Berbierklaus:
Lemme explain this to you the best way I can,have it at the back of your mind that we are all learning.

Now,you have a girlfriend/wife who is violent and tries to ruffle you up during an argument and as a man you get angry, you don't want to hit her,you refrain,you even manage to escape her because she is a woman.

You are doing that because you have self discipline.
It is established that men are generally physically stronger than women,now imagine you react back by giving her a hot slap,she can go deaf or blind or have serious headache etc. But if a women who is weaker than you slaps you,it hardly have much lasting effect on you.

But generally my advice for men and women is to avoid such violent people,take them for therapy,keep praying for them,then don't let them influence kids around them.
Mos violent people are influenced by their upbringing.

orbis:
Everyone tells you never to hit a woman that you become less of a man when you do that. How about a woman who hits you and slaps you around but you refrain from hitting the shit out of her so you will be called manly. I was in a relationship where this chick swore i had to beat her to show my true love whenever she fuckup. I have tried not to beat any of my ladies but what d heck do you do when a nagging babe locks the door and grips your shirt when you try to walk out of a potentially beating situation.

Berbierklaus:
Lemme explain this to you the best way I can,have it at the back of your mind that we are all learning.

Now,you have a girlfriend/wife who is violent and tries to ruffle you up during an argument and as a man you get angry, you don't want to hit her,you refrain,you even manage to escape her because she is a woman.

You are doing that because you have self discipline.
It is established that men are generally physically stronger than women,now imagine you react back by giving her a hot slap,she can go deaf or blind or have serious headache etc. But if a women who is weaker than you slaps you,it hardly have much lasting effect on you.

But generally my advice for men and women is to avoid such violent people,take them for therapy,keep praying for them,then don't let them influence kids around them.
Mos violent people are influenced by their upbringing.

Berbierklaus:
Lemme explain this to you the best way I can,have it at the back of your mind that we are all learning.

Now,you have a girlfriend/wife who is violent and tries to ruffle you up during an argument and as a man you get angry, you don't want to hit her,you refrain,you even manage to escape her because she is a woman.

You are doing that because you have self discipline.
It is established that men are generally physically stronger than women,now imagine you react back by giving her a hot slap,she can go deaf or blind or have serious headache etc. But if a women who is weaker than you slaps you,it hardly have much lasting effect on you.

But generally my advice for men and women is to avoid such violent people,take them for therapy,keep praying for them,then don't let them influence kids around them.
Mos violent people are influenced by their upbringing.

That is the most "sexist" thing I have read this month!

It's wrong to slap anyone(Male/Female) there is no sane reason "in Existence" that justifies a woman hitting a man

The logic that you present........ Is the argument that weak-minded people use to excuse their hypocrisy

Kondomatic:
Just listen to yourself @emboldened

coolcatty:


You dey mind the girl....

I will never be the first to exhibit any form of violence on any human being... But I will surely retaliate if anyone hits me first... Whether man or woman.... If you can't dialogue like a sane human being then go to the room and cool off.... Nobody has monopoly of violence.

Hit me... I hit u back....

Berbierklaus:
Lemme explain this to you the best way I can,have it at the back of your mind that we are all learning.

Now,you have a girlfriend/wife who is violent and tries to ruffle you up during an argument and as a man you get angry, you don't want to hit her,you refrain,you even manage to escape her because she is a woman.

You are doing that because you have self discipline.
It is established that men are generally physically stronger than women,now imagine you react back by giving her a hot slap,she can go deaf or blind or have serious headache etc. But if a women who is weaker than you slaps you,it hardly have much lasting effect on you.

But generally my advice for men and women is to avoid such violent people,take them for therapy,keep praying for them,then don't let them influence kids around them.
Mos violent people are influenced by their upbringing.

Berbierklaus:
I don't condone violence from male/female.

But if you face a woman who isn't half as strong as you and start panel beating her like that man up there described,I hope you will be satisfied when you finally make her disabled or dead as we keep reading and seeing every day.

Best thing to do is end any relationship with a violent person(male/female).

If you don't agree with my comment don't insult me,show some manners,to that G.O.A.T that called me silly up there,thank you.

Kondomatic:
Bros.


It is not right to hit people irrespective of their gender but a woman should remember that she's a woman before attacking a man. If for any reason she forgets that she's a woman and attacks you, avoid creating a scene if you can.

Try walking away if that's her first or maybe second time, but if she's truly abusive(that's if you're not pushing her to the wall) then forget what the society will say.

Forget that she's a woman and give her a Vandam triple ushuro kick.

If she is still standing then pat her on the center of her head with Jet Li kakato geri.

If by chance she's still standing then kill the worms in her belly with Jackie Chan's Buddha palm and then poke her forehead with Jackie's snake fist and she will definitely drop.

No go watch any daughter of second Timothy kill you because they said we should not hit a woman, there's no gentleman in the grave.

RuthDaniels:
Op,the "If you hit a woman , you become less a man" isn't to cage or manipulate you but to elevate your thinking,self discipline and maturity in handling violence.

Women are known to sometimes act irrational, appalling,uncontrollable,Aggressive and Emotional, Some act before thinking. But it is expected of Man to act calmly when they are in their hypersensitive state. Not because he is a fool or because he is weak but for sanity sake.

Humans irrespective of genders must learn to control their reactions. No one is anyone's fool! Male or Female, act humanly! . It is very wrong to treat a fellow being badly and expect to be praised or ignored, When we see each other the way we see ourselves, we will treat one another nicely.
Sanity demands : In a tensed environment or situation, there must be two opposite reactions. One partner must be calm while the other foams else conflagration is set to occur.

Kondomatic:
You people present women as immature beings that are incapable of controlling their tongues, emotions etc.

When you push a man, he will step back but there is a limit to how many steps he can take back and there's no telling what he will do when he reaches the dead end.

Instead of telling men to always walk away, how about telling women to stop chasing their husbands away?
How long will a man walk away because of an adult who's incapable of expressing her anger, frustration or whatever in a sane manner?

Like I always say, no man hits a real woman and real women rarely give men reason to walk away talk more of raisins hands. If you attack like a man, I will definitely hit you back like a man and I give no damn to what you and the society thinks of me.

I need to be alive first to know that and dead people tells no tales.

poshestmina:


If the woman knows she isn't strong ,why hit a man? Haven't you read stories of women killing their husbands? Were the women stronger than their dead husbands?

What is WRONG is WRONG h'aunty.

poshestmina:


If the woman knows she isn't strong ,why hit a man? Haven't you read stories of women killing their husbands? Were the women stronger than their dead husbands?

What is WRONG is WRONG h'aunty.

orbis:
Most of the responses here from the ladies are really shocking....so it is ok for a woman to hit you as a man but we should not retaliate because they are weaker.

RuthDaniels:
Op,the "If you hit a woman , you become less a man" isn't to cage or manipulate you but to elevate your thinking,self discipline and maturity in handling violence.

Women are known to sometimes act irrational, appalling,uncontrollable,Aggressive and Emotional, Some act before thinking. But it is expected of Man to act calmly when they are in their hypersensitive state. Not because he is a fool or because he is weak but for sanity sake.

Humans irrespective of genders must learn to control their reactions. No one is anyone's fool! Male or Female, act humanly! . It is very wrong to treat a fellow being badly and expect to be praised or ignored, When we see each other the way we see ourselves, we will treat one another nicely.
Sanity demands : In a tensed environment or situation, there must be two opposite reactions. One partner must be calm while the other foams else conflagration is set to occur.

RuthDaniels:
I take it that you did not get the clear meaning of my post and further explanation will make it seem like I support women hitting Men. So I will reason with you from a different perspective.

In additions to the questions I asked where I quoted you directly, The one you invaded.. I will ask you these

What is your own way of solving violence?
Are you " an eye for an eye" follower?
Do you engage in physical fights with people to drive home your point?

If you are the violent type, then I will understand why you reason the way you do. But it will be very hypocritical and weak of you if your sense of judgement is based only on genders. I.e if you fight only women.

That said, I still maintain that No one should hit anyone irrespective of their genders. I see everyone as human first before their sex!

Kondomatic:
The way you handle violence is determined by the situation you're dealing with.
An angry wife is not always a violent one. Maybe she's doing what she's doing because she's had enough. In that case, she doesn't need anger management classes, rather it is the man that needs stop pissing her off management classes.
That is one.

Another one is when someone acts and then regrets her actions and apologizes, she may be violent due to her inability to think first before acting or her inability to control her anger. This is another situation.

But you can't compare the two examples with a bully. A bully does what she does because she feels better doing, she's neither sorry nor regretful and she feels good hurting you. Walking away solves nothing and there are chances that she may kill you at last. These are the people that I am talking about and the best solution is serving them with the very plate they washed.


Now talking about the mention that I intentionally ignored(I am talking about it now because we agree on something "nobody should hit anybody"
I ignored that comment because it is weighed heavily in favor of women. You were bias.

What you're saying is that it is mandatory for a man to be emotionally mature but optional for women. That is why we should always understand that they act irrationally sometimes. Your mind didn't tell you that not every body has "strong situation handling skills"

Your mind didn't tell you that some men are emotionally weaker than some women.

What you're saying is that a man should always take shits simply because he is a man

What you are doing indirectly is singling out male gender for violence and abuse.


I normally don't reply those who think men posses some qualities or kind of self control that even the gods don't have because if you're a Christian, you will know that Jesus at a point go mad and drove people out of the temple. Likewise God, he got angry severally and punished the people of Israel.

I will become a parent someday and I will tell my daughter that men hit women and nothing happens. I will let her know that the best thing to do when you're with someone who is stronger than you is either you make the person your friend or you stay away from the person completely.

I will let her understand that her tongue is a part of her body and her husband's hand is equally a part of his so if she continues losing control of her tongue, he might get tired of walking someday and hit her. And you know right that they're even.

I will tell her that whoever doesn't want to be hit should not hit.

Telling her that a real man doesn't hit a woman will make her do to him things that will make him hit her and she may die.

You are obviously trying to cover your wrong perception of things. My first comment to you shows how flawed your advice was. According to what you typed, you promoted violence and I was trying to point that to you. The question remains: What if the lady mistakenly injure or kill the original poster all in self defense?
whose lost would it be to then? Huh?

In my second comment the one you quoted, I was trying to explain to op why people use that quote "if you hit a woman..." blah blah blah. I wasn't bias!
My last paragraph explains it all.
Everyone has a limit, self control fail us all so it will be hypocritical of me to impose perfection on anyone. Women should learn to control their anger same way men should too.

One of the reasons I didn't explain the quote further is because of accusations like the one you just did. "indirectly singling men out...." like seriously?

I think what you should teach your daughter should be how to manage anger, solve misunderstandings maturely and without violence irrespective of whom it might be. That is the only thing that can help us all!

byvan03:
Everyone should keep their hands to themselves, if she slaps you, return it in equal proportion . A woman that raises her hand to hit a man is no lady but a garage tout . A man that derives pleasure in hitting women just because he is stronger should also bear with her if she stabs him 1001 times in his sleep because she is weaker indeed. Keep your hands to yourselves, is that simple!!!

PaperLace:


Endorsed. No need for IQ draining arguments.

Shut up.

LastMumu:



Shut up.

orbis:


So alaye, are you saying its ok to brutalize your partner when she throws the first blow?
I look at the size if my biceps and i doubt if any babe would survive because even the men who have felt its power were not the same again....