#1 - Ultimately, women are looking for friendship. Yes they want romance, but at the day’s end they want to know that they are married to someone who has their back, like a friend does.

#2 - Love is a choice, not a feeling. We choose to love our husband/wife. The feelings follow and are important. If you rely on feelings to determine the love that you have for your spouse, you will indeed be confused.

#3 - Marriage is an adventure. Which means that you need to be creative and adventurous. Seek opportunities to have fun and enjoy life. Find out what your wife likes to do and do those things. Introduce her to things you like to do as well.

#4 - A marriage that gets into a rut, will have problems. Don’t get into a rut. Yes that takes work. But anything worth it takes work.

#5 - Men need respect. Women need love. This is known as the Love and Respect Principle.

#6 - If you have children, and do not keep the marriage priority, after the children leave, there will be no marriage.

#7 - The best gift you can give your children is a happy, thriving marriage.

#8 - Do not live outside of your means. Allowing finances to be an issue of conflict is really hard on a marriage. Determine together what the budget will be and stick to it. If you are the finance person - you pay the bills. If your wife is - let her. Think about it as team work, rather than your desires and her desires. Sometimes the adventure of living on a budget is fun and challenging.

#9 - Treat your wife as a precious gift - you will never regret it!

#10 - If divorce is not an option, than your marriage will be much much sweeter. If you give the impression that you have an out through divorce, there will always be stress and less honesty and less willingness to work it out.

Women are the ones advocating for divorce at any slight shortcomings

The most important thing to know about marriage.


Marriage is try your luck


Because it worked for A does not mean it will work for B.

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