Another story shared by someone here and she needs advice:


I met ds guy named Jay few months ago and I fell in love with him @ first sight, but till now we've bin only friends. He is from a very rich family and recently moved to Nigeria because of his dad's gas stations problems. He is very humble n not arrogant like his oda brother.


I have succeeded in being his close friend by trying to form hardworking-lady. We always talk about business which he always adviced me.

The other day, he called me and offered to give me cash to start my business. I refused but he insisted way too much. Already, he sent d money to me.


But, that's not wat I want. I want him to love me. D reason y av bin so serious lately was so dat he can love me.

PLEASE, wat should I do?

Should I send d money back to him? (because I don't want him see me differently)

Did he GIVE ME MONEY to get me out of his air? May be I hav bin disturbing him too much with questions.

Have I bin bothering him too much by always asking for advice?

Is it dat he wants to get rid of me?

How can I make him LOVE ME BACK.

PLEASE GIVE ME GOOD ADVICE LIKE I AM YOUR SISTER


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Such man can NEVER love you. And since he knows your "medecine", he gave you money so that you can get lost. Take a hint and enjoy the money as parting gift, it's clear he wants nothing from you than friendship.

You will have to keep searching for your mumu #1

Maybe he gave you money to test you? Have you thought about that.
Return the money and explain the reasons why you are returning the money. Most Nigerian women will never take the initiative when it comes to relationships. It's all on the man. Tell him how you feel or you will forever regret it. If he does not feel the same way accept that, you don't always get what you want in life.

MissRaine69:
Maybe he gave you money to test you? Have you thought about that.
Return the money and explain the reasons why you are returning the money. Most Nigerian women will never take the initiative when it comes to relationships. It's all on the man. Tell him how you feel or you will forget regret it. If he does not feel the same way accept that, you don't always get what you want in life.

Thanks

Now when it comes to "getting" your man, there is one thing you must not do if you want a man to see a future with you. Do not treat him like some kind of project that needs to be fixed because it immediately brings up the walls. If you have the urge to try to change his clothes, his circle of friends, the way he talks, what he loves to do — don't do it! Just move on and find someone you can respect and appreciate just the way he is right now. If he wants your help, he'll ask for it. The right guy for you deserves to feel like he's your hero. If you can't offer that, he's not your guy.

MissRaine69:
Maybe he gave you money to test you? Have you thought about that.
Return the money and explain the reasons why you are returning the money. Most Nigerian women will never take the initiative when it comes to relationships. It's all on the man. Tell him how you feel or you will forever regret it. If he does not feel the same way accept that, you don't always get what you want in life.

sorry what if giving her money was way out of the thought of the guy

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that you have your own life. I guess I have answerd the first part you seeking for..

Martin0:
sorry what if giving her money was way out of the thought of the guy

She did not have to accept.

@ Martin0 thanks triplemuch

pinkp:
@ Martin0 thanks triplemuch

you welcome thanks..

MissRaine69:

She did not have to accept.

Miss forget those things before u accept something from a guy there are actions that follows it,and she did state such for us to portray if she was to reject or probably return it,so it was clear the guy give out of kindness

Just here to read. I really don't care about super stories.

pinkp:
Another story shared by someone here and she needs advice:


I met ds guy named Jay few months ago and I fell in love with him @ first sight, but till now we've bin only friends. He is from a very rich family and recently moved to Nigeria because of his dad's gas stations problems. He is very humble n not arrogant like his oda brother.


I have succeeded in being his close friend by trying to form hardworking-lady.

So you succeeded in being his close friend by trying to form a hard working lady, not that you're hard working?.

Babe, I'd advice you not push it. If a guy doesn't love you (that way) from the start, nothing would ever change it. Just be cool with what's happening already.

pinkp:
Another story shared by someone here and she needs advice:


I met ds guy named Jay few months ago and I fell in love with him @ first sight, but till now we've bin only friends. He is from a very rich family and recently moved to Nigeria because of his dad's gas stations problems. He is very humble n not arrogant like his oda brother.


I have succeeded in being his close friend by trying to form hardworking-lady. We always talk about business which he always adviced me.

The other day, he called me and offered to give me cash to start my business. I refused but he insisted way too much. Already, he sent d money to me.


But, that's not wat I want. I want him to love me. D reason y av bin so serious lately was so dat he can love me.

PLEASE, wat should I do?

Should I send d money back to him? (because I don't want him see me differently)

Did he GIVE ME MONEY to get me out of his air? May be I hav bin disturbing him too much with questions.

Have I bin bothering him too much by always asking for advice?

Is it dat he wants to get rid of me?

How can I make him LOVE ME BACK.

PLEASE GIVE ME GOOD ADVICE LIKE I AM YOUR SISTER


Cc: Lalasticlala
Tosyn2much
Zarzar
Twaci
Makydebbie
Wristbangle
Martin0
Myfantasies
tosyn2much
Oyindidi
Onstelly
Rukkydelta
Lala247
Smellymouth
Lefulefu
Kingrex1
Laveda
Mimzyy
Aderola15
Traphedges
Itsjude
toks2008
ishilove
lala247

I declare your thread dead on arrival