Im in an bit of a dilemma, I have already pictured my perfect future husband and his qualities. The problem i have is every guy i seem to meet has similar qualities but dont seem to be the right person. do you think this is because i have alredy pictured that perfect man and am not willing to except anything less. the main quality of this person is to be well and fully educated not HALF!!!

There are millions of Nigerians who are 'well and fully educated'
Unless you become more specific, the above criteria does little to distinguish whom you want.

Have you also bothered to find out what the men want. It seems it's all about you and what you want.

@ poster
U Sounds egoistic.

@poster,
it depends on what you mean by full education and half education,the truth be said you got a problem at hand,there is nothing wrong in you having the kind of man you want but it can't be 100% of what you want so you have to make do for atleast 70% of ur ideal man.Like the say nobody is perfect expect God.

The perfect man huh? A creature, much like Santa Claus, The Easter Bunny, Sasquatch and the Tooth Fairy, often spoken of, but one has never actually been seen by a reputable witness lol

I wonder why an imperfect woman will be looking for a perfect man?

@OP
I'm right here baby

keep searching, until u reach menopause, then ur eyes would be cleared
lol
anyway, just let God choose for u dont choose for ursef
wait on the Lord and be of good courage period, he had already created ur husband(knows what fits u)
wat u shud be doing now, is to be praying for him to show u the person he created for u,sumone that will love u, care for u, always be there for u

There is no perfect man or woman, I admit our views have been distorted by all those romantic novels that paints the images of the perfect man being TALL, DARK, HANDSOME AND A MULTIMILLIONAIRE. That simply doesnt exist.

Haha, there are perfect enough people out there jor . . . take him for example:

jay bee:

@OP
I'm right here baby

lol.  

Some people just greedy. Even when they turn up, you dey still complain or take for granted. Something has got to give.  

Ebonyeyes:

There is no perfect man or woman, I admit our views have been distorted by all those romantic novels that paints the images of the perfect man being TALL, DARK, HANDSOME AND A MULTIMILLIONAIRE. That simply doesnt exist.

It does ooooo, when it's dark, some men are handsome.

c ur big sweet mouth

^^^^ lol, but on a real, what is seen as perfect to one person may not be perfect to another. Something often has to give.

Imperfection can be perfection to an extent

thank u guys

sorry dear, there is no perfect man anywhere in the world
your relationship is what you make of it ok
and first make yourself perfect then you just might find that perfect one you're looking for.

Search no more!thr isnt no man like dat all ovr d earth.We all have a bit of 'imperfectness' including U and urs sincerely and ths humbles us.

You can draw the picture of the perfect man, educate him and marry him.

Such a man does not exist in real life, Only in neverland, fantasyland and Nairaland(search for becomerich, I think he is the perfect guy you want)

Odunnu:

Search no more!thr isnt no man like dat all ovr d earth.We all have a bit of 'imperfectness' including U and urs sincerely and ths humbles us.

Just get the 1 u no his averagely OK and try to bring him up to your teats even if it wont teats exactly how u want it

There is no such thing as a perfect person even you yourself are flawed by the way your post is one of your flaws. What you can really hope for in this life is to meet someone who has some of the qualities we are looking for while having a strong moral background. besides that no perfection out there

Re: The Perfect Man (where Is He!)

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@poster,search no further im right here,

there's no perfect man or woman anywhere. even if there was a perfect man, his standards would be way too high for you or any other woman. that you keep finding imperfections in every guy who meets your basic standards might be a sign that you're not really ready to settle down.

@OP: If indeed you find a perfect man, what then will be your role in his life?  If you find a 70% guy, the rest of the 30% will come from you and that's why relationships are like a business deal. The guy who is 100% to you, if he exists, will never take you cos he doesn't need you (unless you are also 100% to him? That's like at least one chance in 10,000) 

understand. the perfect man is NOT a perfect person. he is just the best bet for you. you dont really need a tall, dark handsome guy if you'r tall and beautiful, for chrissakes, at least give the short ones like us a chance!!

Mhismole:

understand. the perfect man is NOT a perfect person. he is just the best bet for you. you dont really need a tall, dark handsome guy if you'r tall and beautiful, for chrissakes, at least give the short ones like us a chance!!

Yikes!!!!!

Continue, U'll find him some day.

Mavenb0x:

@OP: If indeed you find a perfect man, what then will be your role in his life?  If you find a 70% guy, the rest of the 30% will come from you and that's why relationships are like a business deal. The guy who is 100% to you, if he exists, will never take you cos he doesn't need you (unless you are also 100% to him? That's like at least one chance in 10,000) 

i second that , right on sister !!! 

^^^ I have three elder brothers: I kinda have a good understanding of guys!

Hes out there waiting for you. . . .not here on the internet.

You go out there and find him before his beard grow too long

and the flowers he has turn into fertilizer in his hands!!

Go go go!

minute:

You go out there and find him before his beard grow too long
and the flowers he has turn into fertilizer in his hands!!
Go go go!

lol

Mavenb0x:

@OP: If indeed you find a perfect man, what then will be your role in his life? If you find a 70% guy, the rest of the 30% will come from you and that's why relationships are like a business deal. The guy who is 100% to you, if he exists, will never take you cos he doesn't need you (unless you are also 100% to him? That's like at least one chance in 10,000)

truetrue

@Poster:

Even the circle of nature ( Sun, Moon, stars) are never perfect to us all.

May be the slimmest thread of your conceived perfection in a man will be broken by the most minute occurrence.

Don't seek if you can't give it!