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Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by godwinstringed1(m): 1:01pm On Jun 18, 2017
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Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by Wilsonmoses: 1:03pm On Jun 18, 2017
Receive sense!!!!




MediumStout:
Before fatherhood i fuccck olosho three times a week. After fatherhood i fuccck olosho at weekends and fuccck my wife at week days cool

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Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by Nobody: 1:13pm On Jun 18, 2017
gentlechyke:


U no go understand. shebi e dey smoke if u light am?

Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by Shobizz(m): 1:16pm On Jun 18, 2017
I experience no fatherhood, Motherhood all the way. God bless you MUM. SHE ACT BOTH F&M

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Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by Nobody: 1:18pm On Jun 18, 2017
Fatherhood changed me in many ways. But the most profound was when I held my first Daughter in my hand 22 years ago I knew I had to back off from the street life and settle more into a professional career. Surprisingly it wasn't as hard as I thought it would be.

I thank God that today Fathers day 2017 she is graduating from Stanford University (Stanford University is a private research university in Stanford, California, adjacent to Palo Alto and between San Jose and San Francisco. Its 8,180-acre (12.8 sq mi; 33.1 km2)[12] campus is one of the largest in the United States. Its academic strength, wealth, and proximity to Silicon Valley have made it one of the world's most prestigious universities.) with a degree in Biomed Engineering.

So it paid off.

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Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by noruwasman(m): 1:20pm On Jun 18, 2017
That beautiful and taskfull pleasure of being a father. Its my prayer and wishes to b a father if Christ tarry before next father's day. That's all i hav to say for now

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Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by Nobody: 1:27pm On Jun 18, 2017
Fatherhood has changed a lot about me,its no longer about me and my wife now , you need to see the way I rush home now. I love my kids cool cool

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Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by Nobody: 1:34pm On Jun 18, 2017
Karlman:
...IS that your favourite character, stark? ...the dwarf & snow were mine! ...and i think they are the lifeline of that epic ...not forgetin the dragon queen.

He isn't exactly my favourite but I just have a soft spot for House Stark. Too bad Lord stark wasn't diabolical enough for kings landing politics, he could have kept his head.

Ok, the Tyrion lannister (the dwarf) was my favourite until his mouth got permanently stuck in the dragon queen's arse.

I love snow, lol. I admire the brutality of queen cersie and the ambition of little finger.

The most important date in my life right now is july 17th, release date of the next season of Game of thrones. I'm obsessed with it. Lol.

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Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by judgedredd22(m): 1:38pm On Jun 18, 2017
subtlemee:
I wish I can remember what my father use to do for me in terms of physical love and care aside paying school fees and providing money for upkeep and occasional trips to zoo...all I remember is him waking in the morning,taking breakfast and zooming off to work to come back,eat,flog those who misbehaved,read news paper,watch NTA and go to bed..everything was my mother in sickness and in health


I can't let my husband suffer this,i'll make sure I include him in my kids care plan


Oh, my lovely magic smile, is this the plan you have for me.... i'm sooo touched! kiss kiss kiss kiss

Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by PRISTINEMUSCLES: 1:42pm On Jun 18, 2017
MediumStout:
Before fatherhood i fuccck olosho three times a week. After fatherhood i fuccck olosho at weekends and fuccck my wife at week days cool

And in your small mind, you think you've have just made sense. I feel like flogging hell out of you now.

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Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by judgedredd22(m): 1:44pm On Jun 18, 2017
sonofLuci:



LOL I only watch the porn part in game of thrones

grin

Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jun 18, 2017
Lol savage
MediumStout:
Before fatherhood i fuccck olosho three times a week. After fatherhood i fuccck olosho at weekends and fuccck my wife at week days cool

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Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by judgedredd22(m): 1:48pm On Jun 18, 2017
EgunMogaji:
Fatherhood changed me in many ways. But the most profound was when I help my first Daughter in my hand 22 years ago I knew I had to back off from the street life and settle more into a professional career. Surprisingly it wasn't as hard as I thought it would be.

I thank God that today Fathers day 2017 she is graduating from Stanford University (Stanford University is a private research university in Stanford, California, adjacent to Palo Alto and between San Jose and San Francisco. Its 8,180-acre (12.8 sq mi; 33.1 km2)[12] campus is one of the largest in the United States. Its academic strength, wealth, and proximity to Silicon Valley have made it one of the world's most prestigious universities.) with a degree in Biomed Engineering.

So it paid off.


you just had to include something about building/real estate, didn't you? here no be property section o! grin



NB..congrats to your growing angel! e no easy o!

Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by MediumStout(m): 1:49pm On Jun 18, 2017
PRISTINEMUSCLES:


And in your small mind, you think you've have just made sense. I feel like flogging hell out of you now.



Flog me say i fuccck ur mama? Abi wetin u smoke wey no make u reason?
Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by Nobody: 1:51pm On Jun 18, 2017
judgedredd22:


you just had to include something about building/real estate, didn't you? here no be property section o! grin

NB..congrats to your growing angel! e no easy o!

grin

Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by judgedredd22(m): 1:59pm On Jun 18, 2017

Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by Nobody: 1:59pm On Jun 18, 2017
To be honest, if i knew what i know now about fatherhood, maybe i would have waited for 1 or 2 years before walking now the isle.
Fatherhood has helped to love, appreciate and cherish my parents the more
I respect woman more no matter how small, they have the ability to incubate and nurture
I save more by force, when you think of house rent, bills, car maintenance, feeding and contingencies you wil be forced to save
I become more spiritual, because now i know that some things are not by might
I'm more future and purpose driven in my endeavors.

Just came back from Church, will update it later.

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Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by bkoy: 2:12pm On Jun 18, 2017
Beautiful! Challenging when you are jobless tho
Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by Karlman: 2:27pm On Jun 18, 2017
Ziinno:


He isn't exactly my favourite but I just have a soft spot for House Stark. Too bad Lord stark wasn't diabolical enough for kings landing politics, he could have kept his head.

Ok, the Tyrion lannister (the dwarf) was my favourite until his mouth got permanently stuck in the dragon queen's arse.

I love snow, lol. I admire the brutality of queen cersie and the ambition of little finger.

The most important date in my life right now is july 17th, release date of the next season of Game of thrones. I'm obsessed with it. Lol.

...lol did his mouth really got stuck in an ass?
Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by Originalsly: 2:32pm On Jun 18, 2017
The #1 thing is sacrifice. As a father.... 'where there is a will there is a way.... nothing ... nothing prevents me from getting what my child needs. I find a way to provide....even my own needs... have to take back seat....ehmmm... I can't believe it!... but it happens over and over and over again!
Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by 300wayne: 2:35pm On Jun 18, 2017
free2ryhme:
who fathers' day epp
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Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by 300wayne: 2:37pm On Jun 18, 2017
free2ryhme:
who fathers' day epp
SOMETIMES IT'S BETTER TO KIP SHUT N LOOK SENSIBLE.......
Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by lonelydora: 2:41pm On Jun 18, 2017
subtlemee:
I wish I can remember what my father use to do for me in terms of physical love and care aside paying school fees and providing money for upkeep and occasional trips to zoo...all I remember is him waking in the morning,taking breakfast and zooming off to work to come back,eat,flog those who misbehaved,read news paper,watch NTA and go to bed..everything was my mother in sickness and in health


I can't let my husband suffer this,i'll make sure I include him in my kids care plan

Hahahaha. Typical African man you dad is.
Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jun 18, 2017
EgunMogaji:
Fatherhood changed me in many ways. But the most profound was when I help my first Daughter in my hand 22 years ago I knew I had to back off from the street life and settle more into a professional career. Surprisingly it wasn't as hard as I thought it would be.

I thank God that today Fathers day 2017 she is graduating from Stanford University (Stanford University is a private research university in Stanford, California, adjacent to Palo Alto and between San Jose and San Francisco. Its 8,180-acre (12.8 sq mi; 33.1 km2)[12] campus is one of the largest in the United States. Its academic strength, wealth, and proximity to Silicon Valley have made it one of the world's most prestigious universities.) with a degree in Biomed Engineering.

So it paid off.
Congrats to her and to you too. Happy Father's Day.

The location though, you want us to go kidnap her ni?

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Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by Nobody: 3:38pm On Jun 18, 2017
PaperLace:

Congrats to her and to you too. Happy Father's Day.

The location though, you want us to go kidnap her ni?

Thank you Madam, I couldn't be any prouder nor more thankful.

The FBI has a robust kidnapping unit and besides she's covered by the blood of our lord Jesus Christ as well as by Anobi Mohamed. We're also from Ijebu so traditional things. A trifecta if you may.

#TenThousandFallingTinzs grin
Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by Nobody: 3:42pm On Jun 18, 2017
influenz:
Good day Nairalanders.

Its no longer news that today is Fathers day.
A day set aside to celebrate our fathers and potential Fathers.

Personally fatherhood hood has changed my life for the better. I will itemize the ways fatherhood has changed me

1. Sacrifice: we know that the nation is going through a difficult time. This has impacted on our families as inflation has eroded our spending powers. This made the economic concept "alternative forgone" more prominent. Most times I give up on what I want to ensure my baby gets the best I can afford.

2. Spending more time at home: I now spend more time at. I make conscious effort to leave work on time to get home on time to spend more time with my baby. Read books to her (even though she is like 4 months), I observe she likes it when I read children books to her. This huge smiles on her face reveals that.

3. Develop my reading culture: I now spend most of my time reading books on fatherhood, family building, making money etc as fatherhood demands all these.

4. Appreciate my wife more: For the pains, sacrifices, and all that pertain to motherhood my wife has been through to bear me a child, I appreciate her more. My love for her has increased and I cant wish a better wife.

5. Improved relationship with God: I realized that fatherhood is not easy task. We all need God to see us through.

Peeps please feel free to shares yours and let's make fatherhood a venture that is worthwhile.
How I wish my husband is like dix, am not judging a book by itx cover though cuz u might say all dix goody goody tin and be an arse to your wife... God's blessings on you for being a true father if this is true about you...


Itz well....
Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by abescom: 3:51pm On Jun 18, 2017
1. Before I got married I was depressive, it reduced when I got married but totally gone now. My wife and daughter makes it impossible to get depressed.

2. Before my daughter arrived, people's behaviour get at me, I no send them again now. I have my daughter and she rocks.

3. Before my daughter, I had plans for the future, but now I see the future and it is very bright. That energizes me to work even harder to achieve my goals.

4. Before my daughter I think of people first, who 99% of the time are not worth it, now I think of my immediate family first. Others can go and die if they want.

5. She drew me closer to GOD. Her "awesomeness" makes me appreciate GOD the more. I don't know why I deserve such a lovely girl but GOD says I deserve her, and that's what counts to me.

6. She makes it impossible to be lazy, her future is there to protect.

7. I think my shoulder has grown 2 inches taller the last 14 months.

And many more.

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Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by abescom: 3:55pm On Jun 18, 2017
subtlemee:
I wish I can remember what my father use to do for me in terms of physical love and care aside paying school fees and providing money for upkeep and occasional trips to zoo...all I remember is him waking in the morning,taking breakfast and zooming off to work to come back,eat,flog those who misbehaved,read news paper,watch NTA and go to bed..everything was my mother in sickness and in health


I can't let my husband suffer this,i'll make sure I include him in my kids care plan
I can imagine. With due respect, I had it worst. So much that I watched that movie Isoken and brought down in tears at the cinemas and my wife was embarrassed.

But we can do something, we can ensure our children do not go through what we go through. We can ensure we are what we desire as fathers.

This is my own plan. My daughter will have everything I did not have and she will never suffer what I suffered. The GOOD LORD help me.

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Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by iRepNaija1: 4:00pm On Jun 18, 2017
subtlemee:
I wish I can remember what my father use to do for me in terms of physical love and care aside paying school fees and providing money for upkeep and occasional trips to zoo...all I remember is him waking in the morning,taking breakfast and zooming off to work to come back,eat,flog those who misbehaved,read news paper,watch NTA and go to bed..everything was my mother in sickness and in health


I can't let my husband suffer this,i'll make sure I include him in my kids care plan

Your father chose to exclude himself. No one forced him to be so removed.

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Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by sniper77(m): 4:24pm On Jun 18, 2017
Fatherhood transformed me to become a better person and to understand the concept of sacrificing for your family always. I strive so hard to ensure my wife and sons get the best. I was in the labour room with my wife to give her moral support on two occasions and watch her give birth to our sons. They are moments I will always cherish and my growing up in a wonderful family setting really exposed me to how a father nurtures his family.

The feeling of being a father is one that can never be traded for anything in life. My family comes first for me always.

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Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by OLUJOSHINS(m): 4:46pm On Jun 18, 2017
subtlemee:
I wish I can remember what my father use to do for me in terms of physical love and care aside paying school fees and providing money for upkeep and occasional trips to zoo...all I remember is him waking in the morning,taking breakfast and zooming off to work to come back,eat,flog those who misbehaved,read news paper,watch NTA and go to bed..everything was my mother in sickness and in health


I can't let my husband suffer this,i'll make sure I include him in my kids care plan


Do U have the faintest idea of what He passed through to pay that school fees?

3 times in a year for U & the others?

Do U have the faintest idea of what it takes to feed more than one mouth 3times daily?


U think He love whisking off early in the morning only to come back late at night?


U think He love hardwork?

Chai !!!!!!!!!!

He did all this & this is the best way U can appreciate Him


SMH

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Re: How Has Fatherhood Changed You? by PRISTINEMUSCLES: 5:10pm On Jun 18, 2017
MediumStout:




Flog me say i fuccck ur mama? Abi wetin u smoke wey no make u reason?

Hey, don't type faster than you think okay. Don't think because this is a faceless forum, you can spill out nonsense anyhow. Be careful.

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