safarigirl:
sometimes, guys misread signs.

For instance, I like to walk around with a headset on, people assume I'm a snob because of this, but I reply greetings and even smile at strangers who greet me.

Is it until I carry a sign on my head that says 'available' that I will be taken seriously?

well.. you are wrong! if you want men to notice you don't walk around with headset, for we men it means you don't want to be disturbed or you want to be left alone. Besides it appears rude, believe it or not It's the fact! i can't have a convo with someone who can not respond because they are appears to be listening to something more important on their headset.
It's like when you are trying to get someone to notice you and they more interested on their smart phones. it's very rude and annoying childish and embrrassing aswell.

gypsey:
No! it wasn't like that. i really really really really liked her.

eh eh ok u liked her but never loved her, coz I know if u do love her u will marry her,u know they say love has no condition

Euphoria19:
All these my friend my friend story,it's either she's gay,uninterested in men or relationships and she probably wants you to mind your own damn business too and not broadcast her life on nairaland

i just got to know now that a girl can also be a gay...


Thanks to you...

Analysiscorner:

Hahaha!

Saliu - Bricklayer: Silifa, oro ta jo so nko?

Silifa - Rice Seller: Oro wo le mi ati yin jo so?

Saliu: Kajo ma se ti bi.

Silifa: Ti bi wo?

Saliu: Wole wode

Silifa: Ara yin o ya. Esa se kia ke ra ounti era. Eku ni sanwo.

Me - Mr. Konji Destoyer: (very agitated in the hot Nigeria sun) Look, Saliu, I thought you said we only needed 5 bags of cement, what's this no more cement I'm hearing.

Saliu: (Speaking under his breadth) eyinbo no ma so kura bi eye opere.

31.... @OP please am seriously interested, how do i get her contact of something....

safarigirl:
sometimes, guys misread signs.

For instance, I like to walk around with a headset on, people assume I'm a snob because of this, but I reply greetings and even smile at strangers who greet me.

Is it until I carry a sign on my head that says 'available' that I will be taken seriously?

Buhahahahaha...you just might resort to that

This one is strong.

Hope OP don marry too?

She might be aromantic or asexual. . .

Nov6:


i just got to know now that a girl can also be a gay...


Thanks to you...

How can you not know,gay is used only for guys,it can also be used for lesbian ladies

Martin0:
eh eh ok u liked her but never loved her, coz I know if u do love her u will marry her,u know they say love has no condition

Love? nah! there is no way! I am marrying a girl with bad breath. I can manage if her vagina smells but mouth odour?! gbrrrrŕrrrr!

gypsey:
well.. you are wrong if you want men to notice you don't walk around with headset, for we men it means you don't want to be disturbed or you want to be left alone. Besides it appears rude, believe it or not It's the fact!

I cannot do without that headset or earpiece, if I don't have it on, I feel awkward.

It's hard to explain sha, but I mostly use it when I'm walking...I walk really fast BTW, another thing I can't help.

But other times when I'm not with it, I don't know for men. I'm a great conversationalist, I like to make people laugh and stiff, doesn't matter what I do or say, I never really hit it. Maybe it's because of the way I look

JeffreyJamez:



Buhahahahaha...you just might resort to that

Eez nuh that serious. If I knack 30 I no see man, na to adopt remain. I cannuh kill myself

gypsey:
Love? nah! there is no way! I am marrying a girl with bad breath. I can manage if her vagina smells but mouth odour?! gbrrrrŕrrrr!

Negodu btw mouth and virgina which is more dangerous?

Well I thank God u run oooo prevention is better than cure

Blesso222:
A childhood friend of mine who is now 31 has never been in love, no guy is telling her I love you. She is good looking, educated and well discipline.

And we are just wondering what could be the problem.
Please help.....

She is an Asexual.
Read up.

dacovajnr:
Well I changed my email again just now to confirm your claim, here's it. Just click on Edit profile and scroll down then click on "change email" and replace it with the new one you intend to use.

i just tried I again and I gave me same reply as always "email already exists'

It doesn't change, I'm tired of bothering, maybe they locked mine or something

I know the lady, she is dark, beautiful, banker and very religious. she attends redeem church, no ear ring, make-up, trouser. she has Never been into any relationship, She is kind. I wish she can change church n start making good hair. Her man Will come.

gypsey:
well.. you are wrong! if you want men to notice you don't walk around with headset, for we men it means you don't want to be disturbed or you want to be left alone. Besides it appears rude, believe it or not It's the fact! i can't have a convo with someone who can not respond because they are appears to be listening to something more important on their headset.
It's like when you are trying to get someone to notice you and they more interested on their smart phones. it's very rude and annoying childish and embrrassing aswell.

This simple truth you just told her now watch how she will come out to defend herself,or she might probably just not sound defensive anymore coz I said so

OP u probably left ur hubby in the friendzone

Blesso222:
A childhood friend of mine who is now 31 has never been in love, no guy is telling her I love you. She is good looking, educated and well discipline.

And we are just wondering what could be the problem.
Please help.....

it's quite unfortunate...put her pix on dating site or nairaland you never can tell

safarigirl:
this one is a blatant lie. Nobody dey woo me, so where did you getgb this average data from?

@OP, it could be for a myriad of reasons....maybe she, like me, no too dey comot, and when she does, she comes off as unapproachable.

It could also be that she isn't open to certain behaviors in public, which, once again, makes her seem like a prude.

It could also be that she has a certain standard that is hard for most guys to attain, so even if she shas toasters, they aren't her ideal men

See ehn, sometimes, pesin no just get luck, cuz I see girls with terrible characters getting married and all they have going for them is maybe ass and boobs.

Nobody is wooing you and you are cute like this. Madam please can you join me in 21 days prayer and fasting. I will also asks my pastors to be interceding for you.

This year is your year IJN.

Blesso222:
A childhood friend of mine who is now 31 has never been in love, no guy is telling her I love you. She is good looking, educated and well discipline.

And we are just wondering what could be the problem.
Please help.....

Never been in love? like never met one that gives her butterflies feeling? No guy is telling her "I love you"?? The no guy is telling her I love you got me... Can I please see a picture of her

safarigirl:
I cannot do without that headset or earpiece, if I don't have it on, I feel awkward.

It's hard to explain sha, but I mostly use it when I'm walking...I walk really fast BTW, another thing I can't help

well.. I could never understand, I mean, I can't have a convo with someone who appears to be listening to something more important than having a conversation with me or noticing that I may be interested in them.

it's like trying to get someone to notice you and they are busy typing away on their smart phones. to me it means "leave me alone!" it's annoying, childish and iritatingly embrrassing. it wouldn't not matter if you gave all the smiles on earth but not show any interest in what I have to say or make reasonable eye contact.

as i ve mentioned you might not be aware that it puts men off.but again it's the fact! take it from a very confident guy

She gonna get the Wright guy at the due time...is not yet time for her to get a man of her choice. God's time is always the best. Where does she base?

Martin0:
This simple truth you just told her now watch how she will come out to defend herself,or she might probably just not sound defensive anymore coz I said so

we will see!

gypsey:
well.. I could never understand, I mean, I can't have a convo with someone who appears to be listening to something more important than having a conversation with me or noticing that I may be interested in them.

it's like trying to get someone to notice you and they are busy typing away on their smart phones. to me it means "leave me alone!" it's annoying, childish and iritatingly embrrassing. it wouldn't not matter if you gave all the smiles on earth but not show any interest in what I have to say or make reasonable eye contact.

as i ve mentioned you might not be aware that it puts men off.but again it's the fact! take it from a very confident guy

i modified the post.

Even when i don't have a headset on and I strike a conversation, it's never enough and i'm a great conversationalist (not just saying that, but I've heard it from people i converse with)

Maybe it's cuz of the way I look (kinda small), or maybe because I don't put in extra effor to get attention like some girls do.... Dunno sha, but it's not always as straight a line as these things look

may Lord Jesus Christ comfort her

safarigirl:
I cannot do without that headset or earpiece, if I don't have it on, I feel awkward.

It's hard to explain sha, but I mostly use it when I'm walking...I walk really fast BTW, another thing I can't help.

But other times when I'm not with it, I don't know for men. I'm a great conversationalist, I like to make people laugh and stiff, doesn't matter what I do or say, I never really hit it. Maybe it's because of the way I look

so your headset appears more appealing than men? *jokes* besides if you always walking fast who are you trying to get away from? *jokes* and how then can you stop and chat if you are that in a hurry? all this is a complete put off! for us men it means you are not interested. infact it means you hate people! or men same way you feel awkward is the same way you make others feel awkward with your headset

Blesso222:
A childhood friend of mine who is now 31 has never been in love, no guy is telling her I love you. She is good looking, educated and well discipline.

And we are just wondering what could be the problem.
Please help.....

Her lifestyle and Attitude is the problem

..... That kind of scenario is still exiatent in my familia, so i know what am talking about.

gypsey:
we will see!

hahah yeah!!

Blesso222:
A childhood friend of mine who is now 31 has never been in love, no guy is telling her I love you. She is good looking, educated and well discipline.

And we are just wondering what could be the problem.
Please help.....

her picture maybe I can help

safarigirl:
Eez nuh that serious. If I knack 30 I no see man, na to adopt remain. I cannuh kill myself

Huh? I don't think it can be that bad sha. Are you not the one on your profile? Gbagbe