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Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by RichyBlacK(m): 10:24am On Jan 27, 2010
God Almighty! I read all twelve pages!
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by Rusty09(m): 2:11pm On Jan 27, 2010
@Poster. . .

Sorry u've had such shitty experiences. . . May be u're trying too hard? i could be wrong though. . . Just let things flow naturally n dont let carnal desires take over, and if it does, u only have urself to blame. . .

That being said, u up for a long distance trial? grin OR rather a penpal or text mate? I could oblige since ure soo bored. . . grin
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by oyinda3(f): 4:12pm On Jan 27, 2010
RichyBlacK:

God Almighty! I read all twelve pages!

did u really? can i get a summary plz  grin


Most girls are desperate to date they dont have time to carefully select the men who approach them. Its not by force to date if you havent found the right person. A lot of people dont even understand what a relationship is anymore . . . its a lot more than going to the clubs together, "hanging out" or having sex. When a woman has no standards on what she expects from a potential mate then she is more than likely to meet the wrong men.

best post so far by davidylan.  but then, many naija women already do this"careful selection" that's why they're single. to be with a naija guy, u have to reduce your standard to 0%  otherwise, u will be single till 40.  grin
that's why IMO, a lot of times, it's better that these ladies are single. singledom is better than being in a frustrated r/s with an irresponsible guy.
what's best though is if these women go and meet other non-naija guys. but it's also ok if they prefer to be single n successful. lol
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by yjay(f): 9:08am On Jan 28, 2010
@davidylan, i like ur post but i dont agree that most girls are desperate to date,,,,
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by Emmadgud(m): 10:09am On Jan 28, 2010
I just read ur post and was touched anyway.My dear 2 be very honest 2 u,in d world there re both gud and bad ppl, liers and sincere ppl,but every tin in life depends on ur approach 2 it.Infact i will leave my contact 4 u cos i will like 2 hv 1 and 1 talk wit u.08037426664,neweditionpro@yahoo.Com
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by na2day2(m): 10:22am On Jan 28, 2010
Emmadgud:

I just read your post and was touched anyway.My dear 2 be very honest 2 u,in d world there re both gud and bad ppl, liers and sincere ppl,but every tin in life depends on your approach 2 it.Infact i will leave my contact 4 u cos i will like 2 hv 1 and 1 talk wit u.08037426664,neweditionpro@yahoo.Com

laff wan kill me grin grin grin
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by chiogo(f): 11:25pm On Jan 28, 2010
^LOL grin
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by uniqued(f): 11:43pm On Jan 28, 2010
Emmadgud:

I just read your post and was touched anyway.My dear 2 be very honest 2 u,in d world there re both gud and bad ppl, liers and sincere ppl,but every tin in life depends on your approach 2 it.Infact i will leave my contact 4 u cos i will like 2 hv 1 and 1 talk wit u.08037426664,neweditionpro@yahoo.Com

God guy ur funny grin grin smiley
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by RBiafra: 12:48am On Jan 29, 2010
I just read your post and was touched anyway.My dear 2 be very honest 2 u,in d world there re both gud and bad ppl, liers and sincere ppl,but every tin in life depends on your approach 2 it.Infact i will leave my contact 4 u cos i will like 2 hv 1 and 1 talk wit u.08037426664,neweditionpro@yahoo.Com

Bro, i can stop laughing.

@poster, just take you time, don't be desperate to go into relationship and it's not necessary that he must be a particular race cool
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by Freiburger(m): 12:51am On Jan 29, 2010
R.Biafra:

I just read your post and was touched anyway.My dear 2 be very honest 2 u,in d world there re both gud and bad ppl, liers and sincere ppl,but every tin in life depends on your approach 2 it.Infact i will leave my contact 4 u cos i will like 2 hv 1 and 1 talk wit u.08037426664,neweditionpro@yahoo.Com

Bro, i can stop laughing.

@poster, just take you time, don't be desperate to go into relationship and it's not necessary that he must be a particular race cool



love-vendor in action grin
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by SamMilla1(m): 7:34pm On Jan 29, 2010
Our feature girl on LS3 {LIKELY SCENARIO 3} Is olugirl. Congrats olugirl. You made our cover page
Olugirl is a Nigerian woman in London who suddenly discoveres that Nigerian men in London are liars.
Her latest catch stopped picking her calls.

read from olugirls' post
Do relationships really work?  I cant believe it's me ALWAYS meeting the wrong men.
I am not a bad person, not ugly (not necessarily miss world), not a bad girl (tho not an angel). I go to church,
like all d usual things girls like, but still homely, well brought up but being very unlucky with men, especially Nigerian men.
the last one just told me that he thought he would prefer a casual relationship, cos i said he never picks my calls. Yet kept begging me after i broke it off, obvious;y wants to eat his cake and have it!
I have tried dating outside Nigerian men and while it was a great relationship, didnt think there was that click btwn us.
I am not one to generalise but just find Nigerian men (the ones ve met in London) to usually be liars, cheats and not truthful to what they say at the start.
At my wits end, dying of boredom, feel very sad and sorry for myself, maybe become a lesbian (lol)
I am no looser, i have a masters degree and work professionally mainly with whites in the city,
-My standards are not ridiculously high as my ex was some 9ja bar man, but dumped him quickly when i saw he was trying to borrow money from me etc
-Those that said i should look at myself as mayb d problem, i did and you know what conclusion i came too, i am a good person! i do not lie to anyone i love.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-386576.0.html

OUR LIKELY SCENARIO GOES HERE :


Olu girl dials James.

OLUGIRL : James whats wrong with you, where have you been, why didn't you pick my calls yesterday, are you crazy ? who was the girl i saw with you ?
James : {NOT knowing which question to answer first} calm down olubaby, i was , {olubaby interupts}
OG : We need to see now, i think i have to stop this relationship.
JM : {An illegal immigrant in UK, realizes the motive behind the relationship} baby calm down. i was sick since last week. the lady was showing me the way to the doctors house.

OG: {not knowing whether to believe or not}OK, but i need to see you, come to my house now now, dont waste time?
JM: sure, right away.

James arrives olu girls house, They did one or two things after she verbally abused James knowing he was illegal, they even ate launch and dinner together cos our girl believes the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.

OG : James, you have to be careful, cant you see i am a big girl, i am not a looser, i have phd, i work with white people
James : {feeling intimidated} i know olubaby, i know, you are hardworking and industrious.You are a great lady.
OG : Sure i know all that and i am proud of myself.

the following day, james goes to another chick


JAMES : Sweetheart, As soon as we get that money from that olugirl, we will get married. she thinks i will marry her, she thinks she is too good for me.
Chick : {laughs} i know, she is so ugly and old. she is silly to think a sweetie like you will fall for her. do you know she has been in many relationships. she is always looking for handsome guys. she even feels like she is rich.

Unfortunately olugirl saw them together again and rushes to nairaland.
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venue : Romance section
topic :Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men:
URL : https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-386576.0.html
content : Nigerian men in the UK are liars, they are cheats. they are siliy and i.diots. what should i do, i have money. i am educated, i am not a looser, i have degrees, i work with white men, in Buckingham palace, i have had dinner with the queen, i am above all of them Nigerian men ?


Sam Milla : You are actually a looser to think you can intimidate Men with where you work.
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by olugirl(f): 10:09am On Jan 30, 2010
venue : Romance section
topic :Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men:
URL : https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-386576.0.html
content : Nigerian men in the UK are liars, they are cheats. they are siliy and i.diots. what should i do, i have money. i am educated, i am not a looser, i have degrees, i work with white men, in Buckingham palace, i have had dinner with the queen, i am above all of them Nigerian men ?


Sam Milla : You are actually a looser to think you can intimidate Men with where you work.


[color=#006600]Very good!!! Sam Milla, it's nice to know we have such talent. Since you have so much time on your hands, hopefully you are putting it to good use as  well?[/color]
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by SamMilla1(m): 10:15am On Jan 30, 2010
olugirl:

Very good!!! Sam Milla, it's nice to know we have such talent. Since you have so much time on your hands, hopefully you are putting it to good use as  well?
cheesy cheesy

Hey Sweetheart. My L.S SERIES ARE JOKES.
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by twizy: 4:58pm On Jan 30, 2010
Lm$fao where did u get platinumpiggys foto from. Sam u are a genius. Funny story
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by na2day2(m): 5:24pm On Jan 30, 2010
twizy:

Lm$fao where did u get platinumpiggys foto from. Sam u are a genius. Funny story

dude, why dont u back off plat? angry angry angry
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by koolchicco: 5:33pm On Jan 30, 2010
na2day?:

dude, why dont u back off plat? angry angry angry

I wonder ooo!

Or maybe na loff nwantiti in disguise. undecided
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by THEAMAKA(f): 5:36pm On Jan 30, 2010
^^^
I'm gonna have nightmares please change your profile pic, ABEG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed cry cry cry cry cry cry angry angry angry angry
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by lysaa(f): 5:42pm On Jan 30, 2010
^^ is that the original poster cos this one sure hate men. grin
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by THEAMAKA(f): 5:43pm On Jan 30, 2010
huh??
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by koolchicco: 5:48pm On Jan 30, 2010
THE AMAKA:

^^^
I'm gonna have nightmares please change your profile pic, ABEG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed cry cry cry cry cry cry angry angry angry angry

I don catch u tday! cheesy

And wat were u looking for there? tongue

lysaa:

^^ is that the original poster cos this one sure hate men.  grin

Hehehe, Wetin kwancern YU? Amebo! grin
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by Uche2nna(m): 5:50pm On Jan 30, 2010
LOL @ Koolchico's profile, grin

Thats just plain nasty angry
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by THEAMAKA(f): 5:51pm On Jan 30, 2010
i look at everyone's profile so don't flatter yourself.
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by koolchicco: 6:12pm On Jan 30, 2010
Uche2nna:


LOL @ Koolchico's profile, grin

Thats just plain nasty angry


Would u like my kinda sandwich, Sir? grin
[size=2pt]Yummy![/size] tongue

THE AMAKA:

i look at everyone's profile so don't flatter yourself.
Sorry oo! Just didn't know u were this bored! lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by THEAMAKA(f): 6:13pm On Jan 30, 2010
because you don follow plat you can now start acting funky? okay oooo, i see how you are. *rolls eyes*
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by toyinA1(f): 6:16pm On Jan 30, 2010
Relationship really sucks gud girlz fall into d wrong hands.Nigerian men dont knw knw luv all dey ve is lust
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by koolchicco: 6:27pm On Jan 30, 2010
THE AMAKA:

because you don follow plat you can now start acting funky? okay oooo, i see how you are. *rolls eyes*

Wat exactly are your insinuations? undecided

toyin.A:

Relationship really sucks gud girlz fall into d wrong hands.Nigerian men dont knw knw luv all dey ve is lust

And how many have u been with to warrant such sweeping inference? undecided
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by THEAMAKA(f): 6:29pm On Jan 30, 2010
koolchicco:

Wat exactly are your insinuations? undecided

never mind. you started acting "different" when. . .
sigh. . . there is no use explaining.
carry on jo!
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by koolchicco: 6:41pm On Jan 30, 2010
^^ Differently? When

The last time I checked I haven't got a selective memory!!

*still thinking. . .*
undecided
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by page1: 10:41pm On Jan 30, 2010
hi love don't condem naija guys because of one bad one u met, if u can give mi chance in ur life i will show what real n sweet naija men are made of, it's no joke try mi my no is 08021362887.
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by GL(f): 12:32am On Jan 31, 2010
RichyBlacK:

God Almighty! I read all twelve pages!

me too! interesting, i must say. smiley

oyinda.:

best post so far by davidylan.  but then, many naija women already do this"careful selection" that's why they're single. to be with a naija guy, u have to reduce your standard to 0%  otherwise, u will be single till 40.  grin
that's why IMO, a lot of times, it's better that these ladies are single. singledom is better than being in a frustrated r/s with an irresponsible guy.
what's best though is if these women go and meet other non-naija guys. but it's also ok if they prefer to be single n successful. lol

sad sad sad
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by twizy: 12:35am On Jan 31, 2010
Hehehe me wey dey uk never even persuade poster na u wey dey naija one run trials from there. E be like say your manliness long reach 4th mainland bridge or u just one collect her yeye primark xmas boyfriend presents
Re: Bored, Lonely, Starting To Hate Nigerian Men: by platinumnk(f): 2:09am On Jan 31, 2010
koolchicco:

I wonder ooo!

Or maybe na loff nwantiti in disguise. undecided


kwu esi okwu undecided


THE AMAKA:

never mind. you started acting "different" when. . .
sigh. . . there is no use explaining.
carry on jo!


sis, there is nothing special, he is family just like you wink

@sexy2day- I see u o smiley

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