80's musics and Local songs that are filled with life quotes.

This is why am happy you understand the power of music.



Lol, Raine80 is listening already . She might grant your request bro

Loool, I wouldn't want to bastardise hiphop in a hurry. In fact there are some DJ Khalid songs I listen to especially his latest that has Justin Bieber on. It's a cool track. I like hiphop but I'm unable to relate to recent hiphop songs be the likes of disiigner and 2chainz things. Only little quality hiphop these days (I dislike making statements like "these days" cos I believe music is generational and I won't want to be quick to shade a generation's music taste). I still stick with my Nas, Jay Z, Diddy and the likes.
But I'll choose timeless African music first (Like the Yossou Ndours, Angélique Kidjos et al), country, pop, some soft rock, afrobeat, zouk music (in fact any good song).

You should check out my current favorite, it's country

You Should be here by Cole Swindell


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K8WlCqZPTeg

And I hope Raine80 is really listening. I'm curious about how she's able to subtly stand-out.

LePrezident:


Trying to piece together my theory of why you're so smart.

Theory? Let's hear this theory and see if you measure up.

Raine80:

Theory? Let's hear this theory and see if you measure up.

Lol, I'm still piecing it together more reason I need you to help with some pointers like; age bracket (19 -22, 23-27, 28-32, 33-38, 39-45), where you spent your formative years, did you have your tertiary education in the jurisdiction of the Nigerian Federal state? Etc.

Kindly indulge me

LePrezident:


Lol, I'm still piecing it together more reason I need you to help with some pointers like; age bracket (19 -22, 23-27, 28-32, 33-38, 39-45), where you spent your formative years, did you have your tertiary education in the jurisdiction of the Nigerian Federal state? Etc.

Kindly indulge me

33-38
Formative years -split between 5 countries this one included
Tertiary - No to that question

What was your friend looking at while your babe was paying the bill?
He and his babe are the freeloaders here.

He should be ashamed of himself for not offering to pay at least half of the bill.
If it was rejected, it would be on record that he at least offered.

Raine80:

33-38
Formative years -split between 5 countries this one included
Tertiary - No to that question

Now these are the exact reasons why you make such delectable contributions to a wide range of topics. I now understand why you have a bird's eye view of issues coupled with an open mind which runs against the grain of the general mentality of this platform.

Thanks for indulging me.

Raine80:
Ditch the friend. Surround yourself with forward thinking people.

My thoughts too I don't find it a big deal unless I know you are the type yo keep reminding me about such

RichlyOBS:
my gf and I decided to stroll out after church service today... we decided to go to the nearest restaurant and on our way to the place i met a friend of mine and his gf taking a walk so I asked him if they are busy or they should join us.... he said he's free and he would like to join us... so we went there together... we get there and everybody ordered his own choice of food and drink.....

After everything I called the bar man to give me the bill... the bill was 150Euro.... before I could reach for my wallet my gf has already bring out her money and paid for it.... she said it's ok that she will pay for it and we should order for more.... I asked my friend and his gf if they need more drink or anything else.?. he said No that he's ok,, so they decided to live...

guys I was surprised to received a call from this my friend just 1hr ago.... he said I fall his hand in presence of his babe... I asked him what went wrong? he said I shouldn't have allowed my gf to pay for the bill...(what da fck).... he bounced the call on me....

brothers and sisters is anything wrong if a lady you took out decide to pay the bill??

There's nothing wrong with it. Its ppl like that ur friend that have given naija girls the mentality thats all bills are always on the guy.