I have been a member of some church for a couple of Months but i have a problem. Every time i see my pastor preaching , butterflies start running in my stomach. This has been going on for some time but i don't know what to do since he is married. Can I tell him? Advise!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

First of all, Is he single?

Secondly, are you sure you're not mistaking the Holy Spirit for butterflies

Find out if he's interested and then you can dream of telling him.

girl, dont act on it, its pure lust, hopefully u ll get over it, u getting the same feeling a kid gets for their teacher.

bluenubian:

girl, don't act on it, its pure lust

Its not lust i am convinced its LOVE

j-girl:

First of all, Is he single?

He is married

j-girl:


are you sure you're not mistaking the Holy Spirit for butterflies
Find out if he's interested and then you can dream of telling him.

I am very sure its not the holy spirit because i have been in LOVE before and i know how it feels.

you want the truth? what you are feeling is the kind of feeling that leads to distruction. for crying out loud, the pastor is married. imagine you are the wife and some girl from nowhere starts haunting your husband. i think you should retrace your steps and find the one for you and leave the pastor alone.

you say it is not lust, BLUENUBIAN was right in what she said
you say he is married, Do you want to break a marriage up?
you say you know it is love, you better go for serious deliverance, don't be a tool of the devil to cause disharmony in a married man's life and church. BE very careful

@Jgirl

j-girl:

First of all, Is he single?

Secondly, are you sure you're not mistaking the Holy Spirit for butterflies

you right, its either that or she has some issues she is not telling

If he's married, that ship has sailed, take your eyes off him as hard as it may be. It will pass off. it's not love, it's just you liking him a little too much.

Whatever God has joined together, let no man put asunder.

Let the man be, and just let his heart rest with his wife.

@i-girl
you are right.
@ shamix
For God sake the man is married not just a man but a pastor. You are being used by the devil to track him down please, discard those feelings of yours before you ruin your pastor,a home and a church.

shamix:

I have been a member of some church for a couple of Months but i have a problem. Every time i see my pastor preaching , butterflies start running in my stomach. This has been going on for some time but i don't know what to do since he is married. Can I tell him? Advise!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

get thee behind me, Satan

Just thought i'd say from a scientific point of view that the butterflies in your stomach is from activation of the sympathetic nervous system which withdraws blood from the gastrointestinal tract and redirects it to other organs. Get some kind of epinephrine blocker and You#ll be GRRRRRRAAAAAANNNNNNNDDDDDDDD!!!

change church!!!

Thank you manntee, abeg change church, no make man of God commit sin, He is a married man, don't let satan use you to destroy him abeg, use your common sense and if you act on it ur gonna have to answer to God.

is the pastor as fyne as pastor Chris Oyakhilome? If not wts wrong with You? LOL

I like your spirit, girl, and I would be the last guy on earth to discourage courage. You are positively courageous and may be you will get your reward.

My advice: When its time for testimonies, come to the pulpit and say " I want to thank the lord for all his mercies in my life. Last sunday after the Pastor prayed for all desperate girls in church, the lord revealed to me that I should date the pastor not minding the fact he is married. The lord also told me that it would not be counted as adultery should the pastor decide to sleep with me"

If Christ was tempted 3 times by the devil himself, then its a small price for a pastor to be tempted once by a desperate busy body, Am sure the Pastor will survive it, otherwise he is not worth his salt. Amen

LMAO, it happens, abeg loose d interest, stop going ot the church for a while, if d pastor dey wonder why u no come, keep avoiding him, abeg d man don marry. no make his wife curse u o

The virtue of the human heart and having a special spot in our hearts
for a fellow mortal human has been with us for ever.

It warms the heart to love and care about someone. And it's even more
wonderful to feel and to be cared for.

There is nothing wrong with having these feeling for a preacher, a pastor or a spiritual counselor provided they are single and unattached. Otherwise, you will be setting yourself up for ( you guessed It) . Do I need to say more?

The virtue of the human heart and having a special spot in our hearts
for a fellow mortal human has been with us for ever.

It warms the heart to love and care about someone. And it's even more
wonderful to feel and to be cared for.

There is nothing wrong with having these feeling for a preacher, a pastor or a spiritual counselor provided they are single and unattached. Otherwise, you will be setting yourself up for ( you guessed It) . Do I need to say more?

i find this post very funny,
well if he is married, don't act on it because if he is a true believer he wouldn't commit adultery or live his wife for you. be cool & if u can't stop your crush on him go to another church for a while.

Behold the devil herself!
I think u are a demon worth castin away from the house of God!
May God help u

hammers:

Behold the devil herself!
I think u are a demon worth castin away from the house of God!
May God help u

TRUE TALK.
@POSTER
YOU BE DEVIL IN DISGUISE,SO WHAT TYPE OF ADVISE DO YOU WANT US TO GIVE YOU ?
WHY NOT SEEK ADVISE FROM THE CHURCH ELDERS ? NA WA OOO, THE END TIME IS NEAR !

ayeesha:

tell his wife you are inlove with her husband.

and make sure you come back to tell us what transpired after that o!

Good one,but that one go be suicide mission !

Leave the Church and forget him!!

meh i dont think dat one luv but lust, how could u say u're in luv with ur pastor, d person dat is preaching the words of God 2 u. girl i cannt deceive u, u need a hot deliverance i mean hot one.

Flee from evil, drink some litres of IZAL to neutralize the butterflies.

since he is married. Can I tell him?

Madness
Ashewo dey your blood

Liv the poor girl
she wan taste anoiting

this topic is 1yr, 1month and 4days old.

doubt is the poster is still in love with her pastor or still on nairaland.

@Poster,

I seeeee!   Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm!  I will tell you what to do.  But we can only discuss it off camera.   Too many bad belle peeps around the thread already.


But this thread is more than a year old.  Come back.  If you still feel the way you do and have not found a solution to this extremely "sweet" problem, let me know ASAP.  I have experience in such matters. I go "JIM" you with the details.

easybaby.:

Liv the poor girl
she wan taste anoiting

LOl

Pls 4 d love of God dnt allow d things of d flesh to overcome u.U said urself dat he's married n a man of God 4dat matter.Remember wat d scripture said,touch nt my annointed n do my prophet no harm.Jst jst ask d lord 2help u out of dis temptation cos smtin similar had happened 2me b4.Am a catholic n there's dis young priest dat i really liked(still do)wenever he gives d sermon,i always av dis funny feelins dat he shud ask me out,talk 2me u knw or anytin.Then i resolvd 2prayin n askin d holyspirit 2 intervene cos thoughts of him alwayz occupy my mind then i began 2ask my dat so many guys have been askin me to date dem i alwaz turn dem down so y must it b a rev.Fr.Dat was hw i stopd cos it's even a sin 2conceivd such thoughts.Nw i see him as a priest n notin more.Try harder girl u'll succeed.Success is only made by dos who says it can b done.