Am 30 dating a girl of 20....we both in love ..,,i made her a promise of no sex,try to push her through jamb bc i dont want to marry just school cert....provide litle for her........the fact is i just want to make her a great woman for myself and her family......when i met her she has a problem which she shared me by Gods grace i stod n helped her....but my confusion here...is she too tender for me??...pls friends tell me can i go ahead with her....i love her.....but ur advice will help me pls friends.....tank you all for helping a brother....love u

I thought ppol on Romance section always screaming AGE DOESNT MATTER ?

But lemme ask my boo SmellingAnus abt this..i think he got a better idea

Too tender? Ofcourse NOT.
Do quick marry am o, this Buhari govt get as e be

20 is tender?...

Age is not a criteria. But if I got you right, you meant she just wrote jamb right? what if she gets to school and sees sumone better. just use your discretion bro. follow your heart and involve your God

TrapQueen77:
I thought ppol on Romance section always screaming AGE DOESNT MATTER ?

But lemme ask my boo SmellingAnus abt this..i think he got a better idea

Boo, the Op already knows that she is not too tender for him otherwise he probably wouldn't have started the relationship... Op, someone probably told you that she is too young for you ?

Allow her parents to train her in school unless except you wanna start paying her bride price with the school fees.

It is not really a wise thing to see someone through school, with the intention of marrying the person. This is simply because, the days are evil!

My dear op be careful not to make wrong investments.. she might get into school and see someone who is of her age bracket and flirt with.. Be wise, the moment she is been admitted into school, marry her straight up..

I am saying from the little experience I have.. they say a word is enough for the wise

dont be stupid bro ................ its like betting against juventus next month ........ronaldo might get injury.. benzyma heart attack ....isco muscle strain ..........nobody knows tomorrow

Don't worry continue being nice. The moment she enters University, she'll change and you my friend, will mean absolutely "nothing" to her anymore









Fear ladies!

effizyfrank:
Am 30 dating a girl of 20....we both in love ..,,i made her a promise of no sex,try to push her through jamb bc i dont want to marry just school cert....provide litle for her........the fact is i just want to make her a great woman for myself and her family......when i met her she has a problem which she shared me by Gods grace i stod n helped her....but my confusion here...is she too tender for me??...pls friends tell me can i go ahead with her....i love her.....but ur advice will help me pls friends.....tank you all for helping a brother....love u

effizyfrank:
Am 30 dating a girl of 20....we both in love ..,,i made her a promise of no sex,try to push her through jamb bc i dont want to marry just school cert....provide litle for her........the fact is i just want to make her a great woman for myself and her family......when i met her she has a problem which she shared me by Gods grace i stod n helped her....but my confusion here...is she too tender for me??...pls friends tell me can i go ahead with her....i love her.....but ur advice will help me pls friends.....tank you all for helping a brother....love u

After few years ud com on here nd start lamenting on how someone yhu gat her back dropped ur ass.....she has age on her side thus having tym to play around,she's hardly in her peak nd yet u would bore her with marriage promises nd shyte....just so u know she'd meet that new guy on campus nd yhu'd be wondering whr d hell u fvcked up....itd do u more good gettin a matured lady who is either thru with school or almost

zeelord:

After few years ud com on here nd start lamenting on how someone yhu gat her back dropped ur ass.....she has age on her side thus having tym to play around,she's hardly in her peak nd yet u would bore her with marriage promises nd shyte....just so u know she'd meet that new guy on campus nd yhu'd be wondering whr d hell u fvcked up....itd do u more good gettin a matured lady who is either thru with school or almost

well tanks a lot....but get it clear....she cant dump me because she is deep into me....dumping is my choice to make now or never ....bro in one world is she too tender?....your response will help me

effizyfrank:
well tanks a lot....but get it clear....she cant dump me because she is deep into me....dumping is my choice to make now or never ....bro in one world is she too tender?....your response will help me

Wake up from ur slumber Bro nd face reality.....they are really deep into us at the beginning before tins change.....yhu really dont know jack shii bou campus life...i hope she survives her first year as a fresher tho

zeelord:


Wake up from ur slumber Bro nd face reality.....they are really deep into us at the beginning before tins change.....yhu really dont know jack shii bou campus life...i hope she survives her first year as a fresher tho

tanks again .....really apriciate

She is not too small for you as she is an adult, but I have just one question for you. Have you agreed with her that that the two of you will get married? My reason for asking is that u don't want a situation whereby you spend your resources in training her through school and at the end she disappoints you.

effizyfrank:
well tanks a lot....but get it clear....she cant dump me because she is deep into me....dumping is my choice to make now or never ....bro in one world is she too tender?....your response will help me

I'm surprised dat @ 30 life hasn't taught u well enough yet. Wat do u mean by tender anyway?

20 & 30 ? oga please find your age mate. 25 should be your limit

You can train her in university if you want to but don't expect anything in return, see it as charity.