Marriage is built on the principles of sacrifice, and too much of self love cannot keep u in marriage, u always complain about ur husband or wife, but when it comes to reporting yourself to someone, u never say what u do wrong. Let me tell u, u are just playing with yourself, if you truly want to make it work you must be ready to loose everything, I mean your so called swag, which is done wrongly, u must be ready to accept your reality and make conscious effort to change what you are facing by affirming that you want peace and follow the steps to reconciliation.
I remember our mothers seemed to be stupid but it paid off, most of us grew up with mum's because they could at least tolerate to an extent and yet we criticise them at times. This generation doesn't endure at all when it comes to relationship, everyone is a boss and is in charge.
Don't rush into a marriage because u want to marry and cannot handle the pressure of marriage, it's not child's play, neither is marriage for ice cream and happy times only, in fact people face hard times more than good times in marriage. Naturally anger and pain comes to us but we have to make efforts to get happiness, just reading the Bible and speaking in tongues is not enough, your personal decision to do what is right to have a happy home is very important.
Some can't even handle reconciliation, so they prefer conflicts but if u ask them they say they have done everything they could, stop lying to yourself, you are not ready to marry.
I challenge you to go and make it work. Believe in the use of REASON rather than SENTIMENTS.
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