Sensual:
I still believe and stand on no sex before marriage cos I'm a Christian and the pros are higher than the cons.
Sure it'll be hard regarding the fact that premarital sex has taken over the world and is now accepted regardless of its disadvantages.

But I will never support a wicked father giving out his young daughter to a man in marriage. that's wickedness of the highest order. It's going to affect that girl physically(as her body is not matured enough) and psychologically! It's a traumatic experience for them!
That's why I pity any girl born into a Muslim family, cos she will suffer.

And it's also up to you to get married enough. This thing of 'a married woman is a successful woman' is bullshit!
Not everyone is meant to marry.
Marriage is a choice, not a necessity for success.

McBrooklyn:
Yeah, we all know virginity is the best wedding gift any man would receive from his newly wedded wife. But lately, there is nothing like that any longer, because it will have already been given out as a birthday gift, token of appreciation, job assurance, church collection, examination marking schemes and transportation fares...

Ah dey my room, oya comman beat me...

smardray:
If only if we start getting married at the age of 9, then there ar possibilities that a girl gets married a virgin

hatbricker:
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LOL, that ain't gonna be applicable to me Bro...

torres89:
it's all about maturity

some people ain't matured enough to have sex , let alone understand the meaning of sex.

if a man marries you because u a virgin , u might be in trouble

if doesn't marry you because of that , u might still be in trouble.

so what's your point exactly

statistics are Just over rated

Sensual:
I still believe and stand on no sex before marriage cos I'm a Christian and the pros are higher than the cons
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mrcalcufast:
hmmm bae? with this your wide chest? if you never believed in sex before marriage, what made your chest as wide as that? don't tell me signs of puberty because there is a difference between a wide chest and a protuded chest,hope you get that?,because the chest I see up there looks like one who's breastfeeding an infant..I don't hit on people but stop forming holier than though, no one is gonna get you imprisoned if you share your opinion as a non- virgin(do forgive my choice of words)instead of creating false impression about yourself, no one Is gonna transfer millions of naira into your account if you lie about being a virgin, so why did you lie? ..I don't want you to see this as an insult even though some of my words were vulgar and offensive, but you never can tell if your future husband is reading your comment just as I have read it..he would have assured himself that he is gonna get married to a vee,hmmm!he will be patient till your wedding night ,having it in mind that you are a virgin as you have claimed ,only to discover otherwise on your wedding night and you start feeding him with stories that touches the heart.. I rest my case.

Sensual:


How touching

This is why I get aggressive towards senseless men like you.
Are you that daft that you believe every girl with wide chests that are even bigger than mine have had sex No, tell me, are you that brainless cos I'm honestly baffled.
Do you know me Are you my God that knows everything I've done and not done
Gosh, why are some Nigerian men this stoopid. I'm embarrassed.
I don't blame someone that said Nigerian men are not good for marriage.
You're mum or sister probably lost their virginity at the age of 7, I'm sure they were raped, huh?

feelgoodInc:
HAPPY WIFE, HAPPY LIFE Studies haveshownth the more sexual partners a woman has had, the less likely she is to describe her marriage as happy. Shocker, right? It’s like women were designed to be property.

All kidding aside, there is a reason a woman’s virginity has been a value in almost every culture ever. Not onlywas her father trying to make her more appealing for the suitors, but he knew that she would be able to enjoy the marriage more herself. There’s a reason the#NoHymenNoDiamond on Twitter has resonated.

A 15-year-old girl may think it’s a good life decision to sleep with the captain of the football team, but since when do teenagers know what they want in life? Kids complain that they aren’t sure what they want to do for a career while making irrevocable decisions about who they share their bodies with.

UNITY

Sex is a union. Many writers will often say that they’ve watched so much porn,masturbated so often, and had somany partners that sex has become stale, but this become reality far more quickly for women who live that lifestyle, because sex for a woman is much more personal by design of her anatomy. The more men a woman has united with, the less the next union will mean. Men can slip into a marriage with his past being of little consequence, but unfortunately for women, nature is not an equal opportunity employer.Feminists will claim that some women don’t want a husband or children, but I do notbelievethem. Womenare clock-like. Granted, so are men, but we are a different clock. Even if a woman decides she does not want a stable, committed relationship, in a few short years she will be too old to get more than a meaningless one night stand from a desperate man, and in a few more years she’ll struggle to get even that. Again, the fathers knew best when they tried to marry their daughters off at a young age.Not only is the fornicated woman less able to bond with her future husband emotionally, but her lady parts are also further changed with each sexual encounter, being stretched out so that there is not the same kind of intimate contact she would have if she had only been with one man ever. And then there is thesexual disfunction.

FOR A WOMAN, VIRGINITY IS POWER

Both men and women innately understand the great value of a virgin. Men frankly prefer to commit to women without an illustrious sexual past. Yes, some men will still commit to a woman with a lot of experience, but they never prefer it. By keeping her virginity, not only does she has a wider pool of men to choose from but also greater influence. She is more valuable and so can demand that her suitors increase their own value.

Sluts are a dime a dozen. The word “easy” implies powerlessness. If one slut isn’t pleasing him in some way, a man can move onto the next. Virgins today are rare, and a man will put in much more effort to keep her around. He’ll be hesitant to overplay with her emotions.

Virgins also don’t have to weed through the players. Because she won’t put out until marriage, she doesn’t have to judge whether a man will bail on her if she sleeps with him on the first date. Most men who pursue her want commitment, and they will likely be willing to abstain for a year should the reward be great enough.

That being said, a virgin who is ugly or bitchy will have the same trouble finding a man to invest and commit as a 40-year-old divorced mother. The same is true with attention whores or virgins who arewhoresat heart. No one is morecontemptuous and dysfunctional than the woman (or man) who uses her (or his) virginity as their sense of identity.

The more value a person has, the more power they have. This is why someone with a bachelor’s in chemical engineering makes far more than someone with a Ph.D in English. A person whose sole talent is reading has the same financial value as a slut has in sexual value.

“BUT A WOMAN HAS To PUT OUT TO GET NOTICED!"

More lies. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. If the average woman demanded a wedding ceremony before having sex, then most men would be unable to fornicate. Feminists talk about the culture of body image, but who started that? Men have always liked naked girls. It is women who decided to start wearing revealing clothing. True, it can be hard to purchase modest clothing today, but that is because it does not sell well anymore, which again is the fault of women, the buyers of such clothing.If a woman maintains her physical appearance, she will get noticed. It’s the way she acts that determines by whom she gets noticed. A woman doesn’t need a low-cut blouse to look beautiful, and she doesn’t need to blow men in order for them to want to sleep with her. True, a virgin is terrible in bed, but she can easily learn in time.

Even in today’s world, if a woman is a) young, b) sexually inexperienced, c) domestic, d) pleasant to be around, and e) maintains her physical appearance, she can choose any man she wants.Such a woman has the right to demand that a man wait until marriage, and more often than not she will be able to enforce that demand.If the man is not willing to abstain from sex, then she can dump him and take the next man in line.

That being said, if she still gives out head or anal, then she is still a common LovePeddler and has even less value than the garden variety slut, since the “everything but” virgin is also dishonest with herself. Remember, feminine females get masculine males. It is the androgynous who have to beg and plead for the opposite sex.

CONCLUSION

:THE ROOT OF THE PROBLEM
Have you ever noticed that the women whodiscourage conventional sexual temperance are the most promiscuous themselves? Women always encourage other women to make the same sexual choices as them, whether it is to have more sex or to have less. These whores have made an irrevocable choice, and now they try to drag others down with them so they can avoid feeling regret. Feminists demand that a career should be empowering because they have relinquished all the power they already had. Likewise, a sexually temperate womenwill not encourage licentiousness.

Telling a woman to save sex for marriage is the same as telling her not to get atattoo. In the old days, this advice was common knowledge, but now it’s a regular and permanent choice, like a rite of passage. Regret is one of the most averted emotions, and people will do anything to avoid admitting they screwed up. People would rather double down on a bad mistake than admit they’ve cut their own legs off.

missnawty:
God forgive me.. Chi girl abi wats that comedienne name married as a virgin and it ended within a year.. Marrying as a virgin this days dosnt guarantee 'together forever' or 'happily ever after.. I rest my case.

RaggedyAnn:
No, I don't think women should save their virginity for marriage. For what, kwanu? It's not some ritualistic offering of unblemished goods. What marriage needs, instead, are two genuine vows of unwavering commitment; spoken with conviction, meant sincerely and maintained conscientiously.

But if a woman chooses not to have sex until she marries, that's all well and good.

missnawty:
God forgive me.. Chi girl abi wats that comedienne name married as a virgin and it ended within a year.. Marrying as a virgin this days dosnt guarantee 'together forever' or 'happily ever after.. I rest my case.

mrcalcufast:
hmmm bae? with this your wide chest? if you never believed in sex before marriage, what made your chest as wide as that? don't tell me signs of puberty because there is a difference between a wide chest and a protuded chest,hope you get that?,because the chest I see up there looks like one who's breastfeeding an infant..I don't hit on people but stop forming holier than though, no one is gonna get you imprisoned if you share your opinion as a non- virgin(do forgive my choice of words)instead of creating false impression about yourself, no one Is gonna transfer millions of naira into your account if you lie about being a virgin, so why did you lie? ..I don't want you to see this as an insult even though some of my words were vulgar and offensive, but you never can tell if your future husband is reading your comment just as I have read it..he would have assured himself that he is gonna get married to a vee,hmmm!he will be patient till your wedding night ,having it in mind that you are a virgin as you have claimed ,only to discover otherwise on your wedding night and you start feeding him with stories that touches the heart.. I rest my case.

Victornezzar:

so u would tell dis 2 ur daughter

mrcalcufast:
hmmm bae? with this your wide chest? if you never believed in sex before marriage, what made your chest as wide as that? don't tell me signs of puberty because there is a difference between a wide chest and a protuded chest,hope you get that?,because the chest I see up there looks like one who's breastfeeding an infant..I don't hit on people but stop forming holier than though, no one is gonna get you imprisoned if you share your opinion as a non- virgin(do forgive my choice of words)instead of creating false impression about yourself, no one Is gonna transfer millions of naira into your account if you lie about being a virgin, so why did you lie? ..I don't want you to see this as an insult even though some of my words were vulgar and offensive, but you never can tell if your future husband is reading your comment just as I have read it..he would have assured himself that he is gonna get married to a vee,hmmm!he will be patient till your wedding night ,having it in mind that you are a virgin as you have claimed ,only to discover otherwise on your wedding night and you start feeding him with stories that touches the heart.. I rest my case.

RaggedyAnn:



I have no idea what my exact words would be, but I would want her to be in love, the first time she has sex. And safe as well.

Victornezzar:

My God wat has d world turned 2
so u would support ur daughter having sex b4 marriage
mr man sorry 2 say.....u won't be a good fada at all