@poster
finally after u get married, ,i believe someday u will still hang out with single babes,then ur feeling now will disappear .lol

Petosh:

Na married men alone dey love abi?

Married Men are more caring, time keepers,spend cash$,holiday trips and also discuss *sex* before/after.

Its safer with a married man. . . . .You know exactly where the relationship is heading . .

No where. . ._{Everybody is in it for the s3x and money! ! !}

Its not luxury to the girls.

Well, I dont do such.

Yesterday was quite an eye opener for me. I was hanging out with some friends all married men and I was the only guy there who had no val. They all had chicks hanging on to their sleeves and their wives were at home. Now these are young pretty girls who should be running things with a dude like me not those balding guys. Of course after they have been used and dumped you can be sure that I will never go near any of them again, then they will start to complain that they cant find husbands. It's so annoying!

Why should you be bothered?

u know, its a phenomenom i cant understand, a single lady called me up on vals day asking me to come take her out, i was suprised cos we be just friends, i told her no, that i was taking my wife and little daughter out, she was furuios oh,  on monday @ the office, she refused to answer my greetings, i havent talked to her since then, quite funny, really funny

its now a normal thing,we just ve to deal wt it

Every where I look, i see more reasons to dread marriage! How would one marry these sorts of shameless, possesed tramps!

**sighs and raises hands in supplication**

@ try100, c, every day i thank mGod for thr kinda of woman i married, its a beautiful experience if u marry ur friend, many of us get married for the wrong reasons and with the wrong notions, dont jump, be careful and be displined and God will work it out for u, dont be afraid, just be truthful, careful and dedicated

They do it for the sake of money not any other thing. How can you tell me that a man that has children and wife to look after wil still show more care than a guy who value his babe?

it's not love. it's MONEY

pro01:

Every where I look, i see more reasons to dread marriage! How would one marry these sorts of shameless, possesed tramps!

**sighs and raises hands in supplication**

come on!!

generally, women have it better in their youth (when they still have their looks) while men have it better from middle age and on (when they start making lots of money).
come back on here when u are 40, have got a stable job and full freedom and satisfaction and maybe ur ideas won't change!!! u may even become one of the potbellied men the op is describing.

I think it works both ways. I had an experience, and realised how very easy it is to fall into this trap. Esp when you are working with the man.
The ring doesn't stop u from trippin for the person,but if u've always had strong moral convictions, you won't give in.

generally, women have it better in their youth (when they still have their looks) while men have it better from middle age and on (when they start making lots of money).
come back on here when u are 40, have got a stable job and full freedom and satisfaction and maybe your ideas won't change!!!

Word!!!!!!!