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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by bonifieldstun(m): 12:09am On Jun 24, 2017
emmayayodeji:


lol i know

but shey wife no fit cheat ni?

i no trust women ohh
if she cheat den she goes to where ever i married her ass from no stress
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by KVN1(m): 12:10am On Jun 24, 2017
embarassed ... even you brother....you wey say to talk to girl dey hard you

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by gemale(m): 12:10am On Jun 24, 2017
CaesarDon:
Most relationships are built on lies and falsehood because people cheat, most people claim to be in love with their respective partners and succumb to any advances from the opposite sex when the chance arises. angry

Most people in relationships have been cheated on, I as well (I’m no saint though). To be honest I don’t trust any guy or lady not to cheat, and i don’t get so emotional about it when it happens, I just see it as my cue to return the gesture with her smoking hot close friend and lead her on until I see someone that deems fit to take her place, then I rub it to her face. karma right cool

 I have never been caught cheating ( smileywell with someone I’m in a real relationship with, otherwise is not cheating) but my girlfriend crysmh.

 She said she couldn’t come over cos she was in severe pains as a thoughtful bf I decided to pay her a surprise visit, lo and behold her pains were caused cos she was being plunged. angry

 You know I could see that "let the earth swallow me" fear in her eyes, That feeling of been scorned is what you feel at that moment you catch your partner cheating, expect anything from your partner if you are on the other side(on the bed) grin you know that feeling of being scorned, I dunno why most people attack the other person and not their partner though, well, crime of passion.

I wasn’t really upset until she did the dumbest thing ever, beg me, like are you for real, the only reasonable excuse is that you were being raped but you were doing the raping, or voodoo was used to control you, or maybe use it on me to be dumb, I don’t go physical with ladies but trust me I wanted to whoop her ass, I just had to walk off there, my only regret is that I didn’t get to return the gesture with her best friend (well, when we were together though) wink

Share your experiences, be honest, how did you react when you caught your partner cheating, or you were caught in the act. LET THE CONFESSIONS BEGIN!!! grin grin

Cheating never pays. 1 is only doing his or herself a whole ton of damage. Bad habits are addictive & hard to break. In the end, it would put the parties involved in trouble. Anyone involved should desist, repent & ask God for guidance on how to break that enslaving habit before it leads the person to somewhere undesirable.

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by KVN1(m): 12:10am On Jun 24, 2017
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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by Shiitposter: 12:11am On Jun 24, 2017
BabaCommander:
Coward! There are billions of men and women on earth, one person can not turn you away from humanity. To love is to live and a soul without love is dead.

Please shut up about what you dont understand. That quote doesnt apply to girlfriends only, its for family, friends, ect. Not just women.

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by chikachike86(m): 12:14am On Jun 24, 2017
CaesarDon:


Yeah kiss class act at least she didn't see you

You are a criminal! Why do I say this? If a normal being experiences the " so called agony you portrayed above" and still maintain the stoicism you exhibits in your reply to Post's, then you are superhuman with little or no emotions.
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by timilehin007(m): 12:19am On Jun 24, 2017
bonifieldstun:
lol Ask Google
me and Google no fight I dey for ask am straight I swear

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by piagetskinner(m): 12:21am On Jun 24, 2017
I weep for this generation.... see how folks are boasting about their cheating escapades



if someone cheats on u and u cant bear it, walk away and find someone that is loyal.,..not pay the person back by cheating on the person as well and pretending UV forgiven that Person.

2 wrongs don't make a right

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by chronique(m): 12:26am On Jun 24, 2017
First ever was with my bestie and he told me what's up. I asked for physical evidence of her body and he gave accurate description. I concluded we could rotate and both have our turns. We both took turns but She didn't know she was already a game. When I was leaving the hood, I announced to other guys that I had signed out and they could go collect their share...

The only other close experience isn't worth sharing. Not a topic for public consumption.

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by condomuser: 12:39am On Jun 24, 2017
Her toto is only yours the moment u climb on top of her and insert your blokus inside her kpomo, as soon as you release your ownership don expire grin

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by Nobody: 12:46am On Jun 24, 2017
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by crowley(m): 12:47am On Jun 24, 2017
Nma27:
Why put her to test? Would u have passed such test? Hypocrite
so fu€king what? like women were'nt created to b fu€ked. well thank God we are moving towards the enlightment age, where men wont have any need for marriage, nd kids can be gotten tru surrogate. then women wud just be for pleasure.

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by Nobody: 12:48am On Jun 24, 2017
IloveMoney:
Didn't catch her but i intentionally set her up with a playboy friend who i knew was very good with ladies to test her and she fell for him. Infact the next day she was already in his room.

when i asked her, she denied it until we went mountaineering some days later and on the mountain i brought up the topic again, seeing the anger in my eyes and it was only both of us on the mountain, i guess she feared that i may beat the shiit out of her sense,so she started confessing and crying. She even called her mum to tell her all that happened and how she F*ed up.(well she tells her mum everything)

I eventually i didn't do anything. Because i later found out that the guy actually was the one who forced her because she refused and the nigga only ended up masturbating. But my anger was why she followed him to his room in the first place and again that quick after meeting him a day before. That was the day she lost me and became my fuc.king toy instead of GF, till i threw her to the bin. No tym

OAU student??
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by slap1(m): 12:50am On Jun 24, 2017
I can't relate.
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by luminouz(m): 1:02am On Jun 24, 2017
Nma27:
Walked out like a boss... No time
*Yinmu* more like u screamed like a banshee, cried ur eyes out n eyed the HYPO bottle in d kitchen!! cool

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by luminouz(m): 1:05am On Jun 24, 2017
cricifixo:
Well I froze but my d1<k kept shouting "black hawk down! I repeat, black hawk down!"
Ur mudafvcking crazy I swear!!!! grin grin grin grin
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by ShinyJay22(m): 1:08am On Jun 24, 2017
Very funny topic...Anyways cheating ain't something y'all should be proud of even if y'all be guilty (me inclusive)

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by onyekachee(f): 1:09am On Jun 24, 2017
BabaCommander:
A man that was caught cheating by his partner, is that one even a man? wink
a dull man grin grin
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by nkwuocha: 1:16am On Jun 24, 2017
I cried for days like a bittch!!
She apologized much later and I wished her well and moved on. Funny she married same guy she cheated with and they are both doing well. That's life....it goes on. No time to worry over things not in one's control.

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by Nobody: 1:26am On Jun 24, 2017
obataokenwa:
I became good man and houseboy for some time with enough quietness and I used character to show remorse. She was just staring at me and I was so ashamed and I felt so sorry with my actions and she forgave me. I took her to a quiet place and asked her to forgive and she kissed me and said "I love you"
hehe...something tells me this story isn't Complete(probably the part you aren't aware of)

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by Wolexpoly: 1:27am On Jun 24, 2017
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ACTUALLY I RESPECT MY IMMIDIATE EX ALOT BECOS I HAVE NEVER CAUGHT HER CHEATING BEFORE....SHE IS TOO SMART FOR DAT......I JUST FAKE REACTIONS WITH HER EVEN DOH I DONT KNOW ANYTIN I'D BE LIKE "SOPHIA....SOPHIA...SOOOOOPHIA....WHYYYYYYY WHAT AV I DONT TO DESEARVE ALL THESE FROM YOU...I TOT YOU SAID U AV CHANGED" LO AND BEHOLD I WILL BEGIN TO HEAR "AM SORRY" CHORUSES.....IT WAS A MISTAKE.....THEN TEARS......I GOT USED TO THE FAKE METHOD TO THE POINT DAT WHEN EVER I FROWN AT HER SHE WILL BE THE ONE TO SAY "HONEY SERIOUSLY BEFORE GOD AND MAN, WE ONLY KISSED..NO SEX I SWEAR"........ AT DIS TIME MY LOVE TEMPERATURE HAS ALREADY DROPPED TO -O DEGREE.....SO I JUST PLAYED ALONG......SHE FELT SO FREE TILL SHE STARTES TELLING ME HERSELF WHENEVER SHE CHEATED..SO ALL I NEEDED TO ASK WAS....HOPE USED CONDOM? I DIDNT TELL HER I AD BROKEN UP WITH HER O....ONE DAY I JUST SIMPLY INTRODUCED ANODA GIRL TO HER AND TOLD HER THAT WAS MY NEW GIRL....GUESS WHAT.....SHE FELT BAD BUT MANAGES TO SMILE AND TOLD ME WITH HER OWN MOUTH THAT SHE HAS BEEN EXPEXTING ME TO DISH HER A LONG TIME AGO.....SHE SAID I HAVE TRIED AND SHE RESPECTED ME ALOT......AND WILL NEVER FORGET ME BLA BLA BLA........POINT IS...WHEN THEY CHEAT.....DONT KILL URSELF OVER IT....IF YOU TRUELY LIVE HIM OR HER......YOU WILL SAY IT TO THEIR FACE....AND IF THEY DO LOVE YOU TRUELY...THEY WILL CHANGE...IF THEY DONT....U ALREADY KNOW UR ROUTE....JUST LEAVE HIM.OR HER TILL UR LOVE TEMP DROPS FINALLY...FIND ANODA GUY/GIRL...INTRODUCE TO HIM/HER....HE/SHE WILL EJECT HIS OR HERSELF WILLINGLY TO YOUR EXONERATION

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by CertifiedGee(m): 1:29am On Jun 24, 2017
Caught my gf cheating on me with a guy she introduced as a distant relative. She was really remorseful about it tho bt she couldnt give me a tangible reason to get involved with d guy. Although, she claimed they never had anytin 2geda nt even hug not to talk of s*x coz dere relationship was just 2 to 3 weeks old when I caught her but I don't believe her a bit. She apologised and she even involve some family nd friends in begging 4 her. I accepted d apology coz I want my revenge which I am still getting.

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by Wolexpoly: 1:33am On Jun 24, 2017
BabaCommander:
It's possible you were the wrong person... If you can't meet up with your responsibilies, your partner may seek solace in another arm.

I AGREE!!!
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by IloveMoney: 1:39am On Jun 24, 2017
BoluGabriel:
OAU student??

student ke......
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by RealAlfranco: 1:56am On Jun 24, 2017
I got a hunch she was cheating but had no concrete proof. Lo,we came home for holiday and I picked her phone,I normally don't lock my phone cos I don't like stress, but hers was longer than London Bridge bruh! Meanwhile before she unlocked the phone she turned on the screen record so she can see where and what I saw ( lel,see dis gal o...I was using this type of phone and how she thought I would not notice it beats me till this moment).

Well,I knew the guys name and so I went straight to her WhatsApp chat with the dude, didn't read the messages ,went straight for the shared media and bruh...NUDES EVERYWHERE!!!

I froze man, I covered myself with blanket but nah,cold was blowing deep inside my soul fam.

I knew it was over,she cried and begged but man,nah. I just told her "isokay isokay". Not cos I wasn't pained but cos I wanted to f+ck!

Then I took her to the theatre and knacked one last time


Niggazz stay woke!

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by AreaFada2: 2:00am On Jun 24, 2017
crisisexpert321:
What is relationship and what is sex all na sleeping with each other. The truth there is no love in Nigeria, don't be decived.
This is the truth people refuse to accept.

A guy with enough time and money gets many girls if he wants.

A girl with plenty of time, little money & at least averagely pretty if she wants can get many guys, even if just to make ends meet.

Guys that are contented with that one babe are few.

Guys that can meet the majority of the needs of a girl are VERY few.

So the stage is set for cheating to flourish in 9ja environment.

It is simply a market place nowadays.

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by jiangchu: 3:45am On Jun 24, 2017
CaesarDon:
Most relationships are built on lies and falsehood because people cheat, most people claim to be in love with their respective partners and succumb to any advances from the opposite sex when the chance arises. angry

Most people in relationships have been cheated on, I as well (I’m no saint though). To be honest I don’t trust any guy or lady not to cheat, and i don’t get so emotional about it when it happens, I just see it as my cue to return the gesture with her smoking hot close friend and lead her on until I see someone that deems fit to take her place, then I rub it to her face. karma right cool

 I have never been caught cheating ( smileywell with someone I’m in a real relationship with, otherwise is not cheating) but my girlfriend crysmh.

 She said she couldn’t come over cos she was in severe pains as a thoughtful bf I decided to pay her a surprise visit, lo and behold her pains were caused cos she was being plunged. angry


 You know I could see that "let the earth swallow me" fear in her eyes, That feeling of been scorned is what you feel at that moment you catch your partner cheating, expect anything from your partner if you are on the other side(on the bed) grin you know that feeling of being scorned, I dunno why most people attack the other person and not their partner though, well, crime of passion.

I wasn’t really upset until she did the dumbest thing ever, beg me, like are you for real, the only reasonable excuse is that you were being raped but you were doing the raping, or voodoo was used to control you, or maybe use it on me to be dumb, I don’t go physical with ladies but trust me I wanted to whoop her ass, I just had to walk off there, my only regret is that I didn’t get to return the gesture with her best friend (well, when we were together though) wink

Share your experiences, be honest, how did you react when you caught your partner cheating, or you were caught in the act. LET THE CONFESSIONS BEGIN!!! grin grin



this will be my reaction.
https://www.nairaland.com/3776117/funmi-iyanda-yoruba-men-dont
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by Coldfeets: 4:32am On Jun 24, 2017
I'm a free agent so being caught is out of the question for me.

As for catching her, I don't even care because I don't intend 'owning' her or anyone else as a matter of fact.

If you want to fück, go an' fück.

There are more important things in this world to think about other than who is fücking who and with whom.

That is me.

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by trappatoni(m): 4:49am On Jun 24, 2017
Nma27:
Walked out like a boss... No time
wow i love this.The best revenge is no revenge, walk out like a boss.

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