Nollywood Actor and son of legenday Pete Edochie, Yul Edochie has adonished wives to be respectful to their husbands against all odds in order to avoid being victims of domestic violence.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L26DMJn7LPU

Source: http://ovoko.com.ng

Wives to respect their husbands, YES. But in order not to be beaten by their husbands, Edochie, are you a beast? Is beating the solution to disobedience?

This is serious..so the only antedote to a wife's insult is beating?

I agree with u sir

subtlemee:
This is serious..so the only antedote to a wife's insult is beating?

Not at all dear but do not insult your husband, but, would you prefer sending you back to father's house as antidote to when you insult him

.

if A didn't work B should be the alternative....

Yes he is right...

I cant pay a woman's
Bride price and have her
Do shiii In my house I will beat
You till you need surgery to fix
Your face...

subtlemee:
This is serious..so the only antedote to a wife's insult is beating?

What do you recommend? Do tell, so many husbands out there can read and learn from your reservoir of knowledge.

As much as domestic violence is NOT the answer to any issue, if a wifey decides that she can raise her hands and physically abuse and disrespect her husband/marriage, then she deserves whatever she will get in return

On point.. Women can be so annoying... Even when u try ur best to stay calm, they will always push u to d wall..
I don't wish/want to lay my hands on a woman but I may be forced to do so at certain circumstances.

Stupid.

PaulKillerman:
I agree with u sir

Cos wives are little kids who deserve to be spanked each time they get rude. You lot are fools

This is such a belittling statement and I'm disappointed in him and those who support him.
Who tells men to respect their wives in order not to get beaten.
I swear the rampant sexism most Nigerian men are raised with, has all but robbed them of their common sense.
Do you know how many victims of domestic violence walk on egg shells in order not to set the man off yet they still get beaten and sometimes murdered?
Do you how many victims dare not even look in the eyes of the men they married so that they don't appear disrespectful yet their abusers find reason in the way they walk, sit or eat to beat them up?

All of you dummies should fvck out of here with your victim blaming retardedd bullshyt posts.

If you haven't been a victim of oppression don't try to mansplain to those who are going through it what to do to avoid it.
You guys often think you know best. It's a very disgusting attitude.

lepasharon:


Cos wives are little kids who deserve to be spanked each time they get rude. You lot are fools

This ugly girl, u are on on my case again abi U better take your time and behave I'm warning you I don't interact with ugly wench

PaulKillerman:

This ugly girl, u are on on my case again abi U better take your time and behave I'm warning you I don't interact with ugly wench

Lol you are delusional

And what should men do? To avoid domestic violence I mean.

I'm wondering how many posts I can respond to that shows Nigerians are Psychopaths. I believe this is my third one.

AHCB:
What do you recommend? Do tell, so many husbands out there can read and learn from your reservoir of knowledge.

Silence or leaving the house for her till everything cools off then you reprimand her

Davash222:

Not at all dear but do not insult your husband, but, would you prefer sending you back to father's house as antidote to when you insult him

Imagine sending an adult back to her parents. Are you guys married to kids or what
I mean, as old as I am with well establish job in a major city..if I had an agreement with my husband he will bundle me to my parents, funny..aswear

subtlemee:


Silence or leaving the house for her till everything cools off then you reprimand her

Oh.. what if she continue her verbal abuse?

cococandy:
This is such a belittling statement and I'm disappointed in him and those who support him.
Who tells men to respect their wives in order not to get beaten.
I swear the rampant sexism most Nigerian men are raised with, has all but robbed them of their common sense.
Do you know how many victims of domestic violence walk on egg shells in order not to set the man off yet they still get beaten and sometimes murdered?
Do you how many victims dare not even look in the eyes of the men they married so that they don't appear disrespectful yet their abusers find reason in the way they walk, sit or eat to beat them up?

All of you dummies should fvck out of here with your victim blaming retardedd bullshyt posts.

If you haven't been a victim of oppression don't try to mansplain to those who are going through it what to do to avoid it.
You guys often think you know best. It's a very disgusting attitude.

Stop being emotional about this issue. Nobody is saying that it's right for a man to beat his wife and the actor is not saying that either. The point is that it's the woman who gets the physical injury at the end of the day and as such for her to prevent it, she should respect her husband even when there's no need for it. Some men are crazy. Some would even beat a woman for no just reason. If you have a solution, bring it on.

I guess he'll also tell the men too not to disrespect their wives otherwise they will be bathed with hot water/oil or even started on fire and burnt to death.

The same people justifying domestic violence don't know the evil they are breeding, till things turn around .
Instead of you to speak against it and not mince words on the punishment that should be meted out to such. Instead of you to preach self control and restraint.

If we all endorse violence now, I wonder who will save the men when the women start their own well packaged round of madness.

If the topic was "men should respect their wives to avoid hot water bathe" would some of the responses here be the same?

Smh _some people are not fit for marriage at all.

Husband please respect your wife to avoid being verbally and emotionally abused. Thank you

PaperLace:
If the topic was "men should respect their wives to avoid hot water bathe" would some of the responses here be the same?

Smh _some people are not fit for marriage at all.

Weirdly familiar....

Vorpal:

Weirdly familiar....

I don't understand?

Isi a di kwa mma?


The quality of majority of responses here is baffling. Kai....

Today everyone takes the law onto their own hands.... And deal with the issue the best they can.

Just like you can marry a MAD woman who will pour petrol and set both of you ablaze OR poison you, its the same way you can possibly marry a man who will knock your teeth out if you even look at him the wrong way.

Let everyone choose the RIGHT partner, and if there are any sign of INSANITY, run!!!

Those of you who want to stay or confront these insane people, deserve anything you get thereafter.

AHCB:
Oh.. what if she continue her verbal abuse?

Even funnier, what if he gets killed outside, or got run over by a car or even worst run over someone when he is trying to avoid being pushed over the edge by a woman who can not control one of her weapons (strength)? Mouth

In case you wondering, the other weapon is pussy.


Those ladies who advocate men leaving the house to go cool off, should also take their advice and leave the house and go cool off somewhere without any form of verbal assault/abuse.

Afterall, it is both same. rage and verbal assault both playing to the strength of both sexes.


Whenever, they start doing this, I will take their advice of walking away.

I for one don't have friends anymore since she chased all away. She is my only friend and if am going to go cool off somewhere, it will be with her.

Men are no monsters, they will not all of a sudden start beating up a woman.

Most men would react when the verbal assault becomes serial.

...for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.

And yes, Yul stays close to me, I haven't seen him beat his wife for about 2 years he became my neighbor.

lobatan.

PaperLace:


I don't understand?

Your choice of words are just like another nairaland.... Carry on though.