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Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by MissRaine69(f): 8:11am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Perhaps she has had bad experiences have you thought about that? I would not advocate getting rid of someone when there is the potential of problem solving. Speak to her as one has recommended and explain what's expected of her put her on probation for a month if things do not improve then by all means find a replacement. 2 Likes |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Siddeek: 8:11am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Just one day she spent you don de complained. Nawao. |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by czaratwork: 8:12am On Jul 25, 2017 |
she may have had some bad experiences she does not want to repeat or have heard how men lure people to sex by asking them to bring things to their rooms. i think she is just being protective of herself |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Kobicove(m): 8:13am On Jul 25, 2017 |
What exactly is her job description? Did you employ her to just supply you food or to work as a house maid? You have no business sending her to pick up your clothes or take things to your bedroom which is your personal space. The fact that other people in the area do it does not make it right 1 Like |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by MissRaine69(f): 8:14am On Jul 25, 2017 |
MissCokie:Why? |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by EYIBLESSN(m): 8:14am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Bros Things are not the way you are seeing it. She is a very conscious person. Let her be. Don't send her away.. Just tell her your intentions. |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by ghettochild(m): 8:18am On Jul 25, 2017 |
you risking ur life to assign a stranger to ur food. and secondly she thinks entering ur room cd result to her rape 1 Like |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Nobody: 8:19am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Na those kain girls day fuck_ pass dog. We know them well well. For me sha,what I would advise you to do is,you talk to her. If she keeps on with the same attitude, do yourself a favour, sack her. She is just being plain stupid. She be Virgin way she day monkey like that. Nonsense. |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by tonardo(m): 8:21am On Jul 25, 2017 |
DeGuyNxtDoor: op you are a leaner. . N e x t |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by GuntersChain(m): 8:22am On Jul 25, 2017 |
You want her to serve you food in your bedroom, so on her way out you will be staring at her bum bum, she is keeping her defense so you won't try anything funny. There might be more to it try and speak with her. 1 Like |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Generalyemi(m): 8:23am On Jul 25, 2017 |
DeGuyNxtDoor: trust me ,u are not far from that.. she is seducing u already. u are as well falling ,by wondering were u have gone wrong with her. is a game played my French Maids in 60s 1 Like |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Bondesniger(m): 8:24am On Jul 25, 2017 |
SHE DONT WANT TO SEE YOUR CUCUMBA ONE DAY |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Godskidk(m): 8:24am On Jul 25, 2017 |
DeGuyNxtDoor: What is this world turning into? She's there, why don't you ask her what the problem is rather than bringing it here on NL. Probably she thinks you're trying to take advantage of her. Just reason things out with her. Talk to her... 1 Like |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by autonomous22: 8:25am On Jul 25, 2017 |
DeGuyNxtDoor: plz don't tink of sacking her yet, just give her sometime n see if she will change, u Neva can tell she might be going tru depression. So just give her time but if she refuses to change den u tink of d next a step. |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Nobody: 8:26am On Jul 25, 2017 |
DeGuyNxtDoor:you are asking where you went wrong, for real , seems you are not on planet earth, I have worked with a perverted 72 years old boss ,so I undersrand how that 'come in' sounds like when you are on the other side of the door as a female empoyee 1 Like |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by ejanla077: 8:26am On Jul 25, 2017 |
DeGuyNxtDoor: wen conji hold u. i hope you remember dis |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by teemy(m): 8:26am On Jul 25, 2017 |
deguynetdoor, just add up what eyinjuege, dingdang and priceaction said above and fill in the gap. the frowns come only when it has to do with your 'room'. it is better to sit her down to put her mind at rest and if things do not change let her go. |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by kokomaster3d: 8:26am On Jul 25, 2017 |
I can never trust anybody with food. She can poison you. What stops you from going to restuarant yourself to eat. No matter how busy you are, I mean 30 mins to go out and eat will not kill. You are paying N15,000/month which is not even equal to the minimum wage and you are saying you pay her well. Tell her the job description first and if she is not ok with that, go find another person. I think you are tasking her too much for just N15,000. Even common messenger earns more than N15,000/month. |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by hibee4uall(m): 8:27am On Jul 25, 2017 |
All I can deduce from your post above is lack of TRUST... PLS CHECK MY SIGNATURE. THANKS FOR DOING SO |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Donjazzy12(m): 8:28am On Jul 25, 2017 |
DeGuyNxtDoor:You are a man, please stop hiring lesbians. Look for straight girls. Though they are few but many of them admire their male bosses secretly and will do any chore with all their hearts to please you. STOP HIRING LESBIANS! 1 Like |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by seguntijan(m): 8:29am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Did you employ her as a maid or as a professional staff? we tends not to respect labour law in this country. If my boss will send me anything personal he uses the magic words such as "please". Even your PA shouldn't be sent all this useless errands talk of someone you employ for professional work. Guy man up and get married and keep away from sleeping in the office, don't transfer aggression on the poor lady. 1 Like |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Danzakidakura(m): 8:29am On Jul 25, 2017 |
deguynextdoor pls don't sack her make inquiry into her past experience with her previous employers she may have a lots to tell you,then you can help her out. |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by kenlinzo(m): 8:30am On Jul 25, 2017 |
While will admin post this kind of story that doesn't make any sense? Right from the beginning of the story to the end is all rubbish. You refused to tell us what you did to the girl that made her behave strange. Because, i can't imagine somebody i employed and knws her duties before employment would start refraining from her duties without any reasonable reason. Please tell us what you did to her the first day she brought food or came to sweep ur room before she started refraining from entering ur room?. |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by eraankusam07(m): 8:30am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Try to discuss with her to know her mind, she may not be happy with the environment. Meanwhile, my brother why wouldn't you go for male servant? |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Primebuilders(m): 8:31am On Jul 25, 2017 |
dingbang: Exactly what I think.so just reassure her that she should not be afraid of you demanding sex from her that is ifbu do not have the intension. But from the look of things I no trust you |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by eraankusam07(m): 8:31am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Try to discuss with her to know her mind, she may not be happy with the environment. Meanwhile, my brother why wouldn't you go for male servant? I suspects |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by xtivin(m): 8:31am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Don't sack her! Don't sack her!! Don't sack her!!! You just employed her, watch her for like four days and be nice, there are probably somethings going on in her mind, be gentle and treat her like your sister, try to find out what's wrong if she continues. Life is about undeserved mercy but if she fail to change after your effort,you can take whatever decision on her. God bless you because you sound a good man |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by blaqkyla(f): 8:32am On Jul 25, 2017 |
DeGuyNxtDoor:NYC 1 |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by drnoel: 8:34am On Jul 25, 2017 |
dingbang: That's what her problem is. She seens herself as a live in something but u don't pay her well enough fot what she does hence the attitude. A difficult situation for u bros, let her go and have ur peace or keep her on then be ready to sign ur demise with all the complications that come with such a situation. Be warned. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by SELFmade7(m): 8:34am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Why not employ male And maybe someone is disturbing her in ya house, or maybe what you told her before giving her the job is not what she's seeing or maybe you gave her your boxers to wash, which is not proper no matter what, or maybe Talk to her nothing de apen |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by cybriz82(m): 8:35am On Jul 25, 2017 |
DeGuyNxtDoor: yes she mit b sick to harbour such thought BT we are not cus we Dnt trust u.body no b firewood n anything can happen.joystick no get respect for him master. |
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Nobody: 8:35am On Jul 25, 2017 |
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