ma fellow nairalanders i need ya help, i dont jus get it why do we alwayz luv d pple who care less bout us n ignore d ones who re crazy bout us? guezz we've all asked ourselves dat question, so if u find urself in such a situation wat do u do? alot of pple wud say 4get bout d one dat doesnt care about u n go 4 d one dat does but bliv mi itz rilly difficult,
           my story begins like diz, there is diz guy i met randomly,we exchanged numbers and all dat n became jus friends,after a long while we got 2 hang out n after hangin out i realized dat i waz into diz guy lyk mad, as in i fell madly inlove wiv him, second time we hanged out i made a move 4 a kiss n he reciprocated, later on i found out he had a galfrnd, d problem now is dat i wanna knw aw diz guy feels bout mi,anytime i ask him he alwayz dodge d question,n besides dat he is fond of giving mi mixed signals, like 2day he is into me n 2moro he is not! ma frndz av asked mi 2 stay awy 4rm d guy but d more i try d more i keep coming back 4 more coz despite d fact i knw he has a gal frnd,i dont really care,

Yo! U gotta care

1. He has a girlfriend
2. He has a girlfriend
3. He has a girlfriend

Please we should all try to put ourselves in other peoples shoes for a change. I know its hard and you like him etc but he does have a girlfriend and from what you describe of him, he doesnt sound like a very nice person especially with his cheating and mind-games. You can do better.

@ mama bear, u are in a difficult situation but u have to walk away in order to save ur sanity and dignity dude has got a girlfriend! Sorry to say u are his jump off,  to put kindly he is only into you when he is Hot, I bet he tells all the sweet things you want 2 hear as soon as he has his cake story will change. My dear abeg waka u dont need this kind of drama in your life.

I agree with Ebony, he has a girlfriend----- i know its gonna be hard but u have to move on.

Why in the world would you be content playing second fiddle in a man's life?

@ebony i knw he has a galfrnd n i knw she is a fellow gal like mi so wat im doin 2 her aint fair but av tried,av really tried 2 stay away itz like d more i try d more i realize dat i love him so much!!! ma intention is not 2 hurt anyone really @ scooby hmmm datz d irony of it all dat im lovin sumone who doesnt care bout mi, infacts sum of ma frndz fink dat maybe d guy jazzed mi( no bi wiv clear eye) @ oblong av heard dat like a 100xs but do u really fink itz easy 2 move on? av u ever realy loved a gal n she tells u she has a bf do u giv up? itz not easy 2 move esp wen u're in love,

its not love, u r obsessed. Report yourself to your mother and see what she says.

@ oge wel i dnt fink im content wiv dat guezz datz wat d luv caused, doesnt mk u see clearly
@mr oblong why of all pple wud i ask ma mother

@ poster
my dear i've been in this situation like u be4, pls just walk away from him i know it'll hurt but u've got leave he, when u do u'll see clearly, trust me i stayed with this guy for more than a year and he still tok me as nothing.

women like you give other women bad reps. she has a girlfriend ffs.

why don't you find yourself an unhitched man to kiss and Bleep wtfits

obsessed

free the guy jare

@ Poster

Your are still in fantasy island! But if you really love d guy, just cooler for one corner till he is single again!

[size=13pt]i wonder why some pple can be so insensitive to other pples issues
this kinda thing happens evryday so why are we crucifying someone that openly talked about hers
some guys dont mind dating other pples girlfriends nd yet they open their mouths to use derogatory terms on this person
its not fair. . . . . . . .
@ poster i think you need to chill out take a deep breath and think of other options you have
am sure there is some one out there for you,stop hanging out with him cos he might just want to use you on the long run
free him[/size]

@ Guugles

Have you heard that truth are discovered in the midst of much laughter, gist, talk, and flattery!

So therefore, we cant be too serious and too funny but we shall be both!

Taken:

@ Guugles

Have you heard that truth are discovered in the midst of much laughter, gist, talk, and flattery!

So therefore, we cant be too serious and too funny but we shall be both!

[size=13pt]yea i do make jokes here too but not on sensitive cases like these
and most of the guys were making her look like a . . . . i dunno
its just not fair[/size]

@ Poster

Seriously, the issue of love or affection is a mystery - we can not but laugh at how confused most of us are when love bugs visited out skins.
Yeah, it is a true word - only fools fall in love, including moi!

@topic. Just tell me two good things about this guy and I'll tell u if u are in love or obsessed.

@h202 wateva, fanks y'all 4ya advise,most esp google gal, fanks 4 standin up 4mi! @taken fanks also, but cud u guyz plz tel aw 2 move oncoz itz so difficult,a frnd told mi 2 date sumone else n i'd 4get bout him imediately, i tried but it didnt work coz i still had feelins 4 dat guy!

monkey

u dont care he has a gf??

see ur hed!!!

i wish i knew u so i could beat u well well!

ayettymama:

monkey

u dont care he has a gf??

see your hed!!!

i wish i knew u so i could beat u well well!

aha na wah 4 u o, as u fine reach na im u tough?

yeaaaap

im miss tyson!

every one loves a bad boy or a man they cant have, duh when ur 21, guess uve got a lot of time to waste
story goes man has a wife, but is having an affair wiv his secretary, man divorces wife n marries secretary
now there is a new vacancy 4 a secretary since old secretary is now wife
husband hires new sexy secretary
husband now starts affair wiv new secretary
old secretary now wife is livid when she finds out about the affair
wat goes around doesnt always come around but do u really want anoda womans tingy=====mixed signals, only a person that likes or wants to be decieved will see a red light n call it a mixed signal, i hope ur conversant wiv traffic lights===jst kiddin

@poster,
Seat of d guys FIRST LADY is already taken, u may contest for FIRST CONCUBINE!

If you walk away you deserve every good thing, if you stay to pursue him then you deserve all the bad coming your way! He doesnt belong to you so it doesnt matter how hard it is, its a non issue cos he is with someone else, end of story!

If you take him off this girlfriend then how will you feel when another girl comes and takes him off you?? He is NOT yours!!!

It also sounds like a case of, 'wanting what you cant have'!!! More than love!

He has a girlfreind, so you have no choice but to leave him alone and look for a new boy. Sorry but that's life hun.

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If you walk away you deserve every good thing, if you stay to pursue him then you deserve all the bad coming your way! He doesnt belong to you so it doesnt matter how hard it is, its a non issue cos he is with someone else, end of story!

If you take him off this girlfriend then how will you feel when another girl comes and takes him off you?? He is NOT yours!!!

kinda agree wiv u on dat!!!!!!!!! u guyz shud jus pray 4mi 2 get ova him!