good day everyone. I am disturbed. I have this friend I trusted, we are quiet close. recently, she told me abt a guy that likes me. and I happen to like him too, very much. buh we haven't talk much, she just introduced us, although I knew him b4 de introduction, he showed more interest that moment/period, but stopped suddenly, and me wondering wot went wrong, still craving for him.
fast forward to yesterday, I visited my friend and I was bored, so I asked for her wallet, nothing much o, she insisted she isn't giving me, not that i do bully her of money o, so unlike her. I became more curious and dragged de wallet with her, buh she insisted she has sth there that she doesn't want me to see, that I rather take her phone. coz I was bored so I took her phone. as I was going through her pictures, I got bored and by then she was asleep, . I dunno wah came over me and I decided to go through her whatsap chat with my crush. I read and lo I saw the guy telling her how he likes me and she told him that I have nothing else to offer apart from my boobs, that I am a hoe, that I am a hungry girl and that I am foolish to the core. can you imagine. I wanted to confront her and end de friendship, buh on a second thought,I felt I shouldn't tell her what i saw, coz its her privacy, I should just end de friendship without telling her anything. plss help, am disturbed.
am not just lucky with friends and guys, buh so lucky at other things.

Wallet &. Boredom does not make sense ( YOU BROKE JUST ADMIT IT)
Moving on

Now you go through her phone its wrong ! Just saying
But crime already done so you own it ! .. confront the beech you know .. if you need to slap her,slap her
Look sometimes we need to correct thotish behaviour if u let it slide..
Later she go take your HUSBAND then u start crying ..
you confront her, deal with her p, if friendship over oh well you dont need those type of friends


But how true is what she said ...
finally get a job so wallet wont be your play thing

Frenemy alert.

If this is true, my dear cut all ties with her. You don't need such toxic person around you.

The nerve of her!.

First of all : is what she told the guy true or not

Do you have anything to offer other than your boobs?

Are you a Hungry Girl?

Are you a Hoe?

Are you Foolish to the core?


Answer these questions, then i will tell you my piece of mind

Hmmmmmm,you shouldn't have gone through her messages in the first place,it's her privacy for God's sake!Serves you right what you saw,learn to keep your fingers from fingering people's privacy.


















Your friend tho,will I say it's jealousy that made her do such a thing? I think you should confront her,she might have her reasons too tho.

There's a saying that says what you don't know won't hurt you, but remember that everything has a reason too, it was wrong for you to go through her messages but still, you saw what you saw for a reason now that God has shown you what your friend is, it's either you end it or not look back or you remain being her friend and not tell her what you saw but that will only make you a fool. That your friend will sell you

Nah that's how human beings are we are they will always be selfish they will always want to be the best its human nature what you have to do is know this and expect them to f*ck up this way it doesn't come as a shock to you and you still get to use your frnd for whatever you use her for














besides if e pain you that much you cud always do your own back

cut all ties with her..... that's how one of my friends told a certain girl that I am a gay Cus he was interested in her but she wanted me rather


we are not even in talking terms till date....... just cutoff everything and move on with your life..... the guy in question is even an immmbecile for believing what he heard from just one person

Was she telling a lie on you btw?

OK, I'm curious about how her wallet was going to "unbore" you You don't sound like a good friend either because you're invasive. How is her property, your entertainment? You'd be a goner If you were my friend because you lack boundaries, apparently. You two deserve each other & your friend wasn't too far off about the things she said about you either, obviously.

I can't fit laugh. But do a soul searching to know if what she is saying is true. Then try to work on yourself.

Part ways

Op your friend is a bitch.. Had similar encounter with my bestie. Found and out and ended our friendship but still today she doesn't know why. Didn't confront her.
I don't trust girls..
Tell me if Na guy wen serious to marry you na so u go lose am because of your Friend.
Shine your eyes wella

I send thugs after such friends...how dare she?

Girls and hiding cocroach in their cupboards.

queenice7, your friend obviously likes him. Pls, let her know you saw the chat. You can't keep a girl like that has a friend. End the friendship. Don't like girls that bad mouth their girlfriends in front of guys.

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She gave you her phone so it's not like you went through it without her permission. I would confront her only to let her know why the friendship is over. If confronting her would cause you more harm than good then I suggest you cut all contact with her. The friendship is over, no doubt about that because who needs an enemy when you have a friend like her? As for the guy I would say forget him. If he comes looking for you then you can set the record straight but if he doesn't don't send for him.