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| Is This Bad? by galatico(m): 2:12pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
Some years ago I was this babe, we where so much in love, didn't know she was dating a friend of mine. I was going for a drink with some friends and saw her with this guy, and knew she was cheating on me, saw it clearly written on her face, she was trembling like she has seen a ghost. I didn't approach her that day I let it go, my friend where making jest of me, I didn't bother. The next day I invited her to my place, she was expecting me to slap her, beat her up, which I never did, instead I hugged her, kissed her, didn't even ask her about the guy, the next thing I noticed was that she became scared of me thinking I had evil plans against her which I never had. Is it compulsory when you caught your guy or girl cheating on you, you must fight, or ask questions, is it bad if you just ignored it, since you too are not married? |
| Re: Is This Bad? by larrybaby: 2:18pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
its not bad, it shows ur level of maturity. keep it up i credit u for that, but watch out to love one will not cheat on u. |
| Re: Is This Bad? by DOAweb(m): 2:28pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
larrybaby: Don't agree with his reaction depicting a high level of maturity - maturity to me would be to confront the gf in a diplomatic manner - talk things true, either to move on from the incident or call the relationship a day. Atleast, the gf would know where she stands and not think evil of what he might do next. |
| Re: Is This Bad? by THEAMAKA(f): 2:37pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
well i guess you gave her the license to do it again and again. how does it feel sharing your woman? unless you don't mind.  |
| Re: Is This Bad? by ThoniaSlim(f): 2:48pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
Now if I were to be in her position I'll be scared also. . .because that will be an unexpected reaction. . . I bet she'll be wondering what you have up your sleeves. . .cus she wouldn't believe you'll let it slide just like that. |
| Re: Is This Bad? by smooooooth: 2:51pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
u not expected to beat her, or stuff like that, but then u shld have said something about it, cos ur silence will only tell her u dnt really care about her, u prolly in it just for sex. |
| Re: Is This Bad? by Nobody: 2:54pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
Actually your silence is worse. You should have confronted her peacefully now she probably thinks you are on a revenge mission. |
| Re: Is This Bad? by ayettymama(f): 2:55pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
if i was ur girl ill be shitting myself!!!! silent killer go poison u in ur sleep! ill probably break up wiv u to be safe! arent u upset that ur girl cheated?? or u dont mind an 'open relationship' |
| Re: Is This Bad? by galatico(m): 3:01pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
ayettymama: I believe since am not legally married to her there is no point making a fuss about her cheating on me, am not possessive guy. It doesn't mean becuase am dating you I have to keep asking question about your private life, I believe she should have freedom.if she wants to date 100 guys at a time so be it it's her choice for Christ sake, can't make her choice for her. |
| Re: Is This Bad? by DOAweb(m): 3:02pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
ayettymama: . . .open relationship - sounds nice  |
| Re: Is This Bad? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
Uhhhhmmmmm you give me the heebie jeebies. If I were your girl, I will sleep with one eye open and have a knife inside my trousers incase need be |
| Re: Is This Bad? by galatico(m): 3:04pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
Ebonyeyes: Don't think that's necessary, since she knew I saw her with the guy, let her conscience judge her . |
| Re: Is This Bad? by ayettymama(f): 3:05pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
well dating someone and believing ur exclusive doesnt mean ur possesive i mean u shuld probably tell her then that shes free to do what she likes instead of keeping her in suspence im sure u fool arnd alot too?? |
| Re: Is This Bad? by galatico(m): 3:30pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
ayettymama: If you start asking questions about any guy you see with her she'll start thinking you don't trust her or something, although I agree with you partially . |
| Re: Is This Bad? by Nobody: 3:36pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
galatico:With your tone,i see u dont care abt her,no feeling or not really into her.You are just using her for sex!!!!!! |
| Re: Is This Bad? by DOAweb(m): 3:47pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
nikkykay: . . . just using her for intimacy - haven't you heard of Friends with Benefits? |
| Re: Is This Bad? by karo93: 3:57pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
i conclude that you dont spend much money and time on her lest you would have been mad! |
| Re: Is This Bad? by ekundayok: 4:23pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
YOU SOUND LIKE,A SLOW POISON.I WILL BE SCARED ALSO. |
| Re: Is This Bad? by galatico(m): 5:09pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
ekundayo k: See you don nail me for cross!!!  karo93: For your mind!!! Spending money on her doesn't mean I own her, she has her freedom, ok do you know what she does when you're not with her? or do you have a spy camera that follows her about!!! DOAweb: No way I would never play with a girl's emotion, I would never date a girl I don't have feelings for!!! |
| Re: Is This Bad? by DOAweb(m): 5:28pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
galatico: By definition, Friends with benefits means both parties can have intimacy without too much of emotional/feeling input on either side allowing both parties to come and go as they please - mutual consent to do whatever really and still be there to help each other out!  |
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