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| . by Nobody: 2:30pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
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| Re: . by teamsynergy: 2:33pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
change of location if possible and opening up to people who truly care or in similar situation, help in reducing the burden. being hopeful is very important too..... if not one won't see light at d end of the tunnel 3 Likes |
| Re: . by izzou(m): 2:36pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
missmishel: Committing suicide is cowardice. I used to be a slave of depression in the past. But one day i looked into the mirror and said to myself, Nobody or no one can still my joy For you to be above depression, you must be able to forgive easily, be able to let go and be able to try and try again. Have friends that you can always lean on, and above all, love God, Others and yourself 8 Likes |
| Re: . by ipobarecriminals: 2:36pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
 tell us ur own story |
| Re: . by fran6co(m): 2:43pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
relax everything is a process, every disappointing situation was design to make u stronger. there are alot of people out there who are passing through more difficult and frustrating condition but somehow they still put on a very big smile and patch on With life. nothing last forever. . . . . . every trial you overcome cums with upliftment someday u look bk at this challenges and smile. . . allow.time.to wash away the worries of today. keep believing and keep praying. . . . #u ar nt d first to go tru difficult times |
| Re: . by Nobody: 2:48pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
relocate asap! or go into exile.. don't receive any call. change ur sim if needed. if u use to dey online try to set ur mods to offline like facebook or whatsapp. |
| Re: . by OliveCynosure(f): 3:06pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
Depression is gross. Isn't it funny that depressed people looks the happiest but inside they're dying. |
| Re: . by tuscani: 12:18am On Jul 05, 2017 |
missmishel:I am in that situation, I need solution please |
| Re: . by saintneo(m): 6:03am On Jul 05, 2017 |
missmishel: Yes, I turned to God; I mean complete submission to God. This is not a Pastor/Man of God thing, I do not trust them. No long stories, do you have a handwork(hobby) that you love to do that can fetch you some money, no matter how little; then, i suggest you yield it to God just like Peter submitted his fishing boat to Jesus. Go into that hobby of yours, make little adverts, pray to God to bless your handwork; finally, avoid sin at all cost. Miracles can happen, just believe; I've been there, and it's a long lonely road. NB: Being righteous is very important for our relationship with God to improve. I once stopped some dirty deals, suddenly I needed some money and I got involved in the dirty deal just once; I ended up losing something 10times more valuable than the profit from the dirty deal two weeks later. 2 Likes |
| Re: . by doubletroublmum(f): 6:39am On Jul 05, 2017 |
I've had bad times too. Try the following: Believe in god, believe in yourself and get something doing. Try to keep yourself busy and keep contact to people. Sooner or later you will forget your problem... At least it won't hurt so much anymore.... 1 Like |
| Re: . by Benbisco(f): 10:49am On Jul 05, 2017 |
adetoroamos: Wow! But it appears the OP needs encouragement and not seclusion. If all you suggested is done how would the op had gotten here to share such experience? @ OP, Its a phase of life you are going thru at the moment. I am presently going thru a phase that is not so pleasant but like someone said earlier, get closer to God. Read other people's testimonies and success stories. Look at your daughter each day and tell yourself u have a reason to go on. Abi you no wan be "Mother of the Bride" someday? 2 Likes |
| Re: . by MizAijay(f): 10:55am On Jul 05, 2017 |
missmishel: Here's a simple thing to try. It works for me. Focus on that one thing that has made you not commit suicide or give up, your daughter. Take a moment to look at her before you sleep at night and before you go about your business in the morning and make a solemn promise not to let her down. Always remind yourself about how much she needs you. I hope this helps. Wish you all the best. 1 Like |
| Re: . by KanwuliaExtra: 3:10pm On Jul 05, 2017 |
You just take one day at a time. Not easy, but life must go on.  2 Likes |
| Re: . by Nobody: 9:09pm On Jul 06, 2017 |
Thanks @all. |
| Re: . by joyAA(f): 9:54pm On Jul 06, 2017 |
Hmmmm, Been through all , the only reason I didn't commit suicide was because I lacked courage. You even have a stronger reason to keep you strong and hopeful. Really, what healed my battle with depression asides from the #God factor is that I learned to accept situations and move on instead of trying to change them. You can only change tomorrow, so get to work As for things not working out n stuff, that's life!!! You can sugarcoat it all you want but one must fail in life before you eventually succeed if patient I mean look at Festus Keyamo finally becoming a SAN after all these years. You need to refocus, what are you drawing your strength from? The past? People? Family? God? My advise to you is yo focus on God-not church, not denomination, not religion, not pastors or prophets- and brace yourself cos things will get tough before they finally get better Finally, your love happens and then its lost, its life, if they loved you, they wouldn't hurt you so much. Face it sis, #toughlove You gotta be strong enough for 2 cs of baby girl. She's watching you, she loves you, that's all that matters Be brave and weather the storm sis We are rooting for you I am rooting for you Youre gonna come out of it and even help people! God be with you #nevergiveup 1 Like |
| Re: . by Nobody: 5:41pm On Jul 07, 2017 |
thanks dear |
| Re: . by Nobody: 9:09am On Jul 10, 2017 |
Thanks so much @everybody . every thing you took your time to write here was really helpful. |
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