A Twitter user has taken to the platform to share the reply he got from a friend he lent money to. The reply was all shade of meanness and here's a screenshot of it; 

http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/07/checkout-reply-twitter-user-got-friend-lent-money.html

Never lend money you can't do without.

lofty900:
Never lend money you can't do without.

It's not about not being able to do without it but about people being ungrateful and not keeping to their word. If i give you one naira, i expect it back and if you don't oblige, i'm ready to spend 1 million naira to get back that 1 naira and you can be rest assured that i'll deal with you in the process. So, it's not about the money but the attitude.

Afam4eva:

It's not about not being able to do without it but about people being ungrateful and not keeping to their word. If i give you one naira, i expect it back and if you don't oblige, i'm ready to spend 1 million naira to get back that 1 naira and you can be rest assured that i'll deal with you in the process. So, it's not about the money but the attitude.

spending one million to recover one naira? Bros no do abeg

Afam4eva:

It's not about not being able to do without it but about people being ungrateful and not keeping to their word. If i give you one naira, i expect it back and if you don't oblige, i'm ready to spend 1 million naira to get back that 1 naira and you can be rest assured that i'll deal with you in the process. So, it's not about the money but the attitude.

Bros, please why not use 990k to collect the 1 Naira.
Abeg borrow me 10k.
I don't have attitude. I swear.

It's mostly that way.

Once it's time to get the money back from then, the entire attitude is opposite of that used in talking you to lend them.

So just know who to lend some stuff to, by virtue of trust and experience.

Otherwise, take it that you are not really expecting them to give it back.

It's painful but na so e b.

Rain go beat am come yiur side again

Justuceleague2:
Rain go beat am come yiur side again

Walahi

don't lend some one money that you can't forfeit.a word is enough for a wise.

.eyahhhhhhhh, sorry girl. I once lend a friend of mine money only for the person to start keeping malice with me so I decided not to ask for the money since it was something I could let go ( <10k ). After about 3 Months this person suddenly saw me one day and said hi Hmmmmmmmmmm, gave me about 3 days more then walked up to my room and asked for a larger amount begged me that the money was needed urgently that I shouldn't worry that the last money I lend will be paid along with this new one that was being requested. I had the money but didn't give, I simply told the person not to worry about the previous debt that he should see it as a gift but that lending him this new cash was impossible. That was how our frelationship ended . Even though I didn't get the previous money I made him realise I had the money to cover the new request but wasn't going to help . I was fulfilled ... Take heart dear shit happens!

Rule no 1: never lend a friend or family , money you can't easily give them. Instead if he ask you for 10 k and you can't leave it for him simply tell him or her you don't have but Nan 1 or 2 k dey your mind if he doesn't mind you can give him or her.

Rule 2: doing business with a friend or family who you don't really trust or share the same orientation and idea is very risky, it might lead to what will separate you guys.

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Before i lend you money, I'm always very sure you would pay back. I do my vetting!

This is why i really dont like lending people money

I am currently in his shoes . Peeps can be really ungrateful.

It's jux wrong acting DAT way..no matter what

Assistance gone bad...
That's humans for you..

Babtunz:
Walahi

that time.. no mercy

the guy sabi person way borrow am money no fit do anything ....that's why

Dafuq am I seeing? People are just heartless. Nobody tries this horseshit with me, he dy mad?

Experience has taught me never to lend out amount I cannot give... I stopped going out of my way to borrow people some money when I borrowed a guy 16k out of 17k5 I had in earth and heaven promised to pay in 3 days...

I collected my money back with fight in about 4 installation payment after 3 months...

best thing now is if anyone comes to you to borrow let's say 30k just look at him and say " bro no vex, I no get up to that,, but take this 3k, I dash you' shikena

economic is hard... and it affects refund of money

People don't learn. I remember back in sch den I borrowed my last card 2 a frnd to settle accommodation issues. Na so o baby travel go port harcourt and recklessly abandoned me to my fate.

When I call she won't pick, eventually I caught her wen I used a frnd fone n she picked. aunty told me there was no bank around wer she was to pay in th moni.

Brethren, I survived with 100 naira worth of fries daily from etta agbor.

Waawu

Never lend what you can't live without...

loo...i go stop lend moni

Bleep fake friends mehn

So what should we do

My bro don't worry him will come begging again, that's for sure just watch it.

Had a similar experience some time ago

Both the lender and the borrower are mad....meanwhile where is Evans? He cannot just come and disappear like that. I won't take it!

Makes me remember my friend saying....
"We walk nd lose money" in Yoruba....whenever am too concerned bout d paper.


Get over it...

Don't lend people the amount you can't dash them