tkjoke:

I did say that the reason for going tru his fone is not because i am checking on him

And i said, you are one of few that will go thru phone and not halla if they see anything

Fhemmmy:

And i said, you are one of few that will go thru phone and not halla if they see anything

so you basically don't trust your man? don't let paranoia kill u

Fhemmmy:

And i said, you are one of few that will go thru phone and not halla if they see anything

I rest my case

bawomolo:

so you basically don't trust your man? don't let paranoia kill u

If i go tru my partners fone regularly for the sole purpose of checking on him is what indicates lack of trust. if in the once in a blue moon that i check and find sometin funny, it is only logical that i ask and believe what he tells me. I won't thereafter be monitoring his calls/sms based on that particular funny text. So in answering your question, No, paranoia can't kill me.

tkjoke:

If i go tru my partners fone regularly for the sole purpose of checking on him is what indicates lack of trust. if in the once in a blue moon that i check and find sometin funny, it is only logical that i ask and believe what he tells me. I won't thereafter be monitoring his calls/sms based on that particular funny text. So in answering your question, No, paranoia can't kill me. 

I hear you oh.
No wonder most men do their stuff and clean mouth out there . . . cos they dont wanna be grilled

I don't think it is wrong to touch your partner's phone. My hubby does not like me touching his phone. He cannot leave his phone with me for a minute comfortably if am using it to make call. Recently I just check his sms and saw sms from a lady about their 8day old relationship and she is looking forward to their lovemaking. When he saw the phone with me he knew I have seen his sms. He has not spoken to me about 5 days. Am I not the one that should be angry? I think he needs to apologise to me, right now he does not gist with me, I still greet him but he does not respond.

TINAOGE:

I don't think it is wrong to touch your partner's phone. My hubby does not like me touching his phone. He cannot leave his phone with me for a minute comfortably if am using it to make call. Recently I just check his sms and saw sms from a lady about their 8day old relationship and she is looking forward to their lovemaking. When he saw the phone with me he knew I have seen his sms. He has not spoken to me about 5 days. Am I not the one that should be angry? I think he needs to apologise to me, right now he does not gist with me, I still greet him but he does not respond.

I think this is entitled to a brand new thread.
You saw a text as such and yet you did nothing, and the man is freely living in the house and eating your food?
Men, the man get balls.

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TINAOGE:

I don't think it is wrong to touch your partner's phone. My hubby does not like me touching his phone. He cannot leave his phone with me for a minute comfortably if am using it to make call. Recently I just check his sms and saw sms from a lady about their 8day old relationship and she is looking forward to their lovemaking. When he saw the phone with me he knew I have seen his sms. He has not spoken to me about 5 days. Am I not the one that should be angry? I think he needs to apologise to me, right now he does not gist with me, I still greet him but he does not respond.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm!
i really don't know what to say.
But you obviously can't be ignoring the issue and he definitely has some questions to answer.