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Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by Flybulous(m): 4:16pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
i ponder "Why does the guy who doesn't appear to care as much about the girl get the girl?" itz simple: The nice guy cares too much, too soon. He has made the woman too important and too valuable and it shows in everything he says and does. He is too available, too eager to please, too accommodating, and he gives too much -- all without getting anything in return. By doing so, he has made himself appear desperate, insecure, needy of this woman's attention, affection, and approval -- and he has stripped himself of any value in her eyes. After all, if he's already doing and giving everything, without her doing or giving anything - why would she value him? She won't. She is not going to value him any more than he values himself. What she is going to do is look for someone else, someone who she perceives as being more worthy, more confident, and more valuable, and mmm i tink itz the cocky but funny guys, What say u Ladies? |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
Nice people in general finish last. Human beings are wicked and evil and prey on the gullible, nice and weak. |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by Flybulous(m): 4:22pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
yeas ebonyeyes, we know dat, but in this context i was refering to GUYS with LADIES |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by Nobody: 4:25pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
What I said still applies in this case. I do agree that sometimes a guy being nice is mistaken for him being weak. There should be a balance somehow i.e nice but firm. |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by Flybulous(m): 4:29pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
now ur talking. |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by justwise(m): 4:48pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
Yup 'nice' guys carry-last sometimes, but i'm not ready to change. |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by follypimpi(m): 4:52pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
justwise: So you are nice |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by ladybird77(f): 4:54pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
its nice to knw dat there still nice guys out there and not willing to change to be someone else. I was starting to give up.lol |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by justwise(m): 4:55pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
follypimpi: Yup. |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by follypimpi(m): 4:56pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
justwise: I go recommend my cousin 4 u then,u single |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by jaybee3(m): 4:57pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
follypimpi:ME |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by justwise(m): 4:57pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
justwise: Yup, but not too much of a 'nice-guy' |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by justwise(m): 4:58pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
ladybird77: Changing is not an option, that will make me another person. |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by justwise(m): 4:59pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
follypimpi: Hahaha. . .is 'ur' cousin a 'nice' girl? |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by follypimpi(m): 5:09pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
justwise: Dont knw if she's nice we aint that close but she fine sha. |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by ladybird77(f): 5:10pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
Changing is not an option, that will make me another person @justwise dats really good to knw. @follypimpi y u such a downer i mean really every thread i read u always negative things to say, am not hating just asking really? wassup with dat? |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by elecktra(f): 5:12pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
but where are the nice guys wen you need 'em ?? av been with them "un-nice" ones for too long, i need a change its just dat guys can be so crazy they are sooooo nice while asking you out but wen you guys start going out its a different ball game entirely |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by follypimpi(m): 5:16pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
ladybird77: I am not a downer neither do i say negative things,i only ever states the obvious.I doubt if i hve said anything bout being nice or bad on this thread,I love the ladies alot ya know.I knw u aint a hater but can u be more specific where i hve sounded negative. |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by follypimpi(m): 5:17pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
elecktra: Awww poor baby i will rememba u in my prayers.This year is ur year justwise and jaybee r nice dude ya know. |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by ladybird77(f): 5:18pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
ok my bad, sozzzzzzzzzz for saying dat. |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by follypimpi(m): 5:26pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
ladybird77:Is ok darling i dont mind @ all,we all hve our own opinion. ,Are u lookin for nice guy too ? |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by ladybird77(f): 5:27pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
Wats dat for? |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by ladybird77(f): 5:29pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
And yep am looking for a nice caring guy.lol |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by Nobody: 5:31pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
I like nice men, they are polite and have a good head on their shoulders. |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by ladybird77(f): 5:33pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
very very true and they so hard to come by. |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by jaybee3(m): 5:34pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
ladybird77:u sure abt that? |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by justwise(m): 5:37pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
ladybird77: Just as its very hard to meet nice woman, it goes both ways. |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by follypimpi(m): 5:39pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
justwise: Well said. |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by follypimpi(m): 5:42pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
ladybird77:Awwwww i will start praying for u too now,this year good guyz will fight over u. |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by justwise(m): 5:43pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
follypimpi: Hope God hears ur prayer. . cos i need it. |
Re: Nice Guys Always Finish Last! by elecktra(f): 5:43pm On Jan 22, 2010 |
follypimpi: thanx brother prayer is wat a sister needs right now |
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