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How To Correct A Child At Different Age Grades. by Nobody: 2:34pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
HOW TO RELATE WITH YOUR CHILD By Dr Bukola Williams Read carefully, most people lacked these in their lives. Little wonder their behavioral pattern. In psychology, it has been established that a child's personality would have formed by the age of 5. This gives insight into how to relate with a child and as he/she grows up. 1. Be a parent to the child between birth and 12 years of age. This is when the spankings, etc can come in. Whatever you don't correct at this age, forget about correcting later. Correct their perceptions, their orientations, etc. Be available to physically incorporate values into them. 2. From the age of 13-19, you are to be a friend to them. Many parents want to do core parenting at this age range. If you didn't achieve that earlier, you may not succeed outrightly here. Note that one significant factor that can help the child at this phase is the God-factor. If they find God at this age or earlier, they will likely stick to Him forever. 3. From age 20 and above, the best you can be to the 'child' is a mentor. At this phase, be an inspiration to him/her. Let your life inspire him/her. Let your marriage inspire. Inspire them to do things rather than wanting to push your way through. You cannot be adopting spanking and slappings at this age. That is if you are not slapped back. Because if you did a good job, you won't have to be slapping a 25 year old. Conclusion... 1. Never stop praying for your child however old they grow. Never stop committing them to God's hands. 2. Never stop being a parent no matter how old they grow, but don't forget that life is in phases and maximize every phase of their lives by the right approach. Your child is not just the body you see but a soul with an eternity. Parents have a role to play in where that eternity would be. #copied
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Re: How To Correct A Child At Different Age Grades. by Angelparadise: 2:50pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Nice |
Re: How To Correct A Child At Different Age Grades. by Nobody: 2:51pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Na so, for Naija 0-12: Beatings 13-19: More beatings 20 and above: "you think because you're now an adult, you've outgrown being beaten abi? It's a lie! As long as I am your parent, you can never be too old to be disciplined. Go and get my belt..." |
Re: How To Correct A Child At Different Age Grades. by Nobody: 3:49pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Dem still dey slap me at SS3 ooooo Say I follow our neighbor fair fine girl talk for staircase. Chai I suffered. Love eeeeeeeh |
Re: How To Correct A Child At Different Age Grades. by Nobody: 3:50pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
My sister pampered her first son so much that when she started beating him, it was just to late. I don't support spanking children at every little provocation. But you need to instill values at a particular stage of their life, if you miss this, its over for that child |
Re: How To Correct A Child At Different Age Grades. by Dlionsheart: 4:53pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Thanks @op Nice one |
Re: How To Correct A Child At Different Age Grades. by Nobody: 4:58pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Spank at the right time/ age
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Re: How To Correct A Child At Different Age Grades. by Nobody: 4:59pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Talk to them at the right time/ age
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Re: How To Correct A Child At Different Age Grades. by Nobody: 5:00pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
But please, do not abuse them
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