Ugosample:


To think that this came from a "female" is just nauseating.

And to think that some people support this erroneus view is even more nauseating.

buchilino:


WEN U CHOOSE TO MARRY ANYONE, OBVIOUSLY UR ATTRACTED TO DAT PERSON, WEN U BECOME HIS WIFE, BE SUBMISSIVE TO HIM. DAT SUBMISSION CHANGES ALOT OF THINGS IN HIM. WEN TELL HIM U LOVE HIM, N UR NOT SUBMISSIVE, TO HIM UR JUST TALKING CRAP. GOD KNOWS DAT MAN'S PROBLEM IS TO LOVE DATS Y HE COMMANDED MEN TO LOVE DER WIVIES. 4 D WOMAN, DER PROBLEM IS BEING SUBMISSIVE, DATS HE COMMANDED WOMEN TO OBEY DER HUSBAND. BELIEVE ME WEN A MAN N WOMAN OBEY DIS SIMPLE RULES DER WILL NOT BE ANY PROBLEM IN MARRIAGES

You are not getting me
I didn't say a woman shouldn't be submissive. I was trying to address the poster base on what he said, that woman shouldn't love their husbands cos God didn't command them to.
If you read my post you will see where I said love is not the duty of the wife but that doesn't mean the wife shouldn't love her husband
Good morning

Since I joined nairaland this is d most educating and sensable information dat has ever be written by a lady on gender....EXCELLENT and RECOMMENDABLE

Reference:


You are equally wrong (no pun intended) for I cannot imagine who is the child or short dude than needs a taller stool to 'attain'. This is the problem that the women folk have to overcome. Women are NOT disadvantaged in anyway by creation. They are not inferior by default for God does not make mistakes Thus they do not need affirmative action. The world is simply not focused in their direction and is not exploiting their potentials, period. It is the world that is losing.

Very True, Women are NOT disadvantaged in nay way ...they are JUST DIFFERENT from Men.
Its that simple.
Just like MEN, Women are UNIQUE in their own way.

What they do with their God-given TALENTS and peculiar attributes, determines their lot in Life, just like Men.
They should STOP asking to be elevated beyond their level, by way of some fiat of Legislation.

No one is losing anything, abeg. Stop trying this 'scare-tactics'

TheUmbra:



No one will deny you your right to education and the opportunity to succeed but maybe men will start taking you women seriously on gender equality thing when you start dominating fields like the army, fighting terror in the thick of sambisa forest, dominate the police force, heeding a distress call in the middle of the night with your bullet proof vest on because you're sure some daredevil criminals are Ak47-armed and are waiting to ambush you; dominating the fire service where you brave yourself up with your fake brazilian wig and embrace a burning building, or the construction industry that requires heavy manual lifting of tools and equipment.

But you all never complain when the female numbers are next to non-existent in these fields, but you raise dust on executive positions and start screening your gender equality trash.

Fact is you all are greedy vultures trying to reap where you didn't sow.

Even the boundary in your village was carved out by the blood of your forefathers. The identity you have was sustained and preserved by fearless men of old who hid your great grandmothers in a safe cave while they charged to war to preserve their seeds. And you're here hiding in your little hut typing gender equality.

It isn't surprising that none of the wannabe feminist on nairaland have got a rebuttal or counterpoint to this post..this post right here exposes their greedy and hypocritical nature to the core of their warped ideology..

DeeTus:
This useless girl again? Please keep quiet before I come to you!

I just went through ur topics and found out that u don't worth my MB....so at this juncture,we shall call it a day.

Dimples129:
Op... Google Equal rights for women then come back and read your post. All those points you made are negative and neither sex should do it. The problem is the fact that men are encouraged to impregnate and be promiscuous is the problem because it's women they are impregnating and cheating on and not amongst themselves. The problem in the world today is your mindset, that men can do evils because they're a man forgetting that they will do that evil to women.

Gender equality is about treating both genders with respect and nothing to do with what you pointed out.

Seriously her post reeks of ignorance that I'm surprised this garbage was moved to FP

princessayesha:
I dont believe in gender equality...men are meant to take care of us. He will work, I will work...but my money is mine and his money is ours

Ohhh warrrris all dis na
Abi space don full 4 yaba left ni

[quote author=sexybbstar post=57404509]I saw a thread earlier on (why do guy thinks girls are whores?) I think this is my own view.

You had better stop comparing, if God wants equal rights for us all, he would have created everyone with p.enis or va.gina. But the difference in our private organ and body build shows that what is good for one may not be good for the other.

If a male child should become wayward, believe me if he repents, not a sign of it will be on his body but if a female child becomes wayward, I won't lie to you, let her become a pastor. There will still be signs to show for it like sagged breasts, wide va.gina, etc.Tell me can a man have a deformed organ as a result of being promiscuous.? obviously no!

Don't compare the two together.A lady that compare herself with a man is playing a dangerous game. U sure know that when he have sex with u without protection, u would get pregnant and u will receive the blame. Yet u allowed him, don't blame anyone for your misfortune because u are aware that the lady takes the blame.

Man and woman are two different words with different attributes. A man who lives like a woman won't find it easy and vice versa. Even two ladies are not the same not to talk of a man and a woman.

You want gender equality, ladies. Can you impregnate a fellow lady? Even those of us who transgendered to become a man still have so many manly activities they can't do.

Learn to appreciate your gender and bring out the best from it. [/qseem. It seems you've got a female around you contesting superiority with you, sorry about that. This write up justifies/encourage male promisquity. Its an attempt at denigrating women. A lot of men will read this and see themselves as kings. Gender inequality is a problem especially in African societies. It is the will of God that all humans are well treated. Both male and female
, not one given privileges above the other.

Tahrah:
And to think that some people support this erroneus view is even more nauseating.

I wonder...that girl is disgracing her self..how can a normal human being write that trash...gosh..!!!sagged boobs and wide pussy is a sign of promiscuity? ??is she normal at all...this thread doesn't worth my attention after all

sexybbstar:
I saw a thread earlier on (why do guy thinks girls are whores?) I think this is my own view.

You had better stop comparing, if God wants equal rights for us all, he would have created everyone with p.enis or va.gina. But the difference in our private organ and body build shows that what is good for one may not be good for the other.

If a male child should become wayward, believe me if he repents, not a sign of it will be on his body but if a female child becomes wayward, I won't lie to you, let her become a pastor. There will still be signs to show for it like sagged breasts, wide va.gina, etc.Tell me can a man have a deformed organ as a result of being promiscuous.? obviously no!

Don't compare the two together.A lady that compare herself with a man is playing a dangerous game. U sure know that when he have sex with u without protection, u would get pregnant and u will receive the blame. Yet u allowed him, don't blame anyone for your misfortune because u are aware that the lady takes the blame.

Man and woman are two different words with different attributes. A man who lives like a woman won't find it easy and vice versa. Even two ladies are not the same not to talk of a man and a woman.

You want gender equality, ladies. Can you impregnate a fellow lady? Even those of us who transgendered to become a man still have so many manly activities they can't do.

Learn to appreciate your gender and bring out the best from it.

excellent written up thanks for the info

LordAdam16:


The more shameful part is that it is even a debate in the first place.

In this day and age, if a person above the age of 15 and has passed Junior High (JSS) is arguing against gender equality (usually because they have unashamedly failed to grasp the faintest idea of what it is about), it paints a rather grim picture of how far off the mark we are as a nation.

It's not like it was ever that encouraging, but at least girl child education isn't a taboo topic anymore, and one would reasonably expect that normal, functioning adults know a teeny-weeny bit about gender equality, it's relationship with girl child education, and why the world's future rests on progressive stances like gender equality and equity, resource sustainability, increased tolerance et cetera.

Many of the comments I see here are statements I'd expect from ret*rded folks, unambitious dropouts, religious f*cktards, men who have failed in life (and need to mudsling others to feel better about themselves), or privileged egoists. But you'd be surprised about the standings of many of the commenters on here and how they are a bitter reflection of the society.

Just walk into any random eatery and bring this issue up, you'd be surprised about the similarity between the contributions you receive and the comments you read here.

And it is particularly nauseating that a forum run by a self-acclaimed progressive atheist would actually promote a non-religious position that would never stand in any rigorous academic debate in any of the world's top 10,000 institutions for discussion, never mind the ridiculous balderdash that made up the OP.

Am I disappointed by the comments I read on here, absolutely not, many Nigerians redefine stupidity with their opinions that are about as factual as the Santa Claus myth. But then, did I expect to see the kind of promotion this thread gets, not likely. I read through this thread in one of my recent forays in the Romance section, and decided against commenting because I deemed it a perfect avenue for misfits to throw a pity party about how the world is conspiring against them. And some d*rtbag mod decided it was a party deserving of prime-time.

Unbelievable!

-Lord

All i can deduct from your post is rant, rant and rant. No single intellectual contribution. There have been several arguments for and against the topic on this thread. But all you can do is try make yourself sound more learned than other commenters without any meaningful statement. That's trashy. Whoever made u a Lord sef!

Dimples129:
1. Can a man impregnate another man?

2. Why should the lady take the "blame" (a child is a blessing and not blame) when it takes 2 to reproduce?
Should we not change this backward ideal rather than embracing it?

3. Gender equality isn't about trying to be a man but rather trying to protect women from the injustices that you as woman is supporting.

I hope all the praise you get from the men on this thread puts money in you're account because you just sold out on the female race including your daughters.

nonsense....I say it again....nonsense..

who said the injustice melted out on female are not be frown at....I have always been an advocate against RAPE on nairaland here...those dat I cursed and abused are they not my fellow male.? what OP has said is d bitter truth

Dimples129:
1. Can a man impregnate another man?

2. Why should the lady take the "blame" (a child is a blessing and not blame) when it takes 2 to reproduce?
Should we not change this backward ideal rather than embracing it?

3. Gender equality isn't about trying to be a man but rather trying to protect women from the injustices that you as woman is supporting.

I hope all the praise you get from the men on this thread puts money in you're account because you just sold out on the female race including your daughters.

You're a bloody feminist! You know nothing about gender equality. . . Look up the word in your dictionary and thank me later!

Dimples129:
1. Can a man impregnate another man?

2. Why should the lady take the "blame" (a child is a blessing and not blame) when it takes 2 to reproduce?
Should we not change this backward ideal rather than embracing it?

3. Gender equality isn't about trying to be a man but rather trying to protect women from the injustices that you as woman is supporting.

I hope all the praise you get from the men on this thread puts money in you're account because you just sold out on the female race including your daughters.

You're a bloody feminist! You know nothing about gender equality. . . Look up the word in your dictionary and thank me later! Awon ti Chimamanda

Benita27:
What has gender equality got to do with promiscuity?. For the fact that you think if a lady is wayward, sagged breast and wide vagina will be evident makes your write-up pathetic. Does a lady need to be wayward to have a sagged breast?. Are you also saying it's ok for a guy to mess himself up but if a lady does it's a crime?.

You mustn't create threads over anything you had the urge to. Some are senseless like this one.

Enjoy yourself lesbian!

Thanks op. Gender equality is a lie from the pit of hell.

If man = x
Woman = y

Can you say
X = Y

X = X and Y = Y
things that are different cant be equal.

Some said it is wrt opportunities.
know this there are no same opportunities. Even twins that are raise the same, dont turn out same.

Opportunity only manifest based on our capacities. My advantage might be your disadvantage and vise versa.

Nature has a way of balancing itself

lovelygurl:


She's single and searching that's why

too bad she's happily engaged.

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Grammarian oya

mrphysics:

Lol. This one really got you.
Well the truth is that there is already gender equality in Nigeria. Women enjoy more incentives than men. We all know that there is nothing we stopped women from doing.

Sorry she made some mistakes but she was right in the message she was trying to pass

And who is the judge of right or wrong men? No
Only a woman can judge because we know where the shoe fits.

Dimples129:
Op... Google Equal rights for women then come back and read your post. All those points you made are negative and neither sex should do it. The problem is the fact that men are encouraged to impregnate and be promiscuous is the problem because it's women they are impregnating and cheating on and not amongst themselves. The problem in the world today is your mindset, that men can do evils because they're a man forgetting that they will do that evil to women.

Gender equality is about treating both genders with respect and nothing to do with what you pointed out.

I can see nonsense .....it is as if men do not condemn wife beating... even molestation

Any lady here against the excellent flawless write up of the OP is either a Hardcore Lesbian who masturbtes with yam tubers or a lonely man hater spinster who have been used and dumped because of her silly abrasive behaviour.

At OP, if you are in Abuja, please go on a date with me!

Mindfulness:


What you are saying is that God made a mistake when he created the woman because the Almighty and All-Knowing did not know what he was doing when he created the world. He makes the planets spin in perfect proximity to each other, the sun rise and set every single freaking day but he did not know what he was doing when he created the woman. In other words, God was not very smart when he did that.

More nonsense!

No, dont misinterpret what is said, out of your own personal mischief!

God did not make the mistake, it was the "Woe-Man" that decided of her own FREE WILL, to disobey God.

God intentionally gave Humans "free-will" because he did not want us to serve him out of being a Zombie, but because we chose to do so, out of our own free-will.

I think you would know better.

Melonny:
As you have said, let's appreciate our gender. I would like to point out what really GENDER EQUALITY is, Gender equality is achieved when women and men enjoy the same rights and opportunities across all sectors of society, including economic participation and decision-making, and when the different behaviours, aspirations and needs of women and. men are equally valued and favoured (genderequality.ie)
So, it doesn't mean men and women become the same, we should have access to same opportunities.

U like to hv d same opportunities with men? u get it wrong

Rukkydelta:
Promiscuity is a bad habit and should be shun irrespective of gender

Nah guys have free card to

Rukkydelta:

You are not getting me
I didn't say a woman shouldn't be submissive. I was trying to address the poster base on what he said, that woman shouldn't love their husbands cos God didn't command them to.
If you read my post you will see where I said love is not the duty of the wife but that doesn't mean the wife shouldn't love her husband
Good morning

I THINK WAT D OP WAS POINTING AT, IS DAT WOMEN SHOULD BE MORE PRACTICAL IN DER SHOWING OF LOVE. WOMEN NEEDS TO SHOW MENTAL MATURITY. MOST TIMES WEN D MAN MESS UP, D WOMAN NEEDS TO AVOID CONFRONTATIONS. WOMEN R MORE EMOTIONAL DAN MEN, DATS Y DEY FALL IN LOVE EASILY. BUT MEN R NOT EMOTIONAL. MAY GOD GIVE US D GRACE TO DO RIGHT THINGS. BEST OF LUCK.

Melonny:
As you have said, let's appreciate our gender. I would like to point out what really GENDER EQUALITY is, Gender equality is achieved when women and men enjoy the same rights and opportunities across all sectors of society, including economic participation and decision-making, and when the different behaviours, aspirations and needs of women and men are equally valued and favoured (genderequality.ie)
So, it doesn't mean men and women become the same, we should have access to same opportunities.

The only post that actually made sense

sarahade:
And who is the judge of right or wrong men? No Only a woman can judge because we know where the shoe fits.

So where does the shoe fit?

mrphysics:

So where does the shoe fit?

No where actually

Victornezzar:

Ohhh warrrris all dis na
Abi space don full 4 yaba left ni

What is your own

Nothing like gender equality

Tahrah:
You already have plans on turning yourself to a liability.And stop building sandcastles in the air,it will soon crumble.

So are you trying to say u have never asked your bf or probably husband for money before?