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| "Naija Men Don't Like Marrying First-born Ladies?" by PDPGuy: 10:55pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Many Nigerian men once they discover that a lady is the first born, they lose interest. What is the cause? I culled this post from 'Green9ja'. |
| Re: "Naija Men Don't Like Marrying First-born Ladies?" by DarkMagic(m): 10:56pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
All lies  |
| Re: "Naija Men Don't Like Marrying First-born Ladies?" by Paulpaulpaul(m): 10:56pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Yes, this is because your own supposed first born is the last born of the girl's family. You are already paying School fees, buy uniform and books before you born your own. Simply put, the financial burden is mostly too much from the wife's family. In some people's house, wife's siblings will even be dragging remote with the husband |
| Re: "Naija Men Don't Like Marrying First-born Ladies?" by ekensi01: 11:00pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
May be i would go for first borns am actually dating a last born she is giving me headache. 1 Like |
| Re: "Naija Men Don't Like Marrying First-born Ladies?" by Nobody: 11:37pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
 funny, if only you knew... |
| Re: "Naija Men Don't Like Marrying First-born Ladies?" by Burgerlomo: 11:54pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Smart peeps, may be they're trying to run away from her immediate family responsibilities |
| Re: "Naija Men Don't Like Marrying First-born Ladies?" by luminouz(m): 11:57pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Rorachy:Knew what  ? |
| Re: "Naija Men Don't Like Marrying First-born Ladies?" by PDPGuy: 12:01am On Aug 03, 2017 |
Burgerlomo:Men do not want to be responsible for paying school fees for the wife's 4 siblings But I don't see it as a problem if the wife is from an upper middle class or rich family; the issue always arises if the wife's family are relatively poor. |
| Re: "Naija Men Don't Like Marrying First-born Ladies?" by Burgerlomo: 12:02am On Aug 03, 2017 |
PDPGuy: You got it |
| Re: "Naija Men Don't Like Marrying First-born Ladies?" by Amarabae(f): 12:05am On Aug 03, 2017 |
The same way when I was growing up, I decided that I will not marry a guy who is a Lastborn. Lols. |
| Re: "Naija Men Don't Like Marrying First-born Ladies?" by PDPGuy: 12:22am On Aug 03, 2017 |
Amarabae:If you don't mind, why? |
| Re: "Naija Men Don't Like Marrying First-born Ladies?" by PDPGuy: 12:25am On Aug 03, 2017 |
Burgerlomo:All I know is that I ain't gonna be permanently responsible for her siblings' tuition, but I can help out occasionally with other needs. |
| Re: "Naija Men Don't Like Marrying First-born Ladies?" by Burgerlomo: 12:33am On Aug 03, 2017 |
PDPGuy: The word occasionally is what some greedy, selfish and self centered in laws don't want to hear at all, so it better you take full responsibility if you want to be their favorite. But you're good to go with the word occasionally if you have a good and reasonable in laws. |
| Re: "Naija Men Don't Like Marrying First-born Ladies?" by Nobody: 6:23am On Aug 03, 2017 |
Some women also don't like marrying first born males. They are most times saddled with lots of responsibilities. It's not only men with that mindset. 1 Like |
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