I wanna share my story,it might help someone out there

6 years ago,i had a sexual encounter with a lady whom i met for the first time,and i never knew her hiv status but i heard she was a promiscuous lady.Exactly 6days later,i fell really ill.although i used a condom on her and an sure it didn't burst.i went to the general hospital where the doctor told me it was malaria,he gave me some drugs which didn't help.Then i made the biggest mistake of my life by typing on google "symptoms of hiv".that was the beginning of my problem. I could remember vividly that i also had a stiff neck during that period.it was as if all the symptoms began to manifest.i went back to the general hospital again and this time,i mer with a consultant.He saw how pale i was looking and advice i do hiv test,it was just a month after the sexual encounter which i obliged and did the test.I was negative.i was happy about the result but deep down i still knew i had to wait for a 3months period to confirm.i never had the courage to go back.fast foward till two years ago,i went to niger to serve ,all my life i have never had typhoid but this cut me there,o treat it comes back in few months, my major sign is abdominal pain.within the space of 2years i have treated typhoid over 5times still it comes back.so i felt my immune system is totally down.i inform my two elder sisters about this,that i think its high time i do this cause the typhoid is back again. just this afternoon they came and we decided to side line my mum. I was already telling the lab attendant to direct me to the closest hiv center.my result came out negative. I wept there because for over 6years,i have been wasting my time on something that was not there.And small headache or sickness i had during that period, i would attribute to hiv.i have learnt some lessons from this

1)not because you fall ill regularly, it then means you have hiv.Hiv doesn't have a particular symptom.The only way to know is testing
2)i hear myths of how condoms has holes in them,this is a big lie.A doctor once told me the only way hiv could pass is if it burst.thats when they say its improperly used. always use a cd
3)never Google your symptoms especially "symptoms of hiv".it would give you what you want.
The brain is a powerful tool,it can make you believe what isn't there,as long as you give it too much thought

You have been living with fear brought upon yourself because of random sex...
At the end of your story,you still encouraged random sex by advocating condom use...
For your information,the virus is smaller than the condom pores...
That your doctor really 'gave you a good advice'.
I will advise you to be more careful because A ROASTED GRASSHOPPER STILL BRINGS OUT FRESH OIL.

Smiles...
Avoid sex...

During my wedding, I was mandated by the church to do this test...mehn, fear really catch me no be small. I thank God that I am OK.

All the same never forget rule number 1) USE PROTECTION.lesson to everyone out there.

The power of fear

And Job said:

Job 3:25
What I feared has come upon me; what I dreaded has happened to me

BiafraBushBoy:
Smiles...

Avoid sex...

Lol u mean random sex rite cos guys no wan hear dat advice.....Op sef own too much gave himself headache on what he could have just gone for the test one time.

Larryfest:

Lol u mean random sex rite cos guys no wan hear dat advice.....Op sef own too much gave himself headache on what he could have just gone for the test one time.

anyone sha... lol

eezeribe:
You have been living with fear brought upon yourself because of random sex...
At the end of your story,you still encouraged random sex by advocating condom use...
For your information,the virus is smaller than the condom pores...
That your doctor really 'gave you a good advice'.
I will advise you to be more careful because A ROASTED GRASSHOPPER STILL BRINGS OUT FRESH OIL.

my bro lets nt deceive ourselves, even if u tell dem nt to have sex,dey still would. i can only advice to use protection

That is the power of the mind. Once you protect yourself with a good condom as well as maintaining a faithful sexual partner, there is usually no cause to fear. I can count how many times i have gone "skin to skin" and it is usually with someone "clean".