So I've be pondering over this for a while, and I really want to know if age differences, between couple have negative ways or positive ways of influencing their marriage.

Yes o. More age Gap, more respect.

age is basically an African thing.. If you know your worth and have a very good brain, even anyone older than you will still give you your respect. and as regards marriage, just have brains and balls, age is secondary when you don't have both

Any tin above 5 year is game over oh

Yes o. I have observed that men who give their ladies a a gap of above 8 years will always treat her like a kid. Really annoying.


Modified: I don't mean pampering her.

IamKashyBaby:


Romancelanders are mostly singles sha..move this to the FAMILY SECTION, they will give u better answers since most of them are married & they can relate to ur KWESHUN

Thnx hun ...

Nutase:
Yes o. I have observed that men who give his lady a agap of above 8 years will always treat her like a kid.

Would you love to be treated that way? Its kinda weird sha

ojun50:
Any tin above 5 year is game over oh

Lmao for real bro?
Must people say age is just numbers

wintersnow:


Lmao for real bro?
Must people say age is just numbers

don't mind those thy are jst deceiving them self. Any tin 5 is game over

wintersnow:



Would you love to be treated that way? Its kinda weird sha

There are women who like that...so long as it is accompanied by pampering.

wintersnow:



Would you love to be treated that way? Its kinda weird sha

God forbid

Nutase:
God forbid

I thought most ladies love being pampered by their husbands though

SmartyPants:


There are women who like that...so long as it is accompanied by pampering.

There's nothing a lady loves more than being pampared ..

Not really, it juz depends on d situation.

Yes and no....it is a personal thing...a guy can get married to lady he is 10 years older than and the marriage will be smooth, a lady can also get married to a younger guy,I'd she is humble ,things will move well.the issue about age is that guys want respect and it seems younger ladies do that because they will view the guy has a father figure.ladies want to be pampered and the older guys pamper more.my advise is that follow your heart not age differences,but note that nature cannot be changed.take into reckoning that a lady ages faster ,hope you will still like liver her after dripping three to four?...be wise

wintersnow:


I thought most ladies love being pampered by their husbands though

There is a great difference between being pampered and treated like a child.

babyfaceafrica:
Yes and no....it is a personal thing...a guy can get married to lady he is 10 years older than and the marriage will be smooth, a lady can also get married to a younger guy,I'd she is humble ,things will move well.the issue about age is that guys want respect and it seems younger ladies do that because they will view the guy has a father figure.ladies want to be pampered and the older guys pamper more.my advise is that follow your heart not age differences,but note that nature cannot be changed.take into reckoning that a lady ages faster ,hope you will still like liver her after dripping three to four?...be wise

Hmmm I think I get your point... The fact that lady ages faster than guys, its advisable to get married to a very young girl

Nutase:
There is a great difference between being pampered and treated like a child.

Lol a father like figure I guess..

wintersnow:


Hmmm I think I get your point... The fact that lady ages faster than guys, its advisable to get married to a very young girl

exactly.....Don't you see these ladies around?.. You will see a 16 year old and shout wawu!!!!....it is like dem chop fertilizer!,,,there is nothing wrong with marrying for love o...but by the time your wife grows and people.start wondering if she is your mother or aunty,wahala dey!!!.....everyone should do wetin dey he mind sha..this is my own observation!!