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Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by sisisioge: 9:00pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
ikombe: Your dog is cute |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 9:03pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nma27: I rather wait. What's the point. To marry & give birth and children to suffer? Ordinary kindergarten school fees is ranging from 100k and above in Lagos. Unless its public school you want to send your children? |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 9:05pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
truthsayer009:Definitely not. |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 9:12pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
In this present Nigeria anything from 80+ with good savings is reasonable, Good savings is very essential, unless you want your wife and kids to suffer unnecessarily |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by MrHighSea: 9:17pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
What do a man get from fending for another woman and her family the rest of his life? Rhetorical. Truly, I'm a very happy single man. Though still exploring for better opportunities. I believe money is'nt the first question before considering Marriage. THE RATE OF DIVORCE, SLAY QUEENS AND DESPERADOS. |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by saabright(m): 9:21pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Laralag: exactly......dats my plan 1 Like |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by walearoy(m): 9:21pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
NaijaElba: So true |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 9:23pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Different people with different standards. For me, one thing I don't want is for my children to suffer.... when I say suffer I don't mean not having food to eat all. I mean I want them in the best of institutions... Ivy league. Havard and likes, holidays in the best place in the world . I want them to have the best of life from the start. I was doing well over 250 at sometime but I didn't find it enough to settle. I had this 700k to 1 mill mentality. Tho, I will be settling soon, I am not sure I can have kids if income per annum is not over 10 mill. |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Kanmi112: 9:24pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
In my opinion, I think 100k should do for a guy while at least 50k for a woman. But how many organisation now pay 100k for a starter? The most any average government agency pays is 87k for level 8 officer and before you get promoted to earn more is after 4years, how then do you now plan? |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by thesuave10(m): 9:24pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
lincs25: For me it's 450k monthly. And by the way I don't want to survive I want to live 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Bisjosh:the one with davido or the main one? |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by concho(m): 9:28pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
NaijaElba:And the one i have bn plannning to marry left n didnt call me again wen i told her dat my goods got damaged n my creditor {union bank is after me}. that was d same month i bought her phone n gave her 35k to aid her in skl. She didnt knw dt it was all lies........i over love d girl. Very cnfuzd now |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by seguntijan(m): 9:28pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 22 TO 28
Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers made.
Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to
be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow
with them. Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or
achieving your plans. You might still not succeed
at your target year. So start your life early, with
consistency you will grow.
My Uncle said this to me: _When i was 22, i was
talking about making billions before i marry.
Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid
no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the love
of my life very early, But my fear was, can i
really take care of her? She's married now with
two grown up children. The guy that married her
was still schooling then, but had the courage.
They worked hard and succeeded together. I
failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can
feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry
early, don't wait. Don't make our mistakes, I see my childhood friends play with their kids.. Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier.. Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your happiness depends entirely on your wisdom. With a well planned life they are happier.. Trust me it isn't money, What is our problem? Build mansion, buy Rolls Royce, marry Sharon stone type, but Still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_ Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father. Please young men, take my advice seriously. Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding fault in has many good qualities if you look well. Don't think you will get every thing before you settle down. God can change your life in a blink, with a good wife by your side, you will succeed by God grace.... *To All the Apons in the house* E.g. @Yussuf Ayo @reserved_single®(Sanni)� @�✨Prístìne✨� et al. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Ishaq319(f): 9:31pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
thesuave10:which u r going to remained single through out ur life. How much is ur income? |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by lincs25(m): 9:32pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
thesuave10:Are you working, are you a graduate, are you looking for job? Answer my questions let me tell you something from experience. 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by larrypourl(m): 9:33pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
All of you saying 100k and above. Op just have a secured job and make sure u can pay ur bills and feed your family. All u need to start a family are d basic things of life bro. If na by 100k boys no go dey marry again now. But I'll advice u to study your kind of women to determine your financial strength. Click my signature below for your quality loafers at cool prices. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by saabright(m): 9:33pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
NaijaElba: tanx |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by perryy(m): 9:35pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
I was earning 54k when I married a nurse , a contract staff in one of government health centres collecting 10k per month. Though it wasn't really easy at first , but the weight of the burden got me stronger and today, I'm a proud multi millionaire. I didn't marry 20 years ago, I got married exactly 27th of November 2010. Sometimes, love for your wife and kids can make u go extra mile and think of something positive to change your condition. If not for the increased burden brought by wife and kids, I would have still be probably where I was then , without any change of status. 5 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Trottle: 9:36pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Humility017: Then kindly look for ladies that are accommodating of your income. Don't let the "income standard" of some ladies determine when you would marry. 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by ikevictor: 9:41pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Akposb: So on point. Misplaced priorities and values. 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by cozykozy: 9:41pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
jazinogold:then u will marry by year 2089 1 Like |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by hartson(m): 9:42pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Observation mode |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Trottle: 9:44pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
humilitypays: 38-42 years wetin remain It is good to start early if you can at least feed 2-3 people, earning a income, have shelter, and be able to carryout basic necessities of life. This would prevent the widespread fornication, and also ensure social sanity. I'm almsot sure such person cannot be entirely celibate till 38-42 1 Like |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by PotatoSalad(m): 9:45pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
NaijaElba:Deep, you don make marriage begin hungry me. I'm only 24 |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by cozykozy: 9:45pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
fabre4:dnt mind them...majority of dem nah ordinary schnapp nd kolanut there papa use marry dem mama they will cm nairaland dey run mouth 4 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by mercyland93(m): 9:46pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
U people are just talking about 100k nd 200k. Is everybody collecting up to that amount, I know two of my friends who collect arround 30k monthly cus they are teachers in ibadan. But despite that they went ahead nd got married '(actually it's not easy) Wot I see nd learnt from them is that they didn't marry a flashy or socially inclined lady, but a deeper life type. Thus, guys if u re not earning much nd u are 35yrs of age, just don't waste your time luk for an SU lady nd get married asap cus time is actually not on ur side. |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Humility017(m): 9:49pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Trottle:thank you much |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Trottle: 9:50pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Mypeople2: And that is why uncle Paul is still chasing small small girls and bedding them in his three bedroom apartment and also using and dumping them till he realise that he's almost 50 and has varieties of STDs by then papa Johnny's kids would probably graduates |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Gerrard59(m): 9:52pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
lincs25: In all honesty, is that the kind of lifestyle you intend living? Tomorrow you'll come complaining when he has 10 children he cannot take ADEQUATE and PROPER care of. Marriage is not a child's play. Someone accused the present generation of placing money at the top in marriage. Newsflash: Things are different today. The economy is tough. Standard of living expectations is high. Finance plays a very important role in relationships of the opposite sex. Yes, one must not be a billionaire before getting married. However, one should have a reasonable amount of resources to live a decent life. |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Trottle: 9:53pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
elyte89: Only one person with all these sense?? Bro you too much o |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Trottle: 9:54pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Humility017: My pleasure sir. |
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