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Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by Nairalandsss(m): 12:39am On Jul 09, 2017 |
most people would not consider their life successful if they have not found love and a happy marriage. We spend a better part of our youth in search of the perfect partner and the perfect relationship. Sometimes, it takes us a couple of attempts before we get there. Many of us dream about a fairy tale life of happily ever after. But, none of these tales talk about the trials and tribulations a couple have to go through before they get married or the changes that takes place in each one’s life after marriage. Living the happily ever after is based on mutual trust, love and the ability to adjust and compromise. There should be give and take from both sides of the party. And of course, a person’s likes or dislikes might change with time. After marriage, we need to accept all this.Here are some ways to deal with changes in marriage. Ways to deal with changes in marriage are: 1.Try to understand: When you encounter marriage problems, especially after a long relationship, it might be difficult for you to accept this new face of your partner. Try to understand why your spouse is behaving like this. 2.An open conversation: An open heart-to-heart conversation always work miracles in many marriage problems. Time your conversation, so that your partner is in a good mood and willing to open up about the new changes. 3.See a therapist: Sometimes, it will take more than a heart-to-heart talk with your spouse to understand why he behaves in this new way. Therapists are trained to weed out marriage problems and it is advisable to seek their help. 4.Let the past be past: When you are trying to learn how to deal with change after marriage, always let the past be past. No one likes to be reminded that they are no longer as good as they used to be. Don’t let the past drag you down. 5.Don’t point fingers: It is easy to point fingers and start blaming others while you are trying how to deal with changes after marriage. Blaming your partner will not help you to adjust with new changes. 6.Change yourself first: While you learn how to deal with changes after marriage, give a thought of changing yourself before you try to change your partner. Try to adapt to the new situation and see how smart your are on this. 7.Give some time: Sometimes, these new changes are only temporary. In order to know how to deal with changes after marriage, all you might have to do is to give your spouse some time and he may grow out of it. 8.Renew your love: Despite all the new changes in your life, your spouse is still the same person you married. Renew your love and show that you still love and respect them, while you try how to deal with changes after marriage. 9.Only two in matrimony: When you want to know how to deal with changes after marriage, be careful when you seek advice of a third party other than a professional. These are the ways to deal with changes in marriage. http://www.naijabroad.com/index.php/2017/07/08/ways-deal-changes-marriage/ lalasticlala mynd44 12 Likes
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Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by Fakemumu: 5:33am On Jul 09, 2017 |
I love this tnx 1 Like |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by FemiEddy(m): 8:33am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Ok and noted, thanks........It's raining and cold so I will........ 1 Like
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Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by NCANTaskForce: 8:34am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Who do you hate most? Hit like for Evans, Share for Buhari. 1 Like 10 Shares
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Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by bbbabes(f): 8:34am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Good |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by Abbeyluaa: 8:35am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Nice � |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by dhope001(m): 8:35am On Jul 09, 2017 |
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Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by KeengTobbie(m): 8:36am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Okay oooo... B. Sc in female secrecy Someone should bring a funny post jare.. We need to laugh small after all this bad bad news during the week. |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by solid3(m): 8:37am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Can't wait to get married to this nairalander. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by elog(m): 8:37am On Jul 09, 2017 |
10. Do not rely on the advice of friends That's how they will make you break up and get down with your partner. |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by hemartins(m): 8:40am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Kinda scared of getting married but when I do, the best option is to adapt to the changing situation. |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by mgdimagaladima(m): 8:40am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Is that all? |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by partnerbiz4: 8:40am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Make i park here first |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by oshe11: 8:40am On Jul 09, 2017 |
lemme book here first |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by oshe11: 8:40am On Jul 09, 2017 |
and here too |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by Otexdog: 8:40am On Jul 09, 2017 |
How about sexual changes like what I'm experiencing https://www.nairaland.com/3909995/sexual-problem-wife |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by oshe11: 8:41am On Jul 09, 2017 |
OchoL: So wat r U advicing, DIVORCE ARE U MARRIED |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by oshe11: 8:41am On Jul 09, 2017 |
wat if she is a chronic cheat |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by Jamiubond009(m): 8:43am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Marriage is like a game of chess, except the board is flowing water, the pieces are made of smoke and no move you make will have any effect on the outcome. |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by oshe11: 8:46am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Otexdog:pls throw more light on the "SEXUAL CHANGES" YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by tosyne2much(m): 8:47am On Jul 09, 2017 |
You didn't touch every area.. What if she's a cheating wife? 1 Like |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by Otexdog: 8:47am On Jul 09, 2017 |
oshe11: https://www.nairaland.com/3909995/sexual-problem-wife |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by brightersms(m): 8:48am On Jul 09, 2017 |
For this lekki flood marriage make sense ooo This is serious and the rain is still pouring down heavily people now leave their houses with canoe https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dMUxv39FItI |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by GeneralOjukwu: 8:49am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Advice for the ladies....see a Juju man for more concoctions. His passport would be dropped into a calabash and any girl he woos subsequently would refuse him At least, that's what my 3 wives did |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by Jaytecq(m): 8:52am On Jul 09, 2017 |
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Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by Majesty08: 8:53am On Jul 09, 2017 |
NCANTaskForce: you will die very soon.............IJN 1 Like |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by Lolaabokoku(f): 8:54am On Jul 09, 2017 |
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Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by Lolaabokoku(f): 8:54am On Jul 09, 2017 |
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Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by deepwater(f): 8:54am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Op, marriage is the only institution where there are no textbooks nor handouts, no lectures sef but so many course advisers From experience, it is a two way street, to avoid wahala, Husband should lead a responsible lifestyle, get a job and build a career. Wife make your own money, support the family, be submissive to your husband, guide your home and don't keep unnecessary friendship with people. Forget about challenges, they will definitely come around, when they do u, be free to express thyself in a matured way, identify the root cause and amend same together, do not get a third party involved on any issue because nothing is new and nothing is too urgent in this life! 2 Likes |
Re: Ways To Deal With Changes In Marriage by Nobody: 8:55am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Otexdog:Sexual changes? Please elucidate |
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