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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by pinetulips(m): 6:11pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
josju:. You better read books and invest in your mind the reasons for marriage Then go and propose if you want her to be your wife and mother of your children. Let tomorrow take care of itself. Even Jesus in the Lords prayer said" give us this day our daily bread" 3 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Humility017(m): 6:11pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Water101:wowww....that's great I tried severally wit older ladies but the more frustrated I get ..I still don't understand a lady you just meet...and trying to express your feelings towards... will be telling you of her desire to get married....these same year. so sorry to say...this...a lot of older ladies are so desperate to get married..many turned me down reason because I told them ...I will be getting married 2 years time... it is sickening 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by oilcity(m): 6:14pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
My broda don't think her up as a wife yet o. Wait till d pressures of sex and yahoo boys start falling heavily on her den u will knw if she's truly loyal or not. I will always go for 24 and above. 3 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Odaveboy(m): 6:15pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
emmaadigun: sorry Bro.... school life is getting to her... most babes I know do that....cheers 2 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Nedfed(m): 6:17pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Op come make I burst your head. Am much sure you know Tiwa savage, Funke Akindele, Tonto dikeh and likes of others. They all married at a well matured age but what happen? Omotola Ekeinde got married at the age of 18 and the marriage is still moving on fine. Age is nothing when comes to relationship/marriage. What matters most is trust and understanding. My dad married my mum@the age of 17. Now the marriage has clocked 40yrs. Just make sure you take your time to study her very well. Cause she's much better than dos tokubo out there. Wey dia pus§y don over expand with numerous of abortion. 6 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Water101(f): 6:18pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Humility017:if u are a christian i advice that u pray for a wife..a virtuous one,read proverb 19:14,may God help u mk rite choice. 3 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by andycom(m): 6:20pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
[quote author=pocohantas post=58047510]People change because they want to change and some don't have the right guidance. Not just because they are getting older. The thing you should have in mind is, contrary to what you read on NL, not every young girl in her early twenties is very enthusiastic about getting married at that age. Lots of them acshuali want to explore and experience life...this isn't always sexual. So, what you should do is carefully observe her and find out her type of girl. Use your senses in the relationship. Don't overdo... Don't go footing all her expenses in the name of love. Most importantly, long relationships is totally unnecessary most times. That's what leads to lots of issues. Most ladies left their first love because they were most times of the same age and marriage didn't seem to be in the picture. If you observe her and she is perfect, marry her as soon as it's convenient for you both. No need fukceen each other for 6years and counting in the name of relationship. Ignore people that will tell you to leave her alone, they are the same people that will tell you not to go for an older one because she will most likely have high bodycount. One would wonder what they want[/quote this your name get as e be 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by massive1019(m): 6:23pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
pocohantas:you make sense die....love your comment. keep it up. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by GindoX(m): 6:23pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by damzy88: 6:24pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
ikp120:This is it 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Humility017(m): 6:24pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Water101:amen...thanks I am a Christian... I will do what u just said thank you 2 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by GindoX(m): 6:29pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Benekruku: Baddoo! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by livinbygrace: 6:30pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
kilokeys: My brother forget that talk.You better marry her now before you come back to this platform to tell stories that touch the heart.Girls of that age always wants to explore,its natural. 2 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by donmatin(m): 6:38pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Secretario:That quote of yours is amazing. Nice piece of advice too 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by whyman(m): 6:38pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
alexialin: Very true, I have a friend who married a girl just out of Secondary school then, we make jest of him and his wife that very soon he will get tired but for the past 10 years now they are perfect lovebirds. Our own wives are our mates with no respect for us but his own was very respectful and sincere. Infact we always envy him. They are like friends or brother sister sort of married life. Her understanding surpasses our wayward ones, who always are worldly wise. While our own are very jealous and nagging. She never exhibit any and seem matured than our wives which are older and sophisticated. I told my friend one day that he is the luckiest among us and he said we have different choices - that no woman can control him and rather he would like to be in control else there will ruckus in the family. Please, OP let her trust you and love you and I promise you will have the best life partner you can ever have. Our great grandfathers marry younger girls, as wife and they are dutiful, honest and trustworthy. They serve their family diligently. 6 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Svelte98(f): 6:42pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
First of all, what do most of you even mean by "explore"? I"m in my early 20's(22 to be precise) and the only "exploration" i would like to engage in is travelling, furthering my education, getting a good job and attaining a level of success/comfort hopefully before i get married. The truth is that a lot of young people now are actually much smarter and mature for their age. Yes, there are some who are still childish and immature, but obviously the OP's girlfriend isnt in that category as he speaks highly of her, the only problem/fear he has is if she'll change her attitude as she gets older. Personally i"lld say if you think she's worth the risk, then continue with her and be upfront with her about your plans for the both of you so she"ll know where she stands with you on time. If she still goes ahead to change her attitude later on, then sorry in advance, but if she doesn't, please marry her. Good girls are rare this days. Bottom line is, maturity isnt by age. There's an igbo proverb that says "someone's height doesn't determine how mature he/she is". Same goes for the age as well, there are a lot of ladies in their late 20's and early 30's who are still immature and childish and don't even know want they want in life. And in the same vein there are a lot of ladies in their early 20's who already know what they want in life and are mature to a T! Just be with her, pray about it(the relationship and impending marriage) and leave the rest to God. C"est fíniś. Ayaf talk my own finish biko. Lemme go and watch my POWER.� #AngelaValdezIssaWomanScorned#�� .Who else is feeling this their soundtrack; Monster? Happy Sunday Guys. 9 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by MrSly(m): 6:45pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
josju: IAMNOTALONE after all To be successful in it. You must be a father, brother, friend and a role model to her. You must give her and maintain the impression that you have class(not cash) more than the people she possibly comes in contact with, but must be financially reliable to an extent. Don't rush to her skirt especially if she is still a virgin because she might still be guarding it with pride and at all cost, thus bringing in sex at this time might spoil the show(depending on the personality) Above all, who loves more? If she loves more, maintain it. If you love more then be vigilant and don't take put in anything you cant forfeit cos She is liable to adventure. But don't be afraid, mine is moving successfully, your will be successful too. 7 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Nobody: 6:56pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
whyman: True but secondary school is too small o He's lucky and he's a good man. When man treats a good woman well, even if she's younger or older . he will receive the best out of her . Especially during courtship which then progress into marriage . Am telling u that man will not regret his choice . One cannot expect an abusive and mean man to have a good wife ? Even if he was lucky to marry a good wife ? One day? She will either leave the house for him or become mean towrads him. Men who married older women should try and be loving, caring and good towards their wives , especially if shes a GOOD WOMAN ? they wil be shocked at the outcome after some weeks . 2 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by YelloweWest: 7:02pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
I can't believe the trash I'm reading here. Age has little or nothing to do with maturity. I met my husband at 17. We got married when I was 18. He is 20+ years my senior. We've been married for 13years now and I've never thought of cheating or "exploring" with another man. God forbid! Why?? 1. He treats me well: one of the first thing that made me fall for my hus was how he treats me like a queen. He loves me with every bone in his body. 2. I'm a God fearing Christian wife and mother. With a combination of the two qualities above any woman despite age will be a good wife. 7 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by frenly(m): 7:05pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by patrickkkk: 7:07pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by mattsvibes: 7:08pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
you need to groom her the way you want her to be she still young not too late to try 2 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Nobody: 7:13pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
All the "men" telling the Op that ladies of that age are still exploring and are not ready to settle need to explore new environments. I have friends who got married at 21 and they are fine. Op just make sure marriage is what she wants. it also depends on her belief system. Was she born into a family that expects early marriage or the family that wants her to PhD before settling down. Look before you leap. I have met girls that age that are very mature and not interested in "exploring" the way everyone is saying. 2 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Nobody: 7:24pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
mayormick: Bro, you deserve a very cold drink for dat piece ![]() I've been dere too. She was 21, we dated for 3yrs and she started giving strange excuses like why was her other number stored with are name [on my phone], etc. As you've rightly said it's such and unprofitable venture 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Nobody: 7:29pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Svelte98:What season of POWER are you watching? |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by SlimHan(f): 7:40pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
alexistaiwo:I always look forward to your comments. Trust me when i say she is lucky to have a matured guy like you ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by mayormick(m): 7:46pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
curiositymaster:Hmm..na so bro, very unprofitable. Imagine, after dating someone for 3yrs of which ur emotions must av been played with. Seriously, I can't do it again o! 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by zicoraads: 7:52pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
They are mostly immature. Met one recently; said I was acting and talking like a 40 year old ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by zicoraads: 7:55pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
missfadesola:Which environment are you from? I know Northern Muslim girls are different. But apart from them, most ladies in that age will run away once you want to get very serious with them. The guys are actually right. It's experience talking. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by stukinherdr1222(m): 8:01pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
lefulefu: of course she will change ,she has not seen enough of life . . |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Augustap(f): 8:12pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Secretario:One day she cud feel caged, but that doesn't apply to every young lady. Some do not even want that kind of an exploration especially if they've met someone they love truly. Its a 50 - 50 thing. Girls even at a tender age already know what they'll like to do as young ladies, so she may or may not want to explore. Btw, the age difference ain't bad at all, in fact its perfect. Some people get married to their first guy without stress, but it takes the smart guys to know who will or won't stay till the end. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Codedrock(m): 8:15pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
TheLastIdiot:You spoke my mind...! 2 Likes 1 Share |
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