maybe she doesnt understand sex. talk 2 her tell her what pleases u as a guy and how fustrated she makes u. maybe u guys can watch a couple of porn together and try some of the things u see,

Thank you all for your replys it have realy helped to relief me the grief about my girl, I am fully recovered from the hart break hoping to fall in love wisely again while giving my self some time before i will start searching for another girl so that i wont make the same mistake again, to my surpriss last week after VAL that good for nothing girl started calling me apologizing, promising me again that she have changed as if this was the first time, that she is very sorry,she was vomiting heaven and earth from her mouth, asking me for a visit. Maturity and understand in this life is very good so i did not provoke nor shout on her not to call my line again instead I was very calm not to let her no that i have passed through a lot to over come her, I simply and quitly told her that she can't come back but still she refuse and kept calling.
I later remembered that i promise her a reasonable amount by this month end before we break up, so I thought to my self that  this could be the reason why she is crying to come back or did she realy mean it this time?
This are my plans,
1. Should I ask her if it is about the money that I promised Her?
2. Should I accept her invitation? or
3. Should i ignore her.
for show i cross my hart to you all that replied, that i no longer have feelings for her any more.
What should i do.

My brother,sex before marriage is immoral in every sense of it. U should have brought this to the house for any reason. Having constant sex to test the perfection of ur girl before marriage is not a gurantee. Rather look for other qualities in the girl and judge if u are confortable with them. Leave sex till u are married. Yes, these days we have many girls in love affair with same sex. Some are bi, while some are purely into women, but cos of societal and parental pressure, go into marriages only to continue their lesbian escapades with their long time pattners. We have seen cases like that severally. The annoying thing is that u will never suspect cos her partner might even be visiting her in ur presence. Some men have been living with this. Lesbian love affair according to most therapist since to be a habit difficult to stop. The end result is that ur wife will no longer enjoy sex with u cos she is used to long duration of sucking, suclikng,kissing and fundling. This is how to know ur patner is a lesbian. They don't really like penetration unless she is bi.

I had had a nasty experience like this before. 2 things could be responsible for this. 1. The lady had been a lesbian or still a lesbian. 2. The love she has for you is a sham love. My Ex,we dated for 6yrs .I did unimaginable things for her why because I knew she was cheating on me but I throw caution to wire and I became a cheat myself.When a lady is double dating,the signs are obvious guy. Pls open your eyes and dnt make yourself a slave to love. Pls let go of her and God will give you a lady who would trully care about you.

I am sort of crude in relating with ladies but I think its the best. You see, love goes with control and respect, every girl that truly loves u must ve some degree of let me say"fearful reverence" for u. And you have failed because you are not in control, everyman in rtship must take charge or the lady will toil with you. They re emotionally childidh and that is why u must not allow them to be in charge anywhere. Why do u ve to beg a girl u feed, cloth, train in sch for se*x? Its strange that she likes fingering n cunninlin*gus and then if she peaks pushes u away, its cos u re not in charge, u ve over loved her and she is in control. Guy its time to take charge, put her in condition that will bring her on her knees crying and begging. If a woman has not wept for u somehow, has not begged u, has not been made to knw u dnt take sh*it, she will not love u, she will soon dump u for a stronger man that can instil fear in her, women love to be subdued and not begged, it gives them that measure of protection they seek, don't be the lover boy, let the women do the last chasing after u ve won them to fall in love with u, that is how it goes, u stoop and conquer the lady and make her fall in love madly, then withdraw a bit and allow her chase u.

too_soon: @poster,

Drop some bananas or concumber at home and come back later to smell them.

This really got me laffing like a lunatic, people ª̳͡Rε̲̣̣̣ begining to stare @ me ιϞ †ђξ bank *bt Ȋ̝̊̅ don't care*

too_soon: @poster,

Drop some bananas or concumber at home and come back later to smell them.

Funnily, this suggestion might help you know if she is lesbian or not.