tosyne2much:
What I will say is that, Optiona, although, you have a good message to pass across but you lack the logic to pass it across. Even if you have never been laid before as you indirectly claim, I don't think that should should give you the morale to lay behind your keypad and throw tantrums against those who are sexually active.

Also, you're not a man, so why should you speak for them?. However, a man can marry whoever he wishes without minding what she has done in the past, and please know that a successful marriage is not all about the number of men a woman has slept with in the past, it's about trust, respect, sacrifice, mutual understanding and forgiveness.

If you lack these things, even if you marry as a virgin, your marriage is abound to fail

MissRaine69:

Yes that is what constitute a discussion, you make sweeping statement you back it up.
Could it not be argued that, as one of the most populous country in the world there would be more incidences of sexual violence towards women and minors. Another argument is that heinous crimes are now being reported and not swept under the carpet. Hence the increase
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IamLEGEND1:
And some people actually voted for this stupid piece of_shit during the miss NL contest.

optional1:

and you also did voted for this same stupid piece of shiit..

Are have been noticed, thanks for keeping this thread rolling, now you can take your peaceful rest.

IamLEGEND1:
I have no desire to talk to you..... Hence why I didn't mention you.
I don't like stupid people.

Mariinee:
Daada nih
But I hear you say you are Fulani?

That is correct. But i Sabi other languages na. 4, actually.
I been start to dey learn small yoruba before but I don forget everything.
Are you yoruba?

makydee:
my chest is doing somehow.

Hello to you too.

IamLEGEND1:
Hello to you too.

Lucario007:


You have been indoctrinated and brainwashed by traditions and you are plagued with self doubt.

Here's the fact: it is not every woman's goal in the world to sit down and get married. Some women have better things and wishes in mind. So the excuse of "spoilt goods" is only applicable for women who have agreed that it is their destiny to come to the world for the sole purpose of being under a man.

I am certain that people like you are jealous of the women who can freely go out to sleep with whomever they want whenever they want, and because you are too timid or to 'holy' to do so, you come online and start spewing this crap to shame them and claim the higher moral ground.

IamLEGEND1:
And some people actually voted for this stupid piece of_shit during the miss NL contest.

makydee:
Your friend banned me. How's you?

AmoryBlacq:
This is my issue with this section, many folks here lack basic argument etiquettes


Instead of raising salient points to drive home their opinions, they resort to public shaming and insults throwing.

Leave the messenger focus on the message

For once in your life make use of that education your folks so struggled to give to you!

IamLEGEND1:
Me is fine.
Long time...... How's the husband and the kids?

Oyindidi:
E tire me, them go form saint during the contest then beast after.

IamLEGEND1:
That is correct. But i Sabi other languages na. 4, actually.
I been start to dey learn small yoruba before but I don forget everything.
Are you yoruba?

IamLEGEND1:
Just allow am....... Soon she go open thread to apologise...... Na her way.

makydee:
Yea, been a while. Hope recession no reach your side?
Husband is fine jare my last born turned one last week.

Reach my side? Na for my side the recession start gan. The thing just weak me.

Tell the boy his real father says hi.

tosyne2much:
What I will say is that, Optional1, although, you have a good message to pass across but you lack the logic to pass it across. Even if you have never been laid before as you indirectly claim, I don't think that should give you the morale to lay behind your keypad and throw tantrums against those who are sexually active.

Also, you're not a man, so why should you speak for them?. However, a man can marry whoever he wishes without minding what she has done in the past, and please know that a successful marriage is not all about the number of men a woman has slept with in the past, it's about trust, respect, sacrifice, mutual understanding and forgiveness.

If you lack these things, even if you marry as a virgin, your marriage is abound to fail

optional1:



this case is very high now in our society..

Unlike those day we never want any man to touch us...
A girl's sex first might be tag as mistake but second, third, fourth she keeps doing it over and over again...

A girl at 15 have her first child under her father roof at 17 she has her second child still under her father's roof.
2 kids from 2 different man who never accepted the responsiblity.. At 25 i wonder how many child she might have aborted for the world not to see her shame...



Self control pays if you can't control the urge then meet only one man not different set of men...



I am never a saint.

Lsofdk:
Do you know the number of ladies that get married weekly in Nigeria alone?

Keep your advise to yourself, trust me you need it more.

IamLEGEND1:
Reach my side? Na for my side the recession start gan. The thing just weak me.

Tell the boy his real father says hi.

Mariinee:
Lsofdk
Glad to catch ya here

Lol where have you been all the while

Lsofdk:

Lol where have you been all the while

Lsofdk:
Do you know the number of ladies that get married weekly in Nigeria alone?

Keep your advise to yourself, trust me you need it more.

See this old bachelor. Don't go and marry before we start vigil for your matter. You, stood, obi and miles