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5 Traits Of The Man All Women Desire by lomaxx: 10:37am On Jan 30, 2010 |
Have you ever wondered how some guys have a "natural ability" to meet and attract desirable women? All these guys share a few common traits. Their secret is they're unafraid to ACT LIKE MEN. Unlike many guys, these naturals understand that women WANT guys who take charge and demonstrate the qualities of the alpha male: In short, the "naturals" make no apologies about the way they live their lives. They don't worry about any particular outcome with a woman. If she doesn't like something then he knows another woman might. Now, there is a lot to be learned from following the example of this 'alpha male' attitude. Here's why, In the last few decades, society has transformed what it means to be a man. Through the media and an overly feminized ideal; we men have been trained to NOT act on our basic impulses. Many are afraid to go for what they want because they fear being labeled a pervert (or even worse). Instead we waste time SEEKING APPROVAL for our actions. Social pressures have forced us to be mindful of NEVER offending or making others feel uncomfortable with our actions. As a result, men have become AFRAID to pursue women! When talking to a woman, a lot of guys are worried about doing or saying the wrong thing. In fact they're so worried about "getting it right" that they end up BORING women to tears. The good news is there's a simple cure, You can become the TYPE of man who women love: This is the socially dominant male who is ATTRACTIVE to different women, while NOT behaving like an arrogant prick. In this topic, we're going to discuss FIVE traits for becoming more socially dominant when dealing with women. By following these rules you'll become more of a naturally attractive guy to the women you're meeting: =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Rule #1- You're Unique in Your Actions =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= To stand out from the crowd, you have become the unique person who is desired by ALL women. You can achieve this by radiating a confident and positive attitude everywhere you go. This attitude can be cultivated by challenging your comfort zone and doing things that most guys would dream of doing. A simple exercise for becoming unique is to do ONE thing each week that's something you've never tried before. By regularly challenging your comfort zone you'll have a lot to talk about with women. And the more *interesting* things you say; the more interesting women will find you. =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Rule #2- You Never Settle For Second Best =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Being a man means you have enough confidence to NEVER let people take advantage of you. In your dating life, this means only hanging out with women who ENRICH your life. If you ever experience drama, you have enough faith in yourself to walk away without a second glance. Because that's what REAL men do: In addition, you never chase after women. Instead, you make them work for your affection. You know deep down inside that you're a prize worth fighting for. If a woman wants your company, she's going to have to do something extraordinary to earn it. =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Rule #3- You Have a Busy Life Which Includes ONLY Quality Women =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Like other men, you have a busy life. In addition to work and family, you occupy your time with exciting activities. Since your time is important, you ONLY make plans with women who are fun and interesting. If you ask a woman on a first date, you make sure it's only for an hour. That way, if she turns out to be boring, you've only wasted a little bit of your time. When setting up future dates, you make plans when it's convenient for YOU. If she can't meet you when you're available, then you walk away and find a woman who fits better in your life. In fact you don't even need to look that hard for a woman, because you already have a large selection of women who want to be part of your life. =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Rule #4- You End All Phone Conversations First =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= As part of your busy life, you don't have time to stay on a phone all day. You have TOO MUCH to do! Furthermore, you know ending all conversations first because you know it leaves her wanting more. You know that the busier your life is, the more she'll want to be a part of it. On the phone, your primary task is to set up a date. And the conversations only last for about ten minutes. This is enough time to set up plans for your date. If she wants to talk more, you let you her know this conversation could be continued during the next time you see her. =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Rule #5- You Have Fun On All Your Dates =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= The final rule is you have fun on ALL of your dates. While other guys worry too much about messing up, you take risks and enjoy the time you spend with each woman. If your date goes well and becomes more physical, then that's great! But if it doesn't go well, you're still happy with the knowledge that you met a great person who COULD BE a life-long friend. While on your date, you look for every opportunity to tease your date. If she says something, you twist it around and have fun with it. In fact, you often bring sexual innuendos into the conversation. You have great dates because you're able to flirt and enjoy yourself. =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= I owe appreciation to Scott Paterson who permitted me to do this. =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Don't be scared to be the alpha male!!!!!!!!1 |
Re: 5 Traits Of The Man All Women Desire by waleski(m): 10:40am On Jan 30, 2010 |
I did nt even av 2 read 2 d end 2 knw dat u read nd visit 2 much dating sites nd relantionship blogs like cosmo etc |
Re: 5 Traits Of The Man All Women Desire by googles: 10:53am On Jan 30, 2010 |
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Re: 5 Traits Of The Man All Women Desire by Cockyzy(m): 10:54am On Jan 30, 2010 |
Me pass alpha male inshort i be alpha,beta and omega.no nid to try kill urself 2 please girls just go study them body language,mind games,psychology and how they work.Girls go by emotions ,guys go with what they see(visuality).learn sun sign,palmistry and cold reading.i bet u she no go eva leave u 4 anoda guy becuz she go day c u as a mirror of herself.i did dis 4 ma 1st girlfriend( d 1 am with presently).she was suprise,told her tins about herself,things she and her parent dont know about her,why she behave d way she does,why she is creative,shy and cant reject people.am glad i did becuz it drew us to be 1 and she same sun signs as my mum and it also help me understand her more since my mum is also my favourite.my girl is just my hobby.take her as a hobby and i bet u she will be d one getting fear of being dumped.good luck. |
Re: 5 Traits Of The Man All Women Desire by neily(f): 12:45pm On Jan 30, 2010 |
A lot of fantasies. Naija men are natural. |
Re: 5 Traits Of The Man All Women Desire by Cockyzy(m): 1:40pm On Jan 30, 2010 |
I a mSupernatural man in da making.Am an extant. |
Re: 5 Traits Of The Man All Women Desire by iice(f): 5:15pm On Jan 30, 2010 |
The only thing i desire there is #1. . .just goes to show, not all women desire all 5 traits. . . All these essays sef |
Re: 5 Traits Of The Man All Women Desire by deluxecad(m): 6:24pm On Jan 30, 2010 |
All these energy just to woo a gal? Not me. I know wat every gal likes if I hav time 4 her. No time! Period. |
Re: 5 Traits Of The Man All Women Desire by cudeh: 7:59pm On Jan 30, 2010 |
Dude you got a powerful work there for newbies on women/ladies matter, but for a guy like me i got the magic touch. |
Re: 5 Traits Of The Man All Women Desire by spawnx: 4:52pm On Jan 31, 2010 |
@ Cockzy: i dont quite agree with u, on taking her as a hobby. Cause a hobby is a spare time event. |
Re: 5 Traits Of The Man All Women Desire by GL(f): 10:18pm On Jan 31, 2010 |
the only traits i like are 1 & 5. 2 & 3 would come across as too rigid, 4 is arrogant and a definite no-no. |
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