Many men wonder why women are the largest part of any religious gathering not just in Nigeria but all around the world.

The truth is that many of them are so emotional than their male counterpart, this is why it take most of them time to get over break-up.

Religion is a way of life which must be taken emotionally or you get distracted easily, this is why it is so hard to convince a woman in love.

Because of this sincere emotion and passion the women have towards religious service they tend to respect the religious leaders more than their husband.

How many women will you see kneeling down to greet or serve their husband?

Whereas, they can even enter into the ground to greet a religious leader to show the level of respect.

Some women will appear to their religious leaders as saint when they just engaged in a duel of weapons with their husband.

Most women become actress at the sound of the voice of their religious leaders
They assume their religious leader to be god that they worship, they view them as a completely perfect being forgetting that they are also human being and servant of which anyone can be called no matter the age or gender.

The funniest part is that women even respect the female religious leader who is of same gender with them than their husband.

This is one of the causes of marriage failure for some union.

We really need to change our orientation about the way we see some things.

I remember listening to one religious leader who said that you have given him poison when you respect him while you disrespect the man that tied the knot with you on the altar.

He said if you cannot kneel down for your man don't kneel for him as this is common among women.

Though we all pretend at different instances. Men too have their issues, like those who through their innocence you will have deduced they haven't known any woman even after 4 children.

The issue of discussion for this post is women, so we shouldn't delve. Please change this bias attitude.

Your husband is even more important than the religious leaders as they can aid your commitment to God faster than you can reach your spiritual leader.

Don't forget if they don't allow you there will be limit to the belief, don't let them to start cursing the religious leader when you do to them(the religious leader) what you lack with them(your husband) at home or even outside, God is a jealous God let alone human being His creation


Source: http://bamisepeters..com/2017/06/most-women-respect-spiritual-leaders.html

#fact

As a husband,you shouldn't care if she bows for her so called religious leaders,so long as she respects you and perform her marital duties with vigor.please op,do not spoil the minds of so many husbands who would come to read this thread.like you said,women are emotional so let us understand them.
His the like button all the ladies

This is very true.

On the orders of spiritual leaders, some dry headed descendants of Jezebels even kill their husbands.

Very true, especially in Nigeria.
U hear words like Daddy this and Daddy that
Most women listens to these so called Daddies more than their husband's, so pathetic I must say.

If I have a wife who is more inclined towards the pastor than myself, then we can just agree among ourselves that the marriage is fissured

Shamefully, annoyingly and heart-breakingly TRUE

As in ehn. women and wahala..its just too much. They're always having problem keeping to what is right before God and man. I no knw why God made them that way oh.

If its not pastor, its children. Its good to honor pastor..God loves it too. But you're not married to your pastor neither can he do more than being a pastor to you except he has another motive.
A woman's husband is her Lord according to the bible and Qur'an standard, not pastor.

They're the reason many pastors fall sef. If you check a list of counselees who wants to see the pastor, 70% are women and what they want to see the pastor for is not usually a life-storm situation.

..."Ehn pastor one woman in my neighbourhood that we're not greeting each other is wearing black ring to point finger at me, pls give me anointing oil or anointed handkerchief so that I will sprinkle it on my doormouth so that witch will do herself"... They emergently turn pastors to babalawo.

You're running to pastor for every little fear u have and if the pastor starts feeling affectionate towards you as human made of flesh, its still you that will use your mouth to scatter his career to pieces. Nawa.

When you people will not allow them have rest of mind, the next place is the church nae. Have you seen a woman, with a loving and supportive husband who doesn't cheat on her, sleeping inside church or worshipping one religious leader?

It's marital troubles that pushes them there.

What I don't get is the comparison between a spiritual leader to a husband. Both serves different purposes in our lives and are accorded different level of respect. Do you as a man treat your boss in the office the same way you'd treat your wife at home?. Or do you speak to your boss with the same tone you'd use on your spouse?.

We all have people we look up to and give respect. To some it could either be a friend/boss/pastor/husband/wife/in-law/sibling. The only way to get someone to do something you think they're being adamant about which could affect their lives negatively is to look out for who they respect most to help convince them. Spiritual leaders have saved many marriages just as some have destroyed marriages, so the comparison is uncalled for.

So true, and that is why a pastor will brainwash them into sleeping with him in da name of jisos!

This is the reason i love smart ladies who are not fanatical with religion, atheist ladies to be precise. It's so attractive to see a lady who can hold her own and not follow the crowd.

pocohantas:
When you people will not allow them have rest of mind, the next place is the church nae. Have you seen a woman, with a loving and supportive husband who doesn't cheat on her, sleeping inside church or worshipping one religious leader?

It's marital troubles that pushes them there.

Not always true.

pocohantas:
When you people will not allow them have rest of mind, the next place is the church nae. Have you seen a woman, with a loving and supportive husband who doesn't cheat on her, sleeping inside church or worshipping one religious leader?

It's marital troubles that pushes them there.

i understand your point, but this case is not just particular to those women who their husband cheat, and i am not trying to make them look odd with that choice, that is just the way most women behave especially in this country.

swiz123:
As a husband,you shouldn't care if she bows for her so called religious leaders,so long as she respects you and perform her marital duties with vigor.please op,do not spoil the minds of so many husbands who would come to read this thread.like you said,women are emotional so let us understand them.
His the like button all the ladies

I am not making this to make men feel depressed, i think most men know but there seems to be nothing we can do about it. The thing is that it is even those responsible wife that do it most, please don't get me wrong, Doing that to the religious leader doesn't mean she is not responsible.

bamisepeters:
i understand your point, but this case is not just particular to those women who their husband cheat, and i am not trying to make them look odd with that choice, that is just the way most women behave especially in this country.

Marital troubles, not only cheating. Some dey find pikin, some their children no know book, husband business is not moving well.
She has to go look for solution, next place is church fiam! We spiritualise everything in this country. It's either they're going there to fight against the one that's happening or to prevent it from happening. I heard someone say that the most unhappy married women are found in the church. I don't know if it's true ooo.

pocohantas:

Marital troubles, not only cheating. Some dey find pikin, some their children no know book, husband business is not moving well.
You know people like to blame wives? She has to go look for solution, next place is church fiam! We spiritualise everything in this country.

I heard someone say that the most unhappy married woman are found in the church. I don't know if it's true ooo.

maybe survey will prove that true or false sha.

RadicallyBlunt:
As in ehn. women and wahala..its just too much. They're always having problem keeping to what is right before God and man. Sometimes I wonder why God made them that way.

A woman's husband is her Lord according to the bible and Qur'an standard. But familiarity with their husbands makes them lose focus on what God has laid down.

If its not pastor, its children. Its good to honor pastor..God loves it too. But you're not married to your pastor neither can he do more than being a pastor to you except he has another motive.

They're the reason many pastors fall sef. If you check a list of counselees who wants to see the pastor, 70% are women and what they want to see the pastor for is not usually a life-storm situation.

..."Ehn pastor one woman in my neighbourhood that we're not greeting each other is wearing black ring to point finger at me, pls give me anointing oil or anointed handkerchief so that I will sprinkle it on my doormouth so that witch will do herself"... They emergently turn pastors to babalawo.

You're running to pastor for every little fear u have and if the pastor starts feeling affectionate towards you as human made of flesh, its still you that will use your mouth to scatter his career to pieces. Nawa.

Hard knock truth

Very true!

pocohantas:
When you people will not allow them have rest of mind, the next place is the church nae. Have you seen a woman, with a loving and supportive husband who doesn't cheat on her, sleeping inside church or worshipping one religious leader?

It's marital troubles that pushes them there.

My sister, you have said it all.

Most women become religious when their house is on fire.

This is correct in some households and these "men of god" take advantage of this.

true...they even call them Daddy

Your Pastor has 7 bodyguards and you only have his sticker on your car to Protect you Is your brain paining you?



It looks like NwaAmaikpe is back. Is it true? Abi he is half back cos I can't see his comments yet. Or is he shying shy?

Because society tend to blame women for every bad thing that happens in the
home front, many have erroneously adopt and worship spiritualists as a way to solve
life challenges and find favor from god.

The sheeple among them.

Daddy G.O
I have seen cases of women going out of way to respect the "Mummys" too

because they are weak . My pastor said my pastor said. Yet we dey see pastors dey divorce ( eg Chris O and chris O ). Yet dem go tell u all u need in ur marriage is prayer. Ndi ara

na amebo dey worry dem na

and when all these men of God blala them, they will be shedding crocodile tears.

Imagine. Though, it is pure ignorance on their part. The same reason they are more in church then men. Easily deceived.