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When The Man Is Older Vs Woman Is Older by carlosSeyi(m): 2:47pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Several relationships where the
woman is older than the man -
especially in Africa - are
facing rejections, oppositions, and
mockery because people feel such
relationships are against
norms, and they should not be
accepted. In fact, some people chose
to call it a 'taboo'. Like I
said earlier, this may not really be
an issue in the Western world,
because of the 'anything
goes' kind of life people live over
there and the freedom of choice the
constitution has given
everyone. But if you think you feel
good with such relationship, isn't
it still good to wait a
minute to count the cost? Please
don't get me wrong; I do not say it
is evil for a woman to
marry a younger man, but I think it
is advisable for both parties to
critically count the cost
first. I understand that love
transcends all the mockery,
rejections and any ugly thing you
might face, yet there is need for
critical consideration.
According to 2012 Census Bureau
data, 85.9 percent of husbands are
older than or about
the same age as their wives. That
leaves 14.2 percent of all husbands
who are at least two
years younger than their wives. Two
important questions we must ask
ourselves are: Is there
any danger in such a marriage where
wives are older than their husbands?
What is the role
age is playing in making the
marriage work? cc lalasticlala ishilove mynd24 |
Re: When The Man Is Older Vs Woman Is Older by Evablizin(f): 2:54pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Ok |
Re: When The Man Is Older Vs Woman Is Older by yeanka007: 3:26pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
I believe when it comes to marriage understanding matters between both party, age doesn't guaranteed a happy marriage and what I believe guarantee a happy marriage is LOVE and UNDERSTANDING. The funny part of this issue is that, I have seen two marriages where the women are older and their marriage is a happy one. |
Re: When The Man Is Older Vs Woman Is Older by oake(m): 5:23pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Age is overrated! Especially, if one is enjoying peace, mutual trust and love. I personally prefer an older lady that will give me these qualities, than a younger one that I will not get my peace. Older ladies are matured, wise, understanding and patient. The younger ones still feel they have years ahead of them and so must 'enjoy' their youth. The society factor in age because it is generally agreed that women age faster and may not be able to bear children. But even these days, we have had young ladies battling the same issues of child-bearing, miscarriages and barrenness. |
Re: When The Man Is Older Vs Woman Is Older by carlosSeyi(m): 7:29pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Lalasticlala please push this to the front page Sir |
Re: When The Man Is Older Vs Woman Is Older by Nobody: 9:02pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
When a good friend of mine based in Michigan is 9 years younger than his wife (who has been divorced twice and engaged 5times) they have been together since 2013 and according to both parties they have no regrets. Note: this couple are white |
Re: When The Man Is Older Vs Woman Is Older by carlosSeyi(m): 6:30pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
cc:: Lalasticlala ishilove mynd24 |
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