I'm a lady form South Africa who has lost al hope when it comes to men. i was dating a guy who told me that him and his girlfriend are no longer together. We would o to his place and there was no sign of the womans clothes or any thing of her's so I never suspected anythinig. Everything was okay even though he would sometimes accuse me of cheating on me. :oTill two weeks ago when the girlfriend called me. she old me that they are still together and even have a 2 month old baby. She was not rude or anything, we talked like matured women, she even told me that this guy has three other kids from different mothers two of which were born in the same year from different women and the other is 7. Now I am scared to give anyone my heart because of this. I have true love and it sometimes blinds me. I need advice as to how to go through this, I don't wanna break anyones heart because of this.

Well, i am boy 20 and my girlffrn married with someone else. I still love her , Hard to forget

Girl you dodged a bullet, you would have been another baby mama casualty.

my dear take heart  do not worry there will be a light @ the end of the tunnel